Don't say you wish you were in my shoes!

[Oz]

Situation:
One girl who I saw a few times last year and then heard nothing from for 3 months emails me whilst away in Europe saying how she misses me and wants to see me when she gets home. We proceed to email almost daily and I looked forward to seeing her on a VERY regular basis. We shall call her K.

Then I was at a mates party last night and I met this absolutely drop dead gorgeous brunette (I mean SMOKIN' HOT) who was all over me. Flirted all night, hands everywhere and got her number. We shall call her C.

I can see good (and, to be fair, bad) things happening with EITHER one, but reckon I will have to sacrifice a lot more for K - but then agian I care for her a bit more deeply and if things have a chance of working then I want to make them work. I don't really know if K is as interested in me as I gathered from talking to her while she was away. And I think I would have a great () time with C. (Did I mention fuck-ff hot good looking?)

Fuck. What to do? Do I tell them about each other?
1. Play them both off until things become a bit clearer and I decide.
2. Choose wither one or the other - stay friends with the non-chosen.
3. Other....

Help0r

More than one word smart ass responses preferred - both male and female input needed.

[craigcully]

Originally Posted by Oz

Situation:
One girl who I saw a few times last year and then heard nothing from for 3 months emails me whilst away in Europe saying how she misses me and wants to see me when she gets home. We proceed to email almost daily and I looked forward to seeing her on a VERY regular basis. We shall call her K.

Then I was at a mates party last night and I met this absolutely drop dead gorgeous brunette (I mean SMOKIN' HOT) who was all over me. Flirted all night, hands everywhere and got her number. We shall call her C.

I can see good (and, to be fair, bad) things happening with EITHER one, but reckon I will have to sacrifice a lot more for K - but then agian I care for her a bit more deeply and if things have a chance of working then I want to make them work. I don't really know if K is as interested in me as I gathered from talking to her while she was away. And I think I would have a great () time with C. (Did I mention fuck-ff hot good looking?)

Fuck. What to do? Do I tell them about each other?
1. Play them both off until things become a bit clearer and I decide.
2. Choose wither one or the other - stay friends with the non-chosen.
3. Other....

Help0r

More than one word smart ass responses preferred - both male and female input needed.

Well, if I were in your situation I would go with choice 1. A lot of guys don't agree with this and say that it's unfair to the two ladies, but I say that since you are not in an established relationship with either of them you shouldn't feel guilty for seeing both. And if you are able to see them both for a while then you may get a hang on what the future can bring for either relationship and make a more educated decision.

[Oz]

Update: C called us for 1.5 hours around 11:30 last night.

[replicant_008]

Oz - you have your hands full. And as you know from my PM things are just as complicated in the House of Rep. The only advice I can give you is consider:

- Which one excites you more?
- Do you want a term commitment (and at my age that's the lifetime guarantee) or do you want to enjoy yourself for a while?

My problems is not about knowing the answers to these questions but that my head has already decided long ago that I need to end my addiction to serial monogamy and sort out a long term relationship.

Trouble is my heart has fallen for the wrong girl as usual and all the trials and grief it will bring yet again.

[Oz]

They both excite me - but in different areas of interest and life. I totally can't decide. I'm thinking of dating C on a more permanent basis and keeping K as a god friend (backup if you will).

[MBTN]

Bang the hot one a few times, then get serious with K. C is in it to be physical, K can be your long term friend.

[Toksin]

I've already told you my suggestions. I'll be checking my mailbox daily.

[Oz]

Nup, they both have a LOT of substance to them.

Could quite easily settle into a long term pattern with either. Fuck fuck fuck.

Will post photos as soon as I get em.

[TexasF355F1]

I don't know what to tell you. It seems your have more than a physical attraction to both of them. Maybe go out with both of them a few times and then decide what you want to do.

[Steel]

Dude.. i dont care: I wish I was in your shoes!

[asterox]

yikes

[replicant_008]

Well Oz good luck - currently being in a quandry myself I can tell you that it can be rewarding, fun and invigorating but at the some time draining, a complete headf#$% and gutwrenching.

Just don't make promises to yourself or either of the ladies that you know you can't keep.

[goat_launcher]

Shoot the hostage.

[Oz]

Thinking I will go with the newcomer - C. She seems a hell of a lot more into me (mobile to mobile call AGAIN last night) and gorgeous as hell. Plus I know K and me can stay good friends for a while.

[zebrathree]

Rappell in, blow the windows off and flash crash the room.