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02-17-2004, 09:59 PM
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Do I tell her or do I just sit????
Okay, totally new to this. I'm used to complaining about my Accord and stuff. Question: I have a good friend who I am very close to. Unfortunately, I have developed a huge crush on her. I keep telling myself it will never work because now I'm in the "friend" zone. She sends mixed signals, and I really don't know if it is worth the risk of there being ackwardness. Do I risk it and tell her (possibly getting shut down and hurt), or do I just wait until this craziness passes? Thoughts? craigcully...Shutup.
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02-17-2004, 10:29 PM
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Re: Do I tell her or do I just sit????
Have a wank.
The feeling will pass.
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02-17-2004, 10:52 PM
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Re: Do I tell her or do I just sit????
yeah but i have a wank anyway. see im tired of that.
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02-18-2004, 12:15 AM
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Re: Do I tell her or do I just sit????
Truly - I've been in the same situation. I can STRONGLY recommend you sit on it for at least a month to two months and then reconsider telling her. If you still feel the same way - go for it.
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02-18-2004, 07:36 AM
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Re: Do I tell her or do I just sit????
Pending on the time of this. If you just told us when you just found out yourselfish, ya know, then wait sometime but not too long if you actually likeher 'cause when someone comes and takes her up, you'll hate yourself.
I've been in these positions alot and it took sometime. SOme I got over, others i realized I just liked the way she look *averts eyes* and then there are those you don't get over. I thought I was just jealous but then someone good would come along and take her an dI wouldn't mind. THis happened with a recent friend and well, i realize I just care for them that much ya know. I know that's not your sit but just sayin'. I just wanted the best for her...
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02-18-2004, 03:52 PM
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REQUIRED READING:
Don't Be Her Friend Going From Friendship To More Make Her Want More Than Just Friendship Don't Be Her Stooge Avoid Becoming Her "Friend" When She Wants To Be "Friends First" When Is A Date A "Real" Date? And, if you don't manage to get this one to be more-than-a-friend... Can Gal-Pals Help You Meet Women? While you're there, go ahead and read all of those Doc Love articles. 
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02-18-2004, 05:11 PM
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Re: Do I tell her or do I just sit????
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I owe you one Jay!
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02-18-2004, 06:18 PM
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02-18-2004, 06:23 PM
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That all I been reading, the other articles just aren't very informative. With Doc Love, I am constantly going,"No shit, I had no idea." That guy is really helpful.
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02-21-2004, 12:42 AM
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Re: Do I tell her or do I just sit????
Jay, is that where you get all your dating secrets?
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02-21-2004, 01:11 AM
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Re: Do I tell her or do I just sit????
Ok well my advice is to tell her. Dont wait to long. My gf, soon to be wife as soon as i prepose to her,
 , was my best friend for a long time. I have known her since highschool, i would walk her home even tho it was WAY out of my way to do that. After a while i began to like her. I figured that i just liked her cause she was nice and fun to be with. But then we began to hang out with her friends. We went boling with her x bf and her best friend. I knew that he still liked her but she wasnet really intrested. So we ade a bet, if the guys win the game of bowling then we get a kiss and if the girls win then we would kiss, I KNEW WE WOULDENT LOSE. So sure enough we wone, so my soon to be GF gives me a kiss and her friend at the same time and only her friend bairly gives her x a lil peck on the cheak.So long story short, after 2 years of liking her and being her friend, we are happly together and have been for 2 year and 6 months, so a totaly of 4 years and 6 months.
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02-21-2004, 07:22 AM
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02-21-2004, 03:50 PM
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03-07-2004, 03:28 AM
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i would have to suggest telling her ... ur feelings aren't going to change, in fact they may get worse.. if you tell her and she doesn't feel the same way, she should still be normal friends.. and if that changes her friendship with you, then she isn't the kind of person you want as a friend..
but listen to jay.. he is all that is right with the world.. 
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03-08-2004, 07:32 PM
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Re: Do I tell her or do I just sit????
Yeah, thanks guys. I haven't told her, mainly because I don't wanna. I just don't think it would be a good idea. Plus, we are moving into a house this summer with a bunch of people, and I wouldn't want it to be weird.
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