Alright, i need dating help

[sidewayzS13]

comedy shows are always good. they give yuo a chance to talk some and also to see what her personality is like see what she thinks is funny and what might upset her or repulse her. you let the comic test her out for you instead of you making mistakes when it comes to humor.
basically when my friends and i take girls on dates we always try to get creative and do things out of the ordinary but still fun get some creativity. or do some stupid shit like a picnic in a park people dont use that one enough anymore

[NintyNineZ]

Originally Posted by elementskater15

Take her to some Go-Karts and then invite her to your place and cook for her.....trust me

See, this guy knows what he's talking about. On a serious note, if you want another date.....cook for her. Very powerful. Girls LOVE guys that can cook.(It doesnt hurt for it to taste good either). After that....... throw the bitch on the ground and...

[vinnym86]

whatever you do, dont let the butterflies take control! take her out somewhere fun, like bowling. no joke, that's actually a really good place to go on a date. also +1 on the cooking, but if you're hopeless with that, a nice dinner is great, lunch is aright, too. and always try and feel comfortable, and make her feel comfortable. and who said chivalry is dead?

[Steel]

Well the cooking for her thing would be great (and i can cook too!) if it wasnt for the fact that i have no place to do it... living with the 'rents and all.

Im thinking of setting up a plan with my friends to go out blowling or whatever like that, so its a little more relaxed. Though, i dunno if its a good idea to go out with more than just us now. egh. I also need to find out if she's comfortable with motorcycles. Cause i think maybe i'll offer to take her on a ride and then stop someplace, get a bite to eat talk, and hit the road some more. Or something.

[elementskater15]

Take her to a park or something that has the public grills and cook...I went to my girlfriend's parents' house and cooked burgers and hotdogs for everyone. How old are you? Its prolly acceptable for you to still be with your parents. Bowling is a good idea, my gf on the other hand likes putt-putt. Try to goof off a little and have fun. Also, dont buy too many games..bowling gets sooooo borin after about the 2nd game.

[Muscletang]

Originally Posted by sidewayzS13

do some stupid shit like a picnic in a park people dont use that one enough anymore

You'd be surprised but the little things actually are some of the best. I know this girl and she's about to get married. Guess what she told me she did on her very first date with the guy. They went to Sonic and then he took her to a gym when nobody would be there and they played PIG and some basketball.

[2.2 Straight six]

i'm one for walking and such, take her for a stroll in the park, picnic if you want. somewhere relaxed, away from it all where you can just let life pass you by and most importantly you tow can talk without disractions.

you can do the whole sitting on a bench talking, or on the grass or whatever. not somewhere deserted, not somewhere packed with people. just a place where there are enough people in the background to make it comfortable but not too many to intrude into what you're doing.

maybe it's just me but this is what i'd do. i love to walk places. and it's good for you to talk about justa nything at all. you dont need a certain subject in mind, just talk.

[vinnym86]

steel, chicks dig bikes! bowling is a great place to go, imo. i ended up flirting so much w/ this girl i didn't know i liked til then. apparently some of our friends thought we've been going out for a while after the sight. i dunno, something about the enviroment just relaxes us.

[MonsterBengt]

Ask her over for dinner and a mvie, ask specifically for no sex. That'll twist her mind, make her curious, get excited and come on over. Then you have sex with her.

[turtlecrxsi]

Muscletang, vinnym86, and 2.2straightsix all have the right idea. Communication is important. Obviously, you're not sure what this girl likes so you need to figure her out a bit more. If you really like her and want her to know you're interested then hanging out with friends with her probably isn't the best approach. Like previously stated, take her for a walk in the park and then go to a nice restaurant for supper. Then if you find out that she likes bikes, maybe you can go get your bike and take her for a spin and then see what happens after that... GL

[capricorn]

I don't know about you guys but from what this sounds like, you're trying to make a single grand gesture to profess your feelings for/towards her.

What I'm saying is why not give her a small card (an e-greeting from yahoo or similar) or listen to her and suprise her with something small based on conversation. I believe its about getting