I'm Empty

[carnut]

19 years old, school trip and a kiss, 5 months? You're young, she's teasing you and building up her own ego on top of that. Teasers will always be teasers. Move on.................

[Suislide]

scratch that.

last night, she "realized" that, since we're basically the same when we're alone, we're not on much of a "break". so she said "it's over for good". i tried to convince her not to do it. she blew up on me, and bashed me for half an hour on the phone.

go to hell, you bitch. you fuck up on your trip and i'm the one who has to pay with my heart? yeah...shows how much i really meant to you after all.

[Jay!]

Duuude. What did I say?

Take my advice now?

Sounds like you need to be more of a Challenge...
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[Steel]

Yes. Listen to Jay.

[Neutrino]

Welcome to the "Never trust a woman" club.

[crayzayjay]

Originally Posted by Neutrino

Welcome to the "Never trust a woman" club.

Come on now... have faith

Suislide>

i wanted to say this before..

At 5 months, a relationship should be at (or at least around) an all-time high. Sex is awesome, you're still getting to know the girl, etc etc.. your partner shouldnt even be noticing other people let alone "developing feelings" for anyone. my gf had a massive row with her friends when we'd been going out, maybe at around 3-4 months, because she wouldn't stop talking about us and they were sick of it. it's not a nice thing to hear about someone you now believe is the "love of your life", but this girl simply wasnt right for you, and isnt worth you beating yourself up over it...

[goat_launcher]

Originally Posted by MBTN

Solution: Fuck her mom.

MILFHUNTER!!!

Dude, you're 19. There's other fish in the sea, bro. But you can still kick the dude's ass.

[J_Spec_NiTeMaRe]

Originally Posted by Suislide

scratch that.

last night, she "realized" that, since we're basically the same when we're alone, we're not on much of a "break". so she said "it's over for good". i tried to convince her not to do it. she blew up on me, and bashed me for half an hour on the phone.

go to hell, you bitch. you fuck up on your trip and i'm the one who has to pay with my heart? yeah...shows how much i really meant to you after all.

I was in your shoes a year ago, and I'm still not the same after she left me a second time. I don't think I ever will be, but maybe that's a little dramatic.


It's bizzare how everything you said that happened is exactly how it went for me. 6 months into our relationship and she "wants some time apart, lets not see each other every day, etc..." She goes to France with some friends and comes back saying she likes someone else. I tried everything in my power to hold onto it, but it just digs you deeper and deeper, and the further away she pulls, the more you fucking want her. It was such a sick and twisted vicious cycle and I was ruined for months, and I'm just now functional a year later.


I know it's unthinkable, but you have to stop the cycle man...if you're anything like I was, you're still missing her and hurting every second. Maybe furious at her, but you still want her so bad. If you're stronger than I was and you're really over her for good, then good for you. Just get away at all costs because NOTHING is worth losing yourself over, not even another person.

[stealthj]

damn brian, i just dont understand

how can girls change so quicky liek that?/

u gotta look for that shit in the beginnning of the relationship u gotta find out how they truly are

sorry man, thats hella sucks though.....that fuckin bitch, id fuck her best friend

[airforceone]

Sorry to here the loss.

However, you should have seen this coming. (I am a blunt person, I do not spare feelings.) When she told you that she kissed another guy, you should have called that into question immediately. When she asked for a break, you should have axed it then and there. Especially with the whole 'free to see others' thing. That line only comes out when there already is someone else. The phrase 'still together' and 'free to see others' can never be used in conjunction with one another. Ever. She knew from the time she back form the trip more than likely that she was going to end it. She probably just kept you on the hook in case the guy on the side didn't work out. You were merely a backup for her. In the future, don't put up with female mind games, you'll only hurt yourself more.

Man, you're 19 years old! Do not go into every relationship hoping for marriage. Don't expect every woman you date to be the 'one'. Take things slow and easy. Let God handle it. Not to be spiteful, but I'm 19 years old and engaged to a woman who was made for me! I'm very fortunate to have love at such a young age. Love will come dude. Unfortunately, I am a world away form my woman, everything wil come together soon. Take it easy man.