Love

[GRLRCR69]

TRUE LOVE IS GREAT I HAVE IT ITS THE BEST IN THE WORLD HANG IN THERE AND YOU WILL FIND IT

[__Grib__]

probably 10% if that of all couples that meet and date in high school, get married and STAY married for the rest of their years. Im 17, ive dated about 10 women. I was in love with 2 of them. The first one ruined my freindship with my best friend, she was my bestfriend and vis versa. My girlfriend that im dating right now is amazing, she just blows my mind on how much she cares and loves me. I cant wait to see her, like right now all i want to do is be with her. It feels good to be with another women who cares like she does. We are both only 17 but are keeping it together like a married couple. Cause relationships take work, and not from one person. Sex hasnt even come up in our relationship, shes saving herself till her wedding day. Ive cooked probly 20 meals for her. She cant cook worth crap, but lucky i can cook very well, so it all works out.

[96Civ]

[-Jayson-]

i found that not looking for love is when you will find it. I was like you in high school, i wanted someone to truely care for me and that i could truely care for as well. But high school just isnt the time for it, theirs to many people in your relationship to make it work, to many people talking and saying shit. So i stopped looking, then about a year or so after i graduated this new girl started at my work. I didnt think much of her, she was pretty and nice, but thats kinda where it stopped. Well i didnt know how much she wanted me, well after time we sorta just grew on eachother and then one day she actually asked me out, and even then i was alittle hesitant, i was 19 and she was 17, so their was a bit of an age difference, but i said ok anways. And boy what a difference that has made in my life.

But trust me love is blind, its not something you can go looking for, its something that will come to you when you least expect it.

[BleedDodge]

What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more...

[NavyFord18]

Originally Posted by BleedDodge

What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more...

I hate this song...

[Raz_Kaz]

/\ I like that song, night at the Roxbury was a good movie.


Anyways, Id put my 2 cents into "love" and all that, but there isnt enough time for now...

[Z_Fanatic]

gee never knew you guys be softies, especially when strangling each other with deep car debates.

anyway, take it from an almost 20 year old:

love F*cking sucks. even if you don't have sex in mind. so realize it and keep sex only in mind from now on if you must have excitement. no offense, but women are cruel, even the completely goody-two-shoe types. love is an ill-feeling and emotion. like hemorrhoids. lol.

[Azul_KoolAid]

^ damn, who burnt your clutch (lovewise)? I admit women can be hellspawn but there's nothing like a woman's touch be it sexual or simply brushing against you.

[Z_Fanatic]

Originally Posted by Azul_KoolAid

^ damn, who burnt your clutch (lovewise)? I admit women can be hellspawn but there's nothing like a woman's touch be it sexual or simply brushing against you.

get aroused easily?

someone did.

[Azul_KoolAid]

bah, you know what I mean sex is good but just kickin it with your girl is good too.

[90Stangjc]

I hate attraction......in a way. If i got into this i would be talking for the rest of my fuckin' life. So i'll TRY to make it short. Have you guys ever noticed that when you feel like you LOVE someone its for ALL the wrong reasons? That's because IT IS STUPID! But anyways, if you sit down and REALLY think about why do you love her? Do you know, i do!
There is a mechanism inside of human beings that is called "Attraction". It is triggered by things and dis-armed by things. Here is a small list that "attracts" and women to a man.
1.Voice tone
2.Unpreditibilty
3.Body Language
4.Overly confident with a humor mix
5.Control (You controlling her)
6.How you take care of yourself (Even if your not phsically "Attractive".

Now here is a list of the things that repel women.
1.Being needy
2.Letting her lead
3.Being too "nice".
4.Being preditible and boring
5.Being "available" often
6.Unconfident

This also works in a womens favor. Any of you ever read the book about how to get a man to marry and women written by a gay man for women?

Sorry to spill the beans, but most likely if your the guy who loves her to death, she's not going to like you as much. In fact, she might end up leaving you. Unless you know how to keep her with you.

Ever notice how the "assholes" and "jerks" and always the ones getting the girls?
And how the women will get abused, but end up going back to the "asshole" that hit her. But leave the guy that was doing everything in his power to make her happy. Yep that's no coincidence (it that how you spell that big ass word?), that's attraction. Dont you just love life?

[Z_Fanatic]

Originally Posted by 90Stangjc

I hate attraction......in a way. If i got into this i would be talking for the rest of my fuckin' life. So i'll TRY to make it short. Have you guys ever noticed that when you feel like you LOVE someone its for ALL the wrong reasons? That's because IT IS STUPID! But anyways, if you sit down and REALLY think about why do you love her? Do you know, i do!
There is a mechanism inside of human beings that is called "Attraction". It is triggered by things and dis-armed by things. Here is a small list that "attracts" and women to a man.
1.Voice tone
2.Unpreditibilty
3.Body Language
4.Overly confident with a humor mix
5.Control (You controlling her)
6.How you take care of yourself (Even if your not phsically "Attractive".

Now here is a list of the things that repel women.
1.Being needy
2.Letting her lead
3.Being too "nice".
4.Being preditible and boring
5.Being "available" often
6.Unconfident

This also works in a womens favor. Any of you ever read the book about how to get a man to marry and women written by a gay man for women?

Sorry to spill the beans, but most likely if your the guy who loves her to death, she's not going to like you as much. In fact, she might end up leaving you. Unless you know how to keep her with you.

Ever notice how the "assholes" and "jerks" and always the ones getting the girls?
And how the women will get abused, but end up going back to the "asshole" that hit her. But leave the guy that was doing everything in his power to make her happy. Yep that's no coincidence (it that how you spell that big ass word?), that's attraction. Dont you just love life?

^^ Truer words have never been said.

But when I was your age, I had it all of that figured out and even more, but then I still F*cked up. If you never experienced it, you won't know until it's too late. But now I know better... wiser... immune . Like chicken pox.

There's also often the possibility of pheromone released by the woman, which makes a guy act like a puppet or jack ass. We see this sort of things between insects, and flowers and honey-bees.

[90Stangjc]

Whoever said something about women being cruel and such. Its not them, its you. Now of course women will test you and play games and such, but c'mon. There is always good intentions behind every game. You have to stop the "shitty" behavior before it happens. So whenever you think your girl is giving you any second class behavior, its not her fault, its yours for not stopping it.

[Z_Fanatic]

^^ Now that made no sense. do you really think only guys are arrogant and they have some sort of "supernatural power" over women? welcome to America, home of restraining orders.