girlfriend problems

[asterox]

ah yes that's why 15 year old girls are perfect

jk jk 15'll get you 20 :o

[97civiclx]

shes 18

[97civiclx]

a lil update since the last post/for those who care. we broke up last night, it was totally unexpected.we started to get over our problems and then blam she tells me its over and she still loves me just not enough to stay with me and that things have changed to much and we fight to often. she even wrote me a list of all the things she loves about me. she feels she is going to bring me downbefore i go on my mission.(i am mormon and to go on a mormon mission you have to be 19, amember of the church, and a virgin). so her feelings are that we will get going at it like bunnies and wont be able to stop ourselves. so basically i cried myself to slleep last night and woke up and cried some more and came to class. i dont think it is really over between us but i do have more doubt about it evolving into a marriage than i did before. well anyway it is not quite over yet. i am going to wait a couple of weeks and make sure she is sure about her descion before i start looking again.

[Strider Negro]

aw man that totally sucks
i know what it feels like to cry yourself to sleep and to wake up only to cry again and again, sucks ass. I've gotten to the point where I couldn't eat because my ex dumped me like a trash bag saying we are too different and that she doesn't love me anymore. Be strong man, pray a lot, and just surround yourself with friends.
Don't think about her, the more you think the more it hurts...good luck.

[blueboost]

sounds to me like your the good seed in a good seed/bad seed relationship. and its not that she doesn't know what she's got with you, she does know and probably took advantage of it, even mildly. she may love you (but she's not IN love with you) but it sounds like she loves herself (her agenda) more. you can't compete with that and I don't like hearing you say your going to tail along for a couple of weeks waiting for her. Your immature to relationships obviously, see... the thing is with relationships, rarely does both persons in the relationship love each other equally. the person in love usually gets hurt (you). its just up to you to decide how much longer you want to keep getting hurt. you sound like a very nice person, that should be everything you need to find yourself another good girlfriend. spend some time with other girls if you can, it will help more then you can imagine. Maybe even get a kiss from one if you can

whatever happens I wish you the best of luck man

[Strider Negro]

yep totally agree with him

good advice blueboost

[GTR2b]

Dude,
I know it stings and I can promise you that ALL of the rest of us guys have been there before when we were younger. But check this out...
You need to pick yourself up brother! Stop the crying and push that chick off of what's left of your manhood! I'm not saying that this doesn't hurt (we all have feelings) but no chicks do NOT like criers and sissies. If that's the way you're going to be then be prepared for lots of women wanting to be your "friend" and being "the person that they can really talk to" and you will get nothing else.
You will become that "Nice Guy that's every woman's friend that never gets any" cliche' before you know it. Take it from me, I've been there.
I'm not saying to have to become a complete dick, but seriously, get in touch with your inner-A-Hole! You'll be happier.
I wish you the best of luck bud! Things will look up, promise.

[-Josh-]

Stay strong, stay focused, lie if you have to...Eventually you will hit that punany..........

That was wrong i know but i couldn't resist, i'm waiting on a bid for a car on ebay...It has 29 minutes left an were gonna try and get it at the last minute.

I've been there done that man, it isn't worth getting your heart broken twice. Cowboy up and move on.

[nismo4banger]

i am going to wait a couple of weeks and make sure she is sure about her descion before i start looking again

That's a bad idea. Even if she takes you back, you're just setting yourself up to be hurt again. I'm sure you don't want to go through that twice. The best thing to do is move on and enjoy all the free time you have. If you don't feel like dating right away but that's OK.

[asterox]

man just listening to this makes me want to go gay

[Lamborsari_Merbini]

yeah dude its time to move on. i'll spare you the advice that you've already heard on here but its all true. it'll be hard but you just gotta find someone new or at least look for someone new and move on and make sure dont find yourself thinking about her for too long, eventually things will return to normal

[Strider Negro]

just for the hell of it go to a strip club, stay there till the wee hours of the morning and i bet you WON'T think about her there...

[CiViC_GIRL]

maybe it's PMS mood swings or not

[CiViC_GIRL]

Originally Posted by asterox

man just listening to this makes me want to go gay

thought u already went gay