retarded people

[scoobytuff]

What I said about the woman having to live with it, I was speaking of women who use abortion as a form of birth control. I'm not against abortion under the right circumstances, a woman shouldn't use it multiple times as a form of birth control. What people do with thier bodies is generally thier business, but damn, can't they find another way to keep from being a mother?

[xokayxo]

note: i didnt mean "your" as in you. i meant a general, collective male "your." i apologize for the confusion.

i see your point now and realize that i misunderstood your comment about "holding the bag" and "sit back and comment on the problem".

i dont think i've ever heard of someone using abortion as a form of birth control, but i guess that's basically all it is. i cant imagine someone doing it repeatedly though, i've heard it's not a real good experience

[scoobytuff]

It happens often here. Some of these girls get an abortion every time they get pregnant. I know of several who have had 3 or more abortions before the age of 20. What is mind blowing is that these girls come from priveledged families. Thier problem is that they don't want to tell thier parents they are having sex, and if they do get pregnant they're afraid of what their peers will say.

[turtlecrxsi]

Think of this analogy.... we don't want sixteen your olds driving Mustang Cobras or Subaru STis because they cannot handle the power and responsibility nor afford the insurance. Well, the same is true for teenagers and sex. I personally don't think kids should learn to drive until they're at least 18. So IMO, these same kids shouldn't be having sex either. There are far too many crutches that make it okay when it isn't okay. Abortions, pills, welfare, food stamps, etc. I read that blurb about the paying with food stamps and getting into a Lincoln Navigator with 24" wheels. It happens everywhere and it pisses me off.

My wife and I can't have children of our own and up until recently we couldn't afford to raise them anyway and we know better. But seeing these people pop out kids like a factory product with the same amount of care is ridiculous. Obviously, shit happens and a young girl gets pregnant. But the percentage of this happening is overwhelming....

[gw84]

Originally Posted by turtlecrxsi

Think of this analogy.... we don't want sixteen your olds driving Mustang Cobras or Subaru STis because they cannot handle the power and responsibility nor afford the insurance. Well, the same is true for teenagers and sex. I personally don't think kids should learn to drive until they're at least 18. So IMO, these same kids shouldn't be having sex either. There are far too many crutches that make it okay when it isn't okay. Abortions, pills, welfare, food stamps, etc. I read that blurb about the paying with food stamps and getting into a Lincoln Navigator with 24" wheels. It happens everywhere and it pisses me off.

My wife and I can't have children of our own and up until recently we couldn't afford to raise them anyway and we know better. But seeing these people pop out kids like a factory product with the same amount of care is ridiculous. Obviously, shit happens and a young girl gets pregnant. But the percentage of this happening is overwhelming....

amen!

There's this guy who shops at the store and I believe gets financial help...that's no big deal to me..if you need help you should get it; however he jokingly said "I gotta pay your salary"....WHAT!!?? He doesn't even work...I actually pay for HIS stuff...messed up.

Another friend who just had a baby. Neither parent has a job nor the motivation to get one.. they're gonna bring up a child in an environment like that!? ..at least they're not driving a navigator or something..

[psych0hans]

I think some of you guys need to remember that any form of cntraception including condoms and pills will not be 100% safe. They may greatly reduce the risk, but in no way eleminate it. If people have sex, they need to keep that in mind. I'm personally not totally against abortions, but I'm nor for them either... its a very touchy subject. Theres a song I suggest you guys should hear, Flypside - Happy Birthday. It'll put things in a new perspective for you.

[motorcycle_psycho]

Originally Posted by sganc4life_4

My gf is on the pill and I used to freak out in the beginning and the first time I finished in her, but many times 2 months later, no babies. The pill works perfectly.

And for those girls who "say" theyre on the pill, just make sure you see the little envelope they come in and that they take it at the same time every day.

Damn devil women...they always try to get military men especially. Seriously, they know if they have a kid with one of us they get the hook up, free medical, dental, cheaper food, housing paid for....it's really sad. Two of my buddies have become victims of this. But they should've wrapped the tool reguardless so it's mostly their fault.