Why?

[CamaroSSBoy346]

Wow. Im comming to you guys for opinions. But in all seriousness, this isnt really a question, rather something i just wanted to get off my chest.

Heres how it is, its kind of confusing, so try and follow along A couple of my friends decided to play some mind games on one of our female friends. I decide to play along with it so i dont look like a tard in front of my buddies. The game they decide to play with her is a "secret" I guess they like trying to piss her off? But the "secret" is actually something quite obvious to her. She doesnt like it when people talk about her-when it comes to relations ships-but my friend decided to whisper quite loudly in my other friends ear something about her. She asks them WTF are you talking about, and they just casually say "nothing" Hell, even I dont know what they were talking about. When she leaves, i ask them what they were talking about; their "secret." As it turns out they were just talking about her ex boyfriend. But, they didnt say anything bad about them. They were just mentioning them. As I later find out, its just a cover story, coving the real truth, which actually involves me. I figured out twhat they were really talking was that they think im in love with her. After awhile, i notice her online, and i told her everything i've said so far. She then asks me if i really like her. Of course, being me, i deny it. But in reality, i really like her, not just really but really, really but shes just way out of my "league" You know? I've been in a situation like this. I really likeed one of my friend, so i asked her out, but ever since that, i havent talked to her. (we were good friend before that incident), and i dont want that to happen again.
Thanks for letting me talk.

[Cl0ak]

Its a rough situation but if you really like her don't worry about her being out of your league, just go for it, half the girls I've dated I wouldn't have if I didn't just say "eh' worth a shot, whats the worst that can happen"

[thisbaste]

ask your friends what they think your chances are with this girl, it might be they have already brought it up with her

there are ways to tell if a girl might be interested in going out with you without directly asking

mention a movie that you think she might like to see, a restaurant that you like, something you enjoy doing on the weekends that would make a good first date... see how interested she is in those things, if she doesn't seem interested you don't have to go any farther than a discussion about a movie

[SonyMobile]

There comes a time in a young mans life, when...


well, my suggestion to you is talk to her, take her out for coffee and tell her listen i like you, and i dont care if you dont like me, i just think your a (insert complement here) and i enjoy that about you, but i dont want to ruin a friendship over the fact that i have feelings about you.

[mycivic]

There is no harm in trying if she is way out of your leauge. I've been turned down by women out of my leauge...no big deal. I'm also currently going out with someone way, way out of my leauge...never did any harm in trying.

[kazzman]

I think you just blew your shot. I think she showed some interest when she asked if you liked her. Now if you tell her, she will probably be pissed that you lied to her. you two=friends forever

[originalmike]

She didn't necesarily like him yet, maybe she was just curious if it was true. But you probably do have a chance especially if you are friends with the same people, she can't be too much out of your league. And even if she is theres nothing to lose.

[zebrathree]

There are no such thing as leagues.

[ToyTundra]

Originally Posted by CamaroSSBoy346

Wow. Im comming to you guys for opinions. But in all seriousness, this isnt really a question, rather something i just wanted to get off my chest.

Heres how it is, its kind of confusing, so try and follow along A couple of my friends decided to play some mind games on one of our female friends. I decide to play along with it so i dont look like a tard in front of my buddies. The game they decide to play with her is a "secret" I guess they like trying to piss her off? But the "secret" is actually something quite obvious to her. She doesnt like it when people talk about her-when it comes to relations ships-but my friend decided to whisper quite loudly in my other friends ear something about her. She asks them WTF are you talking about, and they just casually say "nothing" Hell, even I dont know what they were talking about. When she leaves, i ask them what they were talking about; their "secret." As it turns out they were just talking about her ex boyfriend. But, they didnt say anything bad about them. They were just mentioning them. As I later find out, its just a cover story, coving the real truth, which actually involves me. I figured out twhat they were really talking was that they think im in love with her. After awhile, i notice her online, and i told her everything i've said so far. She then asks me if i really like her. Of course, being me, i deny it. But in reality, i really like her, not just really but really, really but shes just way out of my "league" You know? I've been in a situation like this. I really likeed one of my friend, so i asked her out, but ever since that, i havent talked to her. (we were good friend before that incident), and i dont want that to happen again.
Thanks for letting me talk.

sounds like highschool.
Seriously though im with the other guys who said at least ask her out. There is no damage that can be done if you are already a social class below her.

[nismo4banger]

There are no such thing as leagues.

Hahaha! That is so true. "Leagues" are the only thing holding this guy back. If she says no, who cares. The worst thing you can do now, is not ask her. She might say yes, then you're friends will have to tell "secrets" about somebody else.

[CiViC_GIRL]

Originally Posted by CamaroSSBoy346

She then asks me if i really like her. Of course, being me, i deny it. But in reality, i really like her, not just really but really, really but shes just way out of my "league" You know? I've been in a situation like this. I really likeed one of my friend, so i asked her out, but ever since that, i havent talked to her. (we were good friend before that incident), and i dont want that to happen again.
Thanks for letting me talk.

CamaroSSBoy346, after dating one of your friends.. you haven't talked to her since? it felt wierd? My advice..if u really like her..don't deny your feelings to her your friends all know anyway better that she hears it from you than from them
pss..do you always hit on your female friends?

GOOD LUCK

[CamaroSSBoy346]

do you always hit on your female friends?

No. I guess soon after i became friends with her, i really started to like her.

edit: I see what you mean. That other friend, i dont talk to anymore, nor see. Mostly because i asked her out 2 yrs ago, and have since moved away.