Guy Needing Girls Advice

Modelcargarage · #1 06-17-2003, 01:35 AM

hey girls a little advice needed!

Ok My name is jesse i am 15 im a male i have the looks i have the body i have the whole outfit thing going on but what im curious about is how do i go about tlakin to girls at the mall or at the movies or something like im really shy so i just pause and freeze what should i do or say?

speediva · #2 06-17-2003, 12:40 PM

No pick-up lines... Lines are lame. Just strike up a common convo. If you're waiting in line at a food place and the service is really slow, start making humorous commentary. See if she smiles or if she's annoyed. Having something common to comment on/bitch about is a really easy way to start a convo.

B16_madwoman · #3 06-18-2003, 07:17 PM

umm...i thought this was called "Automotive Forums"?? must be in the wrong place...

Modelcargarage · #4 06-18-2003, 07:38 PM

i guess you are!lol

B16_madwoman · #5 06-18-2003, 08:11 PM

ok whatever you say....

speediva · #6 06-19-2003, 12:06 AM

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Originally posted by B16_madwoman
umm...i thought this was called "Automotive Forums"?? must be in the wrong place...

No, this one is called "Guy needing girls advice"

Seriously, I talk cars and bikes ALL DAY LONG. I think I can span my brain into other genres every now and again without worrying about breakdown.

B16_madwoman · #7 06-20-2003, 08:39 PM

Sorry just one of the things that bugs me, and i said somethin... i wont say anything more though....didnt mean to make anybody mad..goodluck with the girls..

TheNotoriousMogg · #8 06-20-2003, 08:48 PM

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Originally posted by saturntangerine

No, this one is called "Guy needing girls advice"

Seriously, I talk cars and bikes ALL DAY LONG. I think I can span my brain into other genres every now and again without worrying about breakdown.

0wN3d!

knorsk · #9 06-21-2003, 01:02 AM

Everyone knows that cars are better than chicks. That's why we get cars first and chicks second.

94SolGrl · #10 06-21-2003, 01:40 AM

I'm gonna be bluntly honest with you, Jesse... you come off as arrogant.

knorsk · #11 06-21-2003, 02:05 AM

Yeah...I was gonna say you seemed kind of arrogant. Guys with a good build and a nice face are a dime a dozen man. Live with your mother for a while and you'll know what to say. I'm not good looking at all, but I listen to what's really going on( I can't stress that enough). That's what gets the first date, even if you are a jealous/violent ass like myself.

If you look in the mirror you are only going to see yourself through your own perception. You don't see what other people see. Everyone from birth was entitled to their own view of what IS and what ISN'T.

In the future...stick with automotiveforums.com...it is sweet!!

P.S. I haven't been with a chick for almost a year now. I don't really feel any different.

hatchinganegg · #12 06-21-2003, 03:04 AM

dude check this out, if you like a gurl and you know some people that know her it would be better to hand out with them around her... then get her by her self and "show another side of yourself". keep her wanting more by being mysterious. make her laugh... and that isn't as easily done as said. you gotta fing out what kind off gurl she is to know how to make her laugh. exe, some gurls like a sacastic guy and some dont and some like a different mix at different times. if you are trying to "brake the ice" DO NOT ask her questions that she can answer yes or no. like..... do you want to go to a club, instead ask her if she likes to go to a club. do this not cause you dont want to not have something in common like if she didn't but instead cause you want her to answer and it could lead to other stuff. (by the way ,dont brake the ice with this line ,breaking the ice is too tricky to explain) . B-T-I is a gamble if you don't know them and vis-versa. if you know them then find out something they dig and handle it. change the subject( or really allow her to). dude remeber though to not ask yes/no questions when talking even the first time, you put her on the deffense.another technic is asumative questions like,(after you B-T-I) "you like the mall, you must like shopping" and (if you as good looking as you think you are) they have an option to say many different thing like "i do like the mall,i do like shopping, i like the mall and like shopping",and severel other things. this is goo cause you give her a choice what to say. a good way to B-T-I is like that gurl said, wait till you too just happen to be around and do it.find something to complain about. if you feel that you wont have a good oppertunity to do it again then go all out after you to start talkin. ask nonyes or no questions.if you do all this and get a number then wait to call her at least a couple of days but no more than a year. man im soory im tired of typing. i would give you more advise but the game is to be sold not to be told. you got some good ass hints to figure out the rest trial and error. but as soon as you get em interested remember to be mysterious and don't be scared of anything. gurl don't get mad or P-H on me and dude whatever they say, this works for me everytime. oh yeah, you dont need to be scared to do it. they like a smooth talker and you will only be smooth by PRACTICE. so go and dont holla at a gurl that just seen you halla at another one.not good. most of it is common sence. like don't seem desperate. peace.

hatchinganegg · #13 06-21-2003, 03:10 AM

oh yeah, there is a different from confidence and arrogance, that gurl had no reason assuming stuff cause assumtions are a watse of time. BUT you know what you are so watch out about that. if you are arrogant just don't compliment yourself to gurls so they can't tell cause they all hate that (unless they have abousolute no self esteem them selves) i personally HATE it in a gurl.

knorsk · #14 06-21-2003, 04:11 AM

Straight Jackin' will save you mad greens man!

hatchinganegg · #15 06-21-2003, 04:14 AM

STR8 JACKIN?!? wtf you mean dude... idunno but you a sic individual.