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11-29-2001, 05:13 PM
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guys....why are the good ones always.....
Okay, there was this guy that i liked...a lot right...so i finally get the nerve to talk to him and i ask him why he chose this college....he says...
"because of this girl"...about this time the yummy omlette that i was about to consume looked like dog food....he then goes on and on and on about this girl who he has been dating for a year.....i want to be mad, but in the face of such...sweetness to his girlfriend how can i wish he was single. After the horrible news that he has a grilfriend and is no longer "free" i have checked him off the list, but it is so depressing....i don't know about everyone else, but it seems like all the good guys are GONE....  :flash: 
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11-29-2001, 05:43 PM
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They aren't all taken, but I do know how you feel. Keep your chin up! I'll keep by keeping my fingers crossed with you! *hug*
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11-29-2001, 10:15 PM
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Anyone in southern VA looking for a couple great guys??? My ex and his roomie are totally awesome. Heck I'd date the roomie if he wasn't shorter than me
(by about 2" or 5cm)And my ex, he's a sweetheart! I used to wish I could say that I was still with him, but I've learned and moved on... But since I like all of you ladies, I wouldn't mind setting y'all up! 
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11-30-2001, 01:53 AM
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I've been down that road before. Even worse is when you find someone you think you might like and they ask you for your FRIEND's phone number...then I would tell him, "You want her number? Go ask her yourself."
In almost all cases the guys I thought I would like to date.....well later on little things came out here n there that made me glad I never hooked up with them. When you do meet the right one, trust me it is defintiely worth the wait. I used to be bothered by the fact I never dated much in high school, and I was never asked to the prom....that bothered me for the longest time and I thought I was the biggest piece of worthless shit on the planet. I dated a few guys in college, each time thinking maybe this is THE ONE but turned out most were either too wishy-washy about being in a relationship or there was potential that if I got involved too deep it could have turned into an abusive relationship, both physical and emotional. A few months after I started dating Alex, I thought about all the guys I had dated and wished I could have dated. And comparing how they treated me and the way Alex treated me, he was most definitely worth the wait. None of them ever treated me with respect and had acted like I was the biggest waste of their precious time. I then regretted how I spent too much time focusing all my energies on hooking up with someone rather than doing something more constructive, like finishing school for one thing. This applies to me... I am not saying everyone else needs to go find something better to do while waiting for Mr Right. My point is that when he does come, it will have been worth the wait
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12-06-2001, 05:49 PM
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I've had this one guy I've liked for 2 years ask me for my best friend's cousin's number. He forgot about her because I told him she lived in another town, and that she'll make out with him once, and then forget him. His best friend tried getting her, she had a makeout session, then left him. Hasnt gone back to the club in awhile though. {sarcasm}I wonder why. {/sarcasm}
He did end up getting taken, and I was sooo upset, because he told my friend he didnt want me to know because he liked me too. We went to the club one night, and then he dumped the girl the next day. May sound like a jerk for that, but I think he's one of the nicest guys I've met. Not ALL the good guys are taken...seems like they all are right? Just gotta wait for the right time.
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12-09-2001, 01:34 PM
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They always come along when least expected. I never thought I would meet anyone through the hospital where I was working, but my husband just turned up into the office (he was spending a year in Sydney and was working at the hospital that I worked at). I was totally not expecting it at all.
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12-14-2001, 08:19 AM
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I realize that I posted in this thread a long time ago, and I didn't say much, because quite frankly, I wasn't going for the quality of my post, but rather the quantity factor of making just one more random, inconsequential comment. But now I'd like to address it, and hopefully give someone a little bit of hope. First of all, good guys do exist. They are out there. In more places than we realize. They show up when we least expect them to. They have a tendency to say things that will catch your breath or do things that you will never want to forget. Like leaving you an orange outside your door, freshly bought in the middle of winter just before sunrise, after he knows that you've stayed up all night finishing a research paper. Or like sitting in your room, gently playing the guitar as he watches you fall asleep in bed. Or sending you an email that brightens your day no matter how short. Or sending you a flower hoping to make you smile. And then there are those nice guys that make themselves known for only a short time. And sometimes these are the most caring individuals you will come to know and care for in return, because often times they will sacrifice their own happiness to make you happier, because they care that much for you.
It isn't realistic to go through life constantly on the lookout for someone to be with, to laugh with, to make fun of, to make fun of you, to make you with glow with joy, to make you sad when they leave. But I know how difficult it is to wait for someone to come along. I realize how painful it is to find someone and then have circumstances tear you apart. But above all, there is a comfort in knowing that hope exists. There is always a hope that you'll find something in the eyes of the next stranger you pass on the street. There is always the hope and faith in the existence of love. Someone once told me that bad guys always win. And yes, it may seem like it. And since it does seem like it, we are inclined to wonder where the good guys have gone, and even go so far as to question whether they truly existed. But I can tell you with faith and confidence, that in the end, they are out there. And as long as you keep your head high, your heart open, your eyes looking, and maintain the faith in love that is so necessary, then you will find your good guy. You will find someone who makes you smile just at the mention of their name. You will find someone who treats you like you should be treated. Who loves you not for your perfections, but for the imperfections and quirks that makes him smile at you for no reason at all. They do exist. I have found a few, and lost a couple, but I would not change a single experience or lack thereof that I have had. From standing on the top of the tallest building in the city at midnight together, to staying up late and talking on the phone till the sunrises for both of you, the wait, the frustration, the struggle is all worth it. In the end you will find your good guy SmallTownDiva. You have my word on it.
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"Nothing great was ever acheived without enthusiasm." Interpret as you like. AIM: RbeccaBrown Taranaki: "roses are wonderful plants,but they do attract parasites...and the harder you cut them back,the stronger they return.They smell sweet,their faces are soft and pretty,and they can defend themselves with sharp thorns where neccesary....but left untended,and without support,a simple gust of wind can leave them shattered....but not forever....the roots of the rose are strong,cut the wood back,and it will always bloom again."
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01-01-2002, 06:27 PM
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06-14-2002, 12:20 PM
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Well I thought all of the good ones were taken until my best friend of 6 years told me that he loves me and we are now together. Don't worry I know you may not believe this and you have probably heard it before but you will find the right one.
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