She dumped me

KustmAce · #1 06-08-2004, 03:57 PM

I got a text message after I finished with my football speed camp that said "call me when you get done, i need to talk to you". So I did, she asks if she can come over. Sure. She gets here, and drops the fuckin a-bomb on little old unsuspecting Tim. Why? You might ask, I am still wondering that myself. Her explanation was that we were too different. Unfortunately, I dont really buy that.

I guess it wasnt meant to be, I mean, too good to be true, or something. She was the perfect girl, and she was mine. But alas, no more.

Fuck this shit

YogsVR4 · #2 06-08-2004, 04:03 PM

Its always rough, but its something we all go through.

kittedb18bt · #3 06-08-2004, 04:07 PM

how about never get into the dating scene? thats the way i am, i have never been on a date and i am 21.
on the other hand this could be (and is) terrible advice that i am giving you. i have been reading some articles on the askmen.com (thanks Jay) website, and i have learned a whole heck of a bunch about relationships.
this reply is not coming from experience, but people will just tell you its something you have to learn from. sorry it happened. hope the best for you.

coozy · #4 06-08-2004, 04:23 PM

Even though it hurts now, it will make you stronger in the long run. Hang in there.

RSX-S777 · #5 06-08-2004, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by KustmAce

Fuck this shit

How many times have men expressed this exact sentiment...
But at least she was mature enough to handle it the way she did
Hang in, youre a good guy, you'll do fine.

Anyone wanna bet 10 bucks OZ has been to "Speed" Camp, also?

Karen512 · #6 06-08-2004, 04:46 PM

Sorry man, I feel your pain. We all eventually get dumped and shit on sometime in life. On the bright side at least now you are free to do what you want to do. Go out with your friends tonite and drink a bunch of beers!!!!! I know that's not the best advice, but it'll get your mind off the crappy situation for a bit.
By the way, here is a big hug for you from me. Smile.

KustmAce · #7 06-08-2004, 05:48 PM

Thanks fellas...and ladies

. Im not as torn up as I thought I was going to be. I dunno, maybe it justs hasnt hit me yet, or maybe she was right.

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Originally Posted by RSX-S777

But at least she was mature enough to handle it the way she did

Im really thankful for that too. I have had many friends get dumped via phone, IM or even email.

Anyway, I guess news travels fast, because someone from school asked me out today. But, Im still thinking about it. I dont want to do anything I would regret.

Thanks for your comments

RSX-S777 · #8 06-08-2004, 06:16 PM

Look at this fucking guy. A proposition for a date AND a hug from Karen on the first day of bachelorhood.

KustmAce · #9 06-08-2004, 08:00 PM

What can I say...

Strider Negro · #10 06-08-2004, 08:56 PM

just chill and hang out with all your friends man. How long were you two together?

-Davo · #11 06-08-2004, 09:01 PM

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Originally Posted by KustmAce

I got a text message after I finished with my football speed camp that said "call me when you get done, i need to talk to you". So I did, she asks if she can come over. Sure. She gets here, and drops the fuckin a-bomb on little old unsuspecting Tim. Why? You might ask, I am still wondering that myself. Her explanation was that we were too different. Unfortunately, I dont really buy that.

I guess it wasnt meant to be, I mean, too good to be true, or something. She was the perfect girl, and she was mine. But alas, no more.

Fuck this shit

Could you feeling it coming? I mean, did you expect something to happen, like an argument/split/break up etc?

At least she had the balls to face you in person. Pam couldn't even ring me to tell me. She just sent me a message.

KustmAce · #12 06-08-2004, 10:29 PM

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Originally Posted by -Davo

Could you feeling it coming? I mean, did you expect something to happen, like an argument/split/break up etc?

At least she had the balls to face you in person. Pam couldn't even ring me to tell me. She just sent me a message.

When a girl says "we need to talk", somethings up. But I had no idea that that was coming. I mean, everything wa going so great.

And Strider, we had been together for a month and a half. Not long, I know, but pretty long for me.

Prelewd · #13 06-09-2004, 01:12 AM

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Originally Posted by KustmAce

When a girl says "we need to talk", somethings up. But I had no idea that that was coming. I mean, everything wa going so great.

And Strider, we had been together for a month and a half. Not long, I know, but pretty long for me.

Hey man.. don't worry about it. Just keep your mind off of it with modeling and other hobbies.

If you are mature about the situation, she will eventually see that and might put in a good word with her nice/hot friends. Girls seem to recognize that sort of thing.

I'll leave you with the cliche but true thing to say in this situation.. There's plenty of fish in the sea.

l33tc4k30fd00m · #14 06-09-2004, 03:39 AM

Ah I was worried when I read "text message". I'm glad she had some guts...

As another guy I understand what you're going through... Hang tough.

Oh and askmen can BURN IN HELL. Damn Commie Nazis.

-Davo · #15 06-09-2004, 08:10 AM

you normally can tell if you really like a person after a month and a half. She obviously just didn't share the feelings you had for her.

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