Why can't chicks just be starightforward???

[chavocrazy69]

Why don't girls just SAY what they mean? whats all this signal shit?
Ladies? Your thoughts? Guys?

[benny27]

what fun would it be that way though??

[integra818]

Originally Posted by chavocrazy69

Why don't girls just SAY what they mean? whats all this signal shit?
Ladies? Your thoughts? Guys?

Because they don't wanna break it to the guys 'the hard way', so they rather guys things like "let's just be friends", which means, "let's break up but I don't want you to be mad at me". Stupid girls.

[SniperX13]

with women, its supposed to be a challenge. there would be no reward if we understood them right away..... remember, God created the Earth and Man in 7 days and rested, God created women and hasn't rested ever since.

[91 RS Camaro]

Originally Posted by chavocrazy69

Why don't girls just SAY what they mean? whats all this signal shit?
Ladies? Your thoughts? Guys?

The reason they dont just say what the mean is because if we respond
to them in a certain way, they can change thier minds, and we wont know.(dominating conversations, and never being wrong!)

The only way a woman would ever have a direct conversation without
sending signals, is if a man was hearing-impared AND blind.

Play to win...

[chavocrazy69]

Dammit. Girls suck. Throw rocks at them.

[mycivic]

LOL! I know what you guys mean. It gets frustrating sometimes. Well all I can say is..."Women, cant live with them, cant live without them".

[spooleffect]

Originally Posted by chavocrazy69

Why don't girls just SAY what they mean? whats all this signal shit?
Ladies? Your thoughts? Guys?

Cause that would just be TOO easy..............

Its great when you spend lots of time with them and they let you think its working out great, then they hit you with the ol, "I like you as a friend." Which when translated in guy means,"Your not good enough to be anything more."

GOD HOROMONES SUCK AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!



-to add
When you give them compliments, they get annoyed. Then when you don't they(guess what?) get annoyed!

[Jay!]

What do you want them to say?

Hmm... Don't answer that.

Men and women simply communicate differently. The problem for us guys is that while most women can clue-in to what guys say, mean, and do, most men are completely clueless when it comes to what they say, mean, and do. So they're at a clear advantage when it comes to relationships.

So tell us what's your beef with women, so we can tell you where you went wrong?

[spooleffect]

Originally Posted by jay@af

What do you want them to say?

Hmm... Don't answer that.

Men and women simply communicate differently. The problem for us guys is that while most women can clue-in to what guys say, mean, and do, most men are completely clueless when it comes to what they say, mean, and do. So they're at a clear advantage when it comes to relationships.

So tell us what's your beef with women, so we can tell you where you went wrong?

It just takes time and patience. Learning women is a crafty and difficult affair! You learn something new everytime you get shotdown....

But gawd is it frustrating!

[Jay!]

I didn't spot your post; it must have appeared as I was composing mine...

Anyway, I think you've got two things backwards:

Originally Posted by spooleffect

Its great when you spend lots of time with them and they let you think its working out great, then they hit you with the ol, "I like you as a friend." Which when translated in guy means,"Your not good enough to be anything more."

Oh, just saw that you'd seen my other post, but for the rest that haven't been following along, read my post here: http://www.automotiveforums.com/vbul...13&postcount=7

Originally Posted by spooleffect

When you give them compliments, they get annoyed. Then when you don't they(guess what?) get annoyed!

Originally Posted by Doc Love in [url="http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove_100/135_relationship_expert.html"

3 Misconceptions Men Have About Women[/url]]

Fallacy 1: "I can raise any woman's Interest Level [degree of love] in me by complimenting her."

Yes, this thinking has a certain (false) logic to it. Complimenting women sure seems to work in the movies and on television. A handsome lawyer tells Ally McBeal how smart and beautiful she is, and she swoons and wants to make babies with him. And all the girls in the X-rated videos sure seem to respond well to compliments. Extra well. The only problem is that these are not real-life situations. In real life, with real women, laying on the compliments only hurts your cause. It's anti-Challenge.

Go read the rest of the article for more.

[spooleffect]

Ive already read like 10 articles since I saw the link you posted previously and like I said before........
I owe you one Jay

[xviciousx]

Ok let's put it the best way possible. If they were straightforward and were mean to some guy that was giving them lots of attention then they would stop, cuz they'd be like ok she doesn't like me, no reason to keep trying.

Women love attention so they'll do what they have to as to not hurt anyone and get the most attention possible.

[SonyMobile]

"Why can't chicks just be straighforward???"

Because then they might "hurt" you... and women dont like "hurting" men... If women were straigforward then you wouldnt want to be with them. They think its funny when you get pissed off then you dump them and they get hurt, then they want you back, and your just sittin there all like what the hell so what I gave her 2 hickes, got in her pants and she sucked me off, is that any of your bussiness? then there like ya, and your like no, your not in my life so just F*ck off please...

.... ...sorry...having problems with my X...jus needed to vent..

[CamaroSSBoy346]

i know how you feel right now. Man, i just told someone how i feel about her, and her reply is "i dunno, maybe, hes real nice" (she hasnt said that to me personally, but thats what shes been saying to her friends) So, i dunno if i have a chance or am i going to get denied.