Girl Question....

Masta · #1 12-04-2003, 08:01 PM

yo check this out....i met this one girl during my unassigned class in school. We sit at a table where all our friends play card games n' chill out in the cafeteria. Well the girl's name is Rebecca. She waves at me a lot n' talks to me. Then as days go on....it seems like we get closer. Like...one day she'll sit VERY close to me. Then the next day she wanted me to feel her leg for a bump. Day three comes around, and she's holding my hands *not like walking holding hands...*. Day four...her n' this other girl keep calling me their man...or they fight over who's who's man. Day five...i kinda ignore her, n' she notices it n' she's like "oh, i see how it is, you dont want to talk to me any more, well fine then." i know she was joking...lol. Day six...she wraps her hands around my arm n' puts her head on my arms when i was freaking out when she made the wrong move in this one game lol. Day seven...i pull out my cell phone and she takes it, then she puts her number in there. I also got hugs from her. And as i was walking away from her, she stopped me n' asked me if i would walk with her to class. Day seven is today...and i called her up, we talked n' crap. Now....what am i to do? how do i know if she likes me? my friend joe was telling me that he thinks she likes me cuz of all those things she does to me during lunch. (he see's what goes on lol). So what you guys think? Should i ask her to go to the movies or something? I dunno, lol i dont want to ask her n' then she says no...

Haibane · #2 12-04-2003, 08:18 PM

Do what you feel you need to do

ci5ic · #3 12-04-2003, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Masta

yo check this out....i met this one girl during my unassigned class in school. We sit at a table where all our friends play card games n' chill out in the cafeteria. Well the girl's name is Rebecca. She waves at me a lot n' talks to me. Then as days go on....it seems like we get closer. Like...one day she'll sit VERY close to me. Then the next day she wanted me to feel her leg for a bump. Day three comes around, and she's holding my hands *not like walking holding hands...*. Day four...her n' this other girl keep calling me their man...or they fight over who's who's man. Day five...i kinda ignore her, n' she notices it n' she's like "oh, i see how it is, you dont want to talk to me any more, well fine then." i know she was joking...lol. Day six...she wraps her hands around my arm n' puts her head on my arms when i was freaking out when she made the wrong move in this one game lol. Day seven...i pull out my cell phone and she takes it, then she puts her number in there. I also got hugs from her. And as i was walking away from her, she stopped me n' asked me if i would walk with her to class. Day seven is today...and i called her up, we talked n' crap. Now....what am i to do? how do i know if she likes me? my friend joe was telling me that he thinks she likes me cuz of all those things she does to me during lunch. (he see's what goes on lol). So what you guys think? Should i ask her to go to the movies or something? I dunno, lol i dont want to ask her n' then she says no...

Dude... she is obviously interested. If you are interested, then hook up with her, she won't say no, and if she does, just walk it off and be her friend. Simple as that. Rejection sucks, but only if you pressure yourself about it.

Ask her to feel your leg for a bump.

If you're going to ask her though... do something bold/creative, like to surprise her (in a pleasant way... don't put spiders in her locker or something). I've found time and again that women love it if you make a fool of yourself, just for the sake of making them smile or letting them know that you care.

mynismo · #4 12-04-2003, 08:59 PM

if she doesnt go out with you, she's an effin slut. simple as that.

go for it.

Masta · #5 12-04-2003, 09:09 PM

check this out my likes friend her..i guess...but he likes EVERY girl lol When i hugged her today, i looked at him n' smiled cuz i topped him. (what i mean by that is that he was holding her hands saying "nooo don't goo..." then i looked at her n' i put my arms out n' she gave me a hug) He was pretty sad/pissed. (oh, and she hates my friend...i have no clue why, but she always makes a disgusted face when he touches her n' shit) I came back n' this other girl was like "yea, he left sad". As me n' rebecca walked to her class, she told me that she hates when armand flirts with her so much, she only likes him as a friend. So...that puts a question in my mind....if i were to flirt with her a lot, will she hate it...? Oh, and should i feel bad that she doesn't like my friend?

moondog · #6 12-04-2003, 09:14 PM

lmfao @ ci5ic

Masta · #7 12-04-2003, 09:28 PM

now here's another question lol...
it's been awhile since i asked someone out, should i just plainly say "hey, would you like to go out with me?" damn...that sounds corny lol.

ac427cpe · #8 12-04-2003, 09:31 PM

i agree with ci5ic, just ask her if she wants to hang out sometime outside of school; go to lunch or a movie or something.

but yeah, good luck

Haibane · #9 12-04-2003, 09:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Masta

check this out my likes friend her..i guess...but he likes EVERY girl lol When i hugged her today, i looked at him n' smiled cuz i topped him. (what i mean by that is that he was holding her hands saying "nooo don't goo..." then i looked at her n' i put my arms out n' she gave me a hug) He was pretty sad/pissed. (oh, and she hates my friend...i have no clue why, but she always makes a disgusted face when he touches her n' shit) I came back n' this other girl was like "yea, he left sad". As me n' rebecca walked to her class, she told me that she hates when armand flirts with her so much, she only likes him as a friend. So...that puts a question in my mind....if i were to flirt with her a lot, will she hate it...? Oh, and should i feel bad that she doesn't like my friend?

That's cold man... I would never flaunt my good friendship with a girl in front of my friends. One of my friend's sayings, a bit crude, but gets the point across, "Bros before hoes". Good luck with the girl, sounds like you have a fun filled relationship coming up on you. Just don't get too attaced too fast.

Masta · #10 12-04-2003, 09:47 PM

bro's before hoes yes..but he aint' my bro. We just talk like a few times, he looks down on my cuz i have a crx that i'm working on and he has a 99 integra already hooked up. Trust me, this guy is pathetic, one day he pulled up on this one girl's skirt n' was like "YEAH i got her skirt up". Now...i'm thinking... (what a dick..)

Haibane · #11 12-04-2003, 10:01 PM

I definately agree with you on all that, what a jerk

mynismo · #12 12-04-2003, 10:05 PM

why would you even care what he thinks then.

i'd take ass before bros any day...

dirtydx · #13 12-04-2003, 10:21 PM

stop being such a pussy. she obviously wants it.

ask her to a movie... go out for dinner. have sex. whatever.

1 more thing.... is she just doing it to make ur bud jealous?

integra818 · #14 12-05-2003, 12:03 AM

"masta" think about what dirtdx said, maybe she's doin it to make the other guy jealous, but if not...then ask her out, she obviously wants you. It's like having your leg on fire and asking people "should I put out the fire???"

If that guy is hating on you because of the girl tell him to get his ass in check. Tell him it's not you tryin to get her attention, it's her tryin to get your attention, and tell him "Don't hate me, hate her, it's not my fault shes comin on to me".

Make sure this girl is'nt playin you.

Porsche · #15 12-05-2003, 01:12 AM

LMAO, Day 19 will be marriage at this rate.

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