Well, its like this now...

[Steel]

WEll, you all heard my ranting and raving about losing my g/f and all. Now she's dating my friend Chris. I dunno weather to laugh or cry. I mean, I know that he would take care of her, and wouldn't do anything that *I* wouldn't do (yes, I've been presented the chance, and no, I didn't take it). But then again....I'm still in love with her, she was MY girlfriend, MY crush, MY love...

How should i feel? its like the ying-yang inside of me is spinning outta control...

[Spec2 Girl]

I feel for you. I imagine this friend Chris is someone that you see quite a lot of?? That would really suck.

[1989 DX R]

Dude your love life has more ups and downs that the friggin Rocky Mountains! You seriously need an un-girlfriend, someone who isnt going for the whole love crap, but just wants to hang out. I think thats the best way to go until i have my 1st million $$

[Steel]

yeah......good idea.

[KatWoman]

Originally posted by 1989 DX R
You seriously need an un-girlfriend, someone who isnt going for the whole love crap, but just wants to hang out.

That's how Alex and I started out....just good buddies hanging out and doing to stuff to our cars. Then one day we were dating...he never officially asked me out or anything like that....it just happened. I think friends-first is a good thing.

[darkness]

Dude I've been in that exact situation.

I lost pretty much a whole group of friends over it as well. The problem was I still loved the ex at the time and thats what screwed it up.

I don't know if I should give any advice because I just left all those friends and found some new ones (thats how I come to be here).

Now I've spent over a year completely single, not even a date. But I'm doing pretty good.

[speediva]

I probably shouldn't post in here b/c I WAS the girl who dated one friend and then the other, but oh well...

Honestly, I'm hoping she's like me and my situation in that I really tried not to date the best friend... Sometimes things are inevitable. And though this is the last thing I expect from you, Steel, but just don't be a jackass about it all. You can say that it isn't your ideal choice and that there are other things that would make you happier, but don't give your friend all sorts of crap about how he's not worthy of her or how he doesn't know what it's like to do ______ (something) with her... It gets old... FAST.

I wish I could fully take your side on all this, but my one ex was the jackass mentioned above, so it's hard to really see your side.

[NismoDrifts]

im sorry dude, im lonely now too

Im also a bastard coz ive gonna out with friends of ex-gfs, i dunno....

my only advice is to let things go like they go, chill, make the best of it, everything will fall into place, i dunno what to say actually.....

just love cars, name the last girl you met with 200 ft lbs of torque?! errr...ok just ignore that........ enjoy being single, go out, have fun, just dont let it get to ya i guess.....

sorry man

[Steel]

no, im not being mean about it. Im being just the opposite, to the point of ridiculousness. I lied through my teeth when she asked if i was mad at all. I do every now and then get those feelings of extreme anger way deep down inside that last for a few seconds....but i just get sad, that's all. sad and (believe it or not) quiet, anti-social.

[NismoDrifts]

i know how that feels, it sucks

but i guess just let them do their whole thing, if it was true she'll come back, if not, you dont need her..........

i know it hurts though, we've all been through terrible breakups....

but at least she asked if it was ok, maybe you guys could just all be friends

[speediva]

Originally posted by Steel
no, im not being mean about it. Im being just the opposite, to the point of ridiculousness. I lied through my teeth when she asked if i was mad at all. I do every now and then get those feelings of extreme anger way deep down inside that last for a few seconds....but i just get sad, that's all. sad and (believe it or not) quiet, anti-social.

I don't mean that you can't say what you're feeling... Infact, I say go for it! Just don't do it all the time... They really do need to know how you feel. And in the end, it will make you all feel a bit better, too.