I hate it when you ask a girl out, and she says maybe...

[Shortbus]

Good stuff guys I'm listening. I am starting to do better at the whole talking to girls I'm interested in but seem to choke when it comes to part where I either ask them out or ask for their phone number. I'm not saying I see the right interest signs in every girl I talk to but the ones I do beyond a reasonable doubt see those signs in I guess I would rather them ask me out, and if they don't make some solid move I puss out and move on. Oh well I guess its only been 4 months since my divorce, but I'm really starting to get lonely as shit. Sucks especially when we had accumalted so much together and know all the familiarities are gone. :shrug:

[Jay!]

Trent: You're so money and you don't even know it!

No reason for you to choke, you're just out of practice. With each one, it will get easier.

[kublah]

Wow, tons of good stuff in this thread...

For whatever it's worth, I never did call that girl again. Questions you already know the answers to need not be asked I guess. And I will never be one of those guys who will endlessly proposition the same woman no matter how many times she shoots him down... I guess I'll just have to be satisfied with the fact that at least I sacked up and asked once, lots of times I don't even get that far. I'll take any learning experience I can get when it comes to this stuff, and the more I get shot down, the easier I find it is to shrug it off.

[integra818]

"Men only care about sex"...and women only care about money.

[CiViC_GIRL]

Originally Posted by integra818

"Men only care about sex"...and women only care about money.

not all women but ya, in general.. women want men with lots of $$, expensive car, and the list goes on

[CiViC_GIRL]

i have used a few "maybe" when guys asked me out especially in high school.. different reasons though. i'm no longer like that

[integra818]

Originally Posted by CiViC_GIRL

not all women but ya, in general.. women want men with lots of $$, expensive car, and the list goes on

You're right, not all women. There might be 1 or 2 in the world, which is enough to make an exeption.

[mustang372004]

Originally Posted by Hyatus

I've found that if you become friends with a girl first and meet all of her friends,plus a little paitience(sp) she will usually make the first move I've never had a girl i ask out say no or maybe

P.S. just be honest and funny and they will love you forever

This is very true thats how I got into my last relationship

[Bunta]

You know what I hate?

When you ask a girl out, and she says "yes."

And then you wake up.

[xviciousx]

Originally Posted by Hyatus

I've never had a girl i ask out say no or maybe

yeah they usually tell you something like "In your dreams" or just laugh right broh?





I'm just fuckin around... please don't kill me

[CamaroSSBoy346]

If you're nonchalant about it and shrug it off, it may have the opposite effect. She may 1) be surprised, and 2) regret the passed opportunity and chase after you. I know, an ex did that to me and it worked like a charm
or 3) she's glad you didnt make a big deal out of it, and you dont lose too much pride.

heh..reminds me of what a friend did..kinda.. him and his girl went out for a long time, but she wasnt sure if he still liked her, so she said she was breaking up (hoping that he would beg her to stay and whatnot, convincing herself that he really liked her), so my friend was just like "okay..what ever" and they broke up. she ended up crying for almost the whole week..

[lotusonwater19]

well girls have no choice now...if they arent interested but say

yes: they are a ho.

maybe: confusing and frustrating bitch

no: very stuck up

so no matter how the female breaks it down she is the bad one correct? this upsets me, from now on i'll just say "no. how dare you" since ima look like that bad one no matter what, but thats clear right?

[integra818]

Some women think they're too good for men. They act like men were born to serve them. I'll serve a glass bottle to the head of the next bitch that turn her head and ignors me after I say hi to her.

[kublah]

Originally Posted by lotusonwater19

well girls have no choice now...if they arent interested but say
yes: they are a ho.
maybe: confusing and frustrating bitch
no: very stuck up
so no matter how the female breaks it down she is the bad one correct? this upsets me, from now on i'll just say "no. how dare you" since ima look like that bad one no matter what, but thats clear right?

I don't think that's true at all... Saying yes if she's not interested does not make a girl a ho, it means she's spineless and false. You need to do a lot more than have a cup of coffee with someone to be a ho. And simply saying no does not make them stuck up. The only way to make yourself look stuck up or anything else bad is by being rude. This would certainly include "No, how dare you?" If a guy gets shot down with a polite, tactful "No thanks" and still gets upset about it, you are not his problem.

The only thing you had right is the confusing and frustrating bitch part. These women need to learn some conviction...

[integra818]

Originally Posted by lotusonwater19

well girls have no choice now...if they arent interested but say

yes: they are a ho.

It's shit like this that keeps me up at night. You women are so afraid of what other women think about you. You don't have sex with men as much as you wan't to because other women will call you a slut. And even if they don't find out, it's been stuffed in your head that sleeping around with alot of guys makes you a whore and you feel bad about your self for doing it and therefore don't do it.