She's come back to haunt me!

[ghostguy6]

i dont want a million other women i want just one the one i fell in love with, the one who showed me it was possible to love again, the one who saved me

[-Davo]

Well, I don't know what love is. I thought I did, but that was a lie.

Well I woke up at about 11am today, I'm feelin' mighty fine.
Although my week is about to get worse
Come tuesday night! WOO! Pub crawl!

[-Davo]

This is the convo between me and my drummer josh:

I'm "Looks like beer. Smells like beer. Even tastes like beer. I Can't believe it's Vodka!" He's 'dreadie dude'


Looks like beer. Smells like beer. Even tastes like beer. I Can't believe it's Vodka! says:
dude, weirdest thing, i was talking to mat on friday evnin' and he said his ex g/f started talking tohim after 6months

Ðrèãdîë Ðüdé - I have the worlds largest seashell collection. You may have seen it, I spread it out on beaches across the Earth says:
yeh he told me

Ðrèãdîë Ðüdé - I have the worlds largest seashell collection. You may have seen it, I spread it out on beaches across the Earth says:
wat the fuck is going on?

Looks like beer. Smells like beer. Even tastes like beer. I Can't believe it's Vodka! says:
NO idea

Looks like beer. Smells like beer. Even tastes like beer. I Can't believe it's Vodka! says:
but i don't like it

Looks like beer. Smells like beer. Even tastes like beer. I Can't believe it's Vodka! says:
maybe it's a sign

Ðrèãdîë Ðüdé - I have the worlds largest seashell collection. You may have seen it, I spread it out on beaches across the Earth says:
all 3 of us in a week

Ðrèãdîë Ðüdé - I have the worlds largest seashell collection. You may have seen it, I spread it out on beaches across the Earth says:
a sign for wat?

Looks like beer. Smells like beer. Even tastes like beer. I Can't believe it's Vodka! says:
....good question


I posted this, because I said earlyer about all 3 of us's ex's called us in 1 week (they don't know each other), werid.

[ghostguy6]

Well, I don't know what love is. I thought I did, but that was a lie.

I thought I knew what it was too. Ihad forgoten but she reminded me, now she reminded me why I forgot in the first place.
You know it wouldnt be so bad if she told me it was over at least then I could move on, its the waiting thats driving me insane

[-Davo]

why don't you tell her it's over?

Why is your name 'ghostguy'? I've been going ghost hunting later on, it's awesome, you do that?

[MiS0]

If i were you, I would tell her it's over. It's just not right what she's doing.

If you have forgotten what love is, you have to remember it yourself. She is just icing to what's hurting deep inside you. Only when you can appreciate yourself, then she'll appreciate you. I know it's very hard to do, but you must do it. What don't kill you will only make you stronger. If you can't handle that, why should she choose you?

[ghostguy6]

I love her too much to move on!
My name is ghostguy because quite franky no one knows me I dissapear at will. No one remembers me! receantly I joined a paintball team and Im good at disappearing on the field! One day the ref called me a ghost, seemed fitting so i stuck with it

[Section_B]

(This is -Davo...I got banned)

I might be going paintballing in a few weeks! WOO!
I want to be a sniper, that would rock. I've been playing too many sniper games over the years that I think I'm a really good sniper I know I'm not. But still, I'll get paintballed trying!

This thread is moving off topic a little.

Back to reality:
I've never felt like I love someone so much I can't move on. I might one day, just not yet.

[ghostguy6]

Yeah goodluck with the sniper thing! lol its not as easy as you think it is, most people get to trigger happy and miss the shot. Doing the sniper thing takes alot of practice. If you cant hide your dead! plus paintball guns arent very accurate. Ive got 6 years of "tactical training" and one hell of a paintball gun and still get hit everyonce in awhile.on average once every 4 or 5 games, but hey a hits a hit, I guess a kill ratio of 47 to 1 is pretty good!

Anyways I talked to my gf yesterday and even if she does want to be friends I think thats going to work out I know she still loves me so maybe we will still remain bf + gf

[chaser29]

Look at your age.. If you truly feel something with this woman, then you need to to talk with her and let her know your thoughts.
Keep in mind: she cheated on you, got pregnant, and told you to F off, so you need to understand why you are still pondering thoughts over this person???
Is it lust or do you truly feel something??

Personally, I would talk with her and tell her how you feel. How wrong she was. She messed up and "" DISRESPECTED "" you. This would be so you can have closure and move on.. This will also be so you can have the last word and know "where she stands truthfully!"

The pain will remain, but chalk it up to experience. It is easier said then done, but you will meet someone who will show you respect.

Also, is she only contacting you because the guy she messed with left her?
If she is pregnant and is going to have the baby with noone to help? You might be her fall back.
It may be a test as well?? SHE may be testing the waters, so to speak, inorder to see where she has to gain your trust again. You dont know what her motives are, that is why you dont give in to the point she knows she has you..

"" I dont know the whole story, so I am only giving suggestions""

Dont sweat it. Keep busy. Keep your mind busy.

[MiS0]

"If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were."
(Richard Bach) And If they come back all bangged up and pregnant, set them loose!

A reality check here. You said you love her too much to move on. She is pregnant so I assume she is planning on keeping this baby. Down the road, would you want to be this child's surrogate father? This baby will always remind you of your gf's infidelity. Why latch onto this?

You said she was the one who reminded you of what love is, yet she does this to you and she still loves you. If this is what you call love, then I don't think many of us can help you. Hmm...if I can remember correctly 1800-askjerry? (jerry springer show) I don't mean to insult you but you obviously don't know what love is.

[-Davo]

I agree with MiS0 (<-- That's is a 'zero'?).

I don't care how much Pam 'really' does 'like' me. If she remotley gave a darn about my feelings, she wouldn't of done this to me. That's why I turned into asshole-mode.

I'm pushing her away, I can talk to her, no problem, if she calls, I can listen, but I can't have feelings for her again.

[chaser29]

You need to see what the truth is to move on.

ALittle note: You do not need extra weight on your shoulders. It seems you already have enough on your mind, so you really dont need someone elses baggage as well. Down the road you will look back at this and give a big wooof across the forehead.

Keep in mind when a child gets involved with the situation, the responsibilities take another whole direction. The point is you have a "WHOLE" life ahead of you and their are plenty of others out there.

The notion of this girl is swirling your head, but the child is not yours and the aftermath down the road will triple 10 fold. The legal ramifications are just 1 part to think about???????????

keep Your Santity and when the time comes, The right one will appear. The old saying, if your looking, nothing, when your not, something...
Keep strong. Stand your grounds. Take a step back from the situation and take a look from an OUTSIDE PERESPECTIVE..

Good luck

[-Davo]

I need to tell her that I don't want to talk to her.

I'm sending her a message back (nearly a weeks since she sent it to me). It says


You said "forget u ever knew me". Careful what you wish, you may regret it. Careful what you wish you just might get it.


See Sig for more details.
It's true, she did tell me so "forget u ever knew me". I have the sms she sent on the computer (she sent it to my icq account which i never use).

[CarSuperfreak]

as long as you don't care about closing that door and really forgetting you ever knew her; thats a great response.