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[90Stangjc]

Ok, i'll try to explain a little better. Ever been with a girl on the phone and you say "Look, i'm going to go play put-put friday around 6:30 at so and so, you can come along if you'd like". If she says, "well, just call me friday and i'll tell you then". THAT my friend is the beginning of the end. Its THERE you must put your foot down and say, "Uhhhh, how bout no. Either you tell me now, or forget about it". You know what the response will be 99.7% of the time. "Oh.... well ok. Sure that will be great".

The situation above is a common "TEST".

The situation below would be a common "GAME".

Your talking to her on the phone after say a week of dating. You've done everything in the Kama Sutra book, and stuff they couldnt even think off. Then all the sudden before you get off the phone she says "Your a great person, and i'm glad that we'll be freinds". Then your like WTF!!!??? (This is why you must play those cards first). Anyways, that is a common game women play.

An example of "second-class behavior".

Your walking in the mall and she likes a shirt she saw. She picks it out and takes it up to the counter. She takes her wallet out and while attempting to pay for it she all the sudden says "Oh my god, i forgot i didnt bring enough money, can you buy this for me?". My response "Go put it back on the rack with all its other colorful friends, because i'm not here to BUY your affection."

Get it now?

[Z_Fanatic]

lol, I can understand where you're coming from. but you obviously haven't dealt with the bigger fish (pulling those antics pretty much ruin it even more, trust me ). To me, it also seems you only dealt with one type of women. And despite my generalization, there are many kinds. Anyway, we both had different experiences, and I don't about you, but it's foolish to argue. But your previous comment about "cruel" being uncalled for clearly defines something else other than my substantiated intention. and no, I'm not misogynist, I have female friends just the same.

[90Stangjc]

Yeah your right there is no point on the internet, its stupid. Also your right about me only dealing with one type of women, the stuff i use seems to work great on the REALLY attractive, bitchy, stuck-up type. But that's the type i like so i guess its ok. But everybody has there diffrent ways with girls, so to each there own. Peace.

[Z_Fanatic]

Originally Posted by 90Stangjc

the stuff i use seems to work great on the REALLY attractive, bitchy, stuck-up type.

well beauty is subjective, to each his own. but the BS aside, other than the fact that she's hot: I'd describe bitchy and stuck up as stages in the relationship/fling rather than inherent qualities (given she doesn't have issues). And I agree, neglection and control in the right amount tends to do wonders. balance balance.

[90Stangjc]

Your right, the "bitchy" attitude in NOT inheritant. It's more like an act, or say a "force field" to keep weak and powerless guys away. Something i enjoy is going in a getting past that fake act, and seeing the real person inside. Which is usually a very sweet person.

[Soyo]

girls just need to grow up and stop testing people... why would I want to date a girl that wants to test me all the time? that obviously shows she doesn't trust me... and not trusting people is a character flaw in my book.

therefore girls need to show some maturity seenig as how they are supposed to be the ones that mature first... games and tests are stupid, guys hate them, why piss off any guy you like? enough said

[90Stangjc]

Originally Posted by Soyo

girls just need to grow up and stop testing people... why would I want to date a girl that wants to test me all the time? that obviously shows she doesn't trust me... and not trusting people is a character flaw in my book.

therefore girls need to show some maturity seenig as how they are supposed to be the ones that mature first... games and tests are stupid, guys hate them, why piss off any guy you like? enough said

Well its not that she doesnt "trust" you. Here's WHY they do both tests and games.

Games- Women will play games with men because they want to make sure the man is willing to invest alot of time and effort into the "relationship", whatever it may be.

Tests- Test are used to make sure that the guy a women is dealing with is not a "wussbag" so to speak. Tests are also used to try and gain control of the relationship and when she does, she can dump you and go find a man thats more of a challenge. Women dont like it when they can run all over you, its a big turnoff, keep that in mind when around them.

[Soyo]

Originally Posted by 90Stangjc

Well its not that she doesnt "trust" you

LIE LIE LIE LIE LIE

Originally Posted by 90Stangjc

Games- Women will play games with men because they want to make sure...

"they want to make sure" I see no trust here...

