Help!! I need advice on a situation!!

[joedirt76]

Ok, here's my situation...Im 20, Ive been with my girlfriend for like 2 yrs, and everythings going well. My girlfriend recently introduced me to one of her not so close friends. Well this friend happens to be extremely hot, and she calls me all the time...she keeps asking me to go over to her place for a hottub and things of that nature. Im tempted to go; but at the same time, not, because If I do, my relationship with my girlfriend is toast. I know that I could never have anything with this chick that would even come close to what I have with my girlfriend. But my other head is taking this over, I need help, how do I say no, and forget about her!!

[2strokebloke]

Weeeeeell, how much hotter is she (if at all) and is she rich? I know what I'd do, but shipping such a large package to Australia would probably cost too much...

[HogieGT-R]

if i were u i'd stay by my woman..cuz yeah she could be hot, but she has nothing on your relationshio with your woman...all she is is a homewrecker...do you think that she will want to stay with you after she gets what she wants?...just stay with your girlfriend and shit will blow over

[Sierra Six]

Could be a honey trap....

[joedirt76]

Uh oh guys, I think Im in crap. My woman was working late last night, and guess who called...yep, that hot bitch...damn her... so anyways, she invited me out to some party in the bush. I was bored so I went.
It didnt take long before I was juiced; according to my buddy, at the end of the night I was to0 drunk to go home; so I ended up crashing in some strange bed, and when I woke up, I look over beside me and I couldnt believe it, that bitch was in her bra and panties crashed out.
I dont think anything happened though, dont ask why or how nothing happened, I dont know either.
I havent told my girlfriend, Im thinking shes gonna be pissed, but thats not cheating right? I really gotta get this situation under control.Should I tell her before someone else does?
Thanks

[Toksin]

Firstly, find out what happened.

Secondly, make sure it's the truth.

Thirdly, write a will.

Finally, tell your girlfriend.

[Sierra Six]

Originally posted by Toksin
Firstly, find out what happened.

Secondly, make sure it's the truth.

Thirdly, write a will.

Finally, tell your girlfriend.

Daves right, but between the third and fourth you need to add:

Don riot gear, pre book airline tickets out of the country.

[TheRebirth]

Good Luck

[joedirt76]

I havent seen either of the too chicks today, nor do I want too. Ive been hiding out in my garage; tinkering with my car. Im sure my girlfriend will call later though. I will probably tell her , but does anyone know if she'll think my actions are considered cheating?. Like I say, I think we just slept in the same bed...no action took place, if you know what Imean.

[joedirt76]

So, I finally worked up the courage to tell my girlfreind what happened...she wasnt very happy about it..but I assured her that nothing happened, and she trusts me...thats my babe...I knew she would...after two years she better!
Im going to have to cut off contact with that other chick, shes causing too much turbulence in my relationship...any of you guys wanna be hooked up??

[VWSNOT]

You need one of those to keep you outta trouble if you were my man and you were even thinking it I would have to kick yer butt!!!

:hehe: J/K

Seriously though...don't let one stupid decision ruin something you have worked at and built with your gf...I have been on the receiving end of a situation just like this, it hurt soooo bad!!!!!!

[joedirt76]

I know, I was pretty stupid to even think of it...but like I said before, it was my "other" head doing the thinking, and most guys get that once in a while.
Everything seems good now, that chick still calls me; even when my girlfriend is over. My girlfriend says it doesnt bother her, but I cant help to think it does...anyways no parties for me this weekend

[integra818]

The 'bitch', as you like to call her, is most likely jealous of your girlfiend because she is going out with you and she's probably tryin to break you two apart by luring you into her little trap. We already know that, but what we might not have know is that the 'bitch' will definatly win if you tell your girlfriend. If you take 3 years to explain to your girl that you were drunk, it won't really matter, she'll take it just the same way if you told her that you were'nt druink. For women, bieng drunk is not an excuse.. "You cheated on me?!?!? ohh, you were drunk, it's okay "

The 'bitch' probably does'nt remember anything, and you don't have to tell your girl, but it's entirley your choice. You can be honest and tell her and probably break up and get back together late on, or you can not tell her which is a lie in itself. You are the one who decides.

[TapouT]

shit looks like either way you take she will find out and she will own you

[Oz]

6 months too late hopeless.