GF Help

[ViperJ]

Hey guys, here the deal me and this girl have been friends since about December (2004) you know going out (only as friends unfortunately) and I want to be more than friends know (I don’t see her much at school because she is a sophomore and I am a junior so we don’t have the same classes) the only problem is I don’t know how to tell her this. I mean I can’t call her up and say hey lets go see a movie. Btw I want to be your boyfriend. Hey if anyone can help that would be cool. I mean this sucks I get pissed at every guy she talks to like I am her boyfriend but I am not. So any help would be appreciated.

[grimmy]

so you're saying you haven't met her yet?
well when you do, don't forget to remind her how good she looks, then slowly build up from there

[ViperJ]

No I have meet her. We have been friends for a while but now I want to be more than friends. When I first met here I didn’t want to be BF+GF but now I do.

[dayna240sx]

just start hanging out with her more outside of school. I dont see why you cant ask her to a movie since you are friends.

[YogsVR4]

Hey guys, here the deal me and this girl have been friends since about December (2004) you know going out

since about December (2004)

Listen buddy, I have this idea or two for your time machine.....

[RSX-S777]

Suck it up. Be a man and ask her out/ tell her the truth about how you feel. Don't be a wimp and hope she eventually reads your mind. And don't start getting jealous of other guys, either- especially when youre not her boyfriend- thats a great way to show her you have a real confidence problem

[MBTN]

Sorry to say, but welcome to the friend zone. You became her friend, not her BF. If you ask her out, she will more than likely say no and say "I thought we were just friends". It sucks, I've been there. After that it's damn hard to even look at them.

[ViperJ]

I was thinking the same thing as MBTN. Oh well I guess. Well I guess ill ask her and se what happens from there.

Originally Posted by MBTN

After that it's damn hard to even look at them.

If that happens it doesnt matter as much because she is going to a new school next year.

[Ace$nyper]

gotta just be cool with it but blunt its always the hardest part but worse to worse you got a friend and that matters a ton

[pickle]

Just ask her. Maybe she feels the same, if not prepare for "I know you too well" or "Let's just be friends". Either way, you'll both get over it eventually.

[Oz]

Walk straight up to her and say "I remember when you used to look like that for me". Then walk off and ignore her for the rest of the night.

[Jay!]

REQUIRED READING:

Don't Be Her Friend

Going From Friendship To More

Make Her Want More Than Just Friendship

Don't Be Her Stooge

Avoid Becoming Her "Friend"

When She Wants To Be "Friends First"

When Is A Date A "Real" Date?


And, if you don't manage to get this one to be more-than-a-friend...
Can Gal-Pals Help You Meet Women?

While you're there, go ahead and read all of those Doc Love articles.

[Soyo]

lol awesome links man

I know how you feel dude, I've been in that situation a ton, usually ends up for the worst but we still stay friends, but you just gotta tell yourself that if she doesn't like you then your not right for each other and you'll find the girl for you eventually, and when you do, you'll be glad you waited... a girl acctually told me that last part, and I've experienced it so its deffinately true

good luck dude

[ViperJ]

Thanks for the links Jay. I read a couple and decided I just ask and see what happens, hopefully going to go out this weekend. And Soyo that last part makes sense, if she’s not right oh well I guess.

[Jay!]

Originally Posted by ViperJ

Thanks for the links Jay. I read a couple and decided I just ask and see what happens, hopefully going to go out this weekend. And Soyo that last part makes sense, if she’s not right oh well I guess.

Read ALL of them. Four times each. Seriously. Not kidding.

When you've read all of those, do read the other Doc Love articles... 100% helpful, each and every one.