Originally Posted by 90Stangjc

Tests- Test are used to make sure

"used to make sure" I still don't see one bit of trust

Originally Posted by 90Stangjc

Tests are also used to try and gain control of the relationship and when she does, she can dump you and go find a man thats more of a challenge.

why gain control just to dump a guy? sounds dumb to me!

also, why does a women want a man that is a challenge? relationships should be easy and obvious, so if it isn't easy and obvious then it should be obvious that you aren't meant for each other... see, no test needed

Originally Posted by 90Stangjc

Women dont like it when they can run all over you, its a big turnoff, keep that in mind when around them.

ok, so dno't run all over the guy! DUH!! seriously, how obvious is this... if you don't test the guy to see if you can then you would never know you could and it wouldn't have to be a turnoff...



dang, I feel like freaking Dr. Phil here

[Soyo]

Originally Posted by 90Stangjc

Your right, the "bitchy" attitude in NOT inheritant. It's more like an act, or say a "force field" to keep weak and powerless guys away. Something i enjoy is going in a getting past that fake act, and seeing the real person inside. Which is usually a very sweet person.

something I enjoy is ignoring the girls that put on a fake act/mask and go for the sweet girl that is being herself... but I guess some people just like fake insecure chics...

[Soyo]

Originally Posted by Z_Fanatic

well beauty is subjective, to each his own. but the BS aside, other than the fact that she's hot: I'd describe bitchy and stuck up as stages in the relationship/fling rather than inherent qualities (given she doesn't have issues). And I agree, neglection and control in the right amount tends to do wonders. balance balance.

great point


I personally think 98stangjc is just lusting after the pretty girls because he knows the nice girls won't give him any... no offense to you but thats just the image of yourself that you are putting out

[Z_Fanatic]

Originally Posted by Soyo

something I enjoy is ignoring the girls that put on a fake act/mask and go for the sweet girl that is being herself... but I guess some people just like fake insecure chics...

Dang Dr. Phil!

[90Stangjc]

First off, its 90stangjc, not 98stangjc. As many times as you've responded to my quotes you still cant get the name right? So soyo, let me ask you a question. And be honest, no lying here. Are you in a relationship with a girl right now? Is she decent looking, or is it just the best you can get? When's the last time you had a girlfriend or was dating a girl? How long did that last? Probably not very long.

Something your missing here is reality. I'm not sure what kind of world you live in, or what kind of shit your smoking. But please introduce me to one of them. I seriously would like to live happily in your little fantasy world you have going on here, or hit some of that shit you must be puffin on everyday.

I'm guessing, no in fact, i know, that you have no clue how to walk up to a girl and get here phone number, let alone a date and better chance to get to know her. Here's something you would probably say "Hi, your so pretty. What's your name? Can i buy you a drink?" Ever watch anything Chris Rock does on comedy sketches? Ever heard of the sketch "Want some dick?".

Your probably the guy that is really sweet to girls and does whatever they ask you to do, why the secretly go out with a guy that they actually LIKE and have more fun with them than they'll ever have with you.

Dont worry i'm not being too harsh yet.

Do you know WHY girls like guys? I didnt think so. Its because the guy mainly is not BORING. I can tell that you are a VERY boring person, beyond boring, slap yourself in the face boring. Wait, but your sweet........ and one day and girl is going to wanna marry you. Well until then..........your hand is your only hope, have fun, and dont forget to use lubrication.

Oh, and btw: Why dont u personally get some girls in here on this thread and type WHY they like guys they do.

[Soyo]

sorry but I'm not after pussy like you... you seem very shallow, and only a slut would respond to you asking if she wanted some dick. but hey if you want a hooker that will get on you and then some other guy the next day then you go for it

[90Stangjc]

Originally Posted by Soyo

sorry but I'm not after pussy like you... you seem very shallow, and only a slut would respond to you asking if she wanted some dick. but hey if you want a hooker that will get on you and then some other guy the next day then you go for it

Lol, no dude! OBVIOUSLY you havent heard of the sketch "Want some dick?". What the sketch is about is guy going up to women and trying to flower them with compliments and niceness, but its ALL FAKE! Would you treat a butt-ugly girl like that? No. That's the whole point. You mine as well go up and ask "want some dick?".

You think i'm some guy that just likes to get pussy, and its nothing like that.

About 80% of all women ATTRACTIVE OR NOT are really sweet anyways. The diffrence is that once you get past the "bitchy coverup" (which takes like 2 whole freakin minutes!) you get the added bonus of looking at a cute girl for a while, and having a nice conversation with her, peace.

[Soyo]

sorry I didn't understand what you said about the sketch I guess... and yes most girls are sweet, thats why I have no reason to pay any attention to the rude or stuck up(or whatever) ones. I just don't go for girls that put on an act... oh and no I don't go up an introduce myself to girls randomly, you were right about that, but thats cuz I'm a senior in highschool and know or know about almost every girl I need to, plus for some reason my scool seems to have more stuck up girls than normal so I don't put much effort into it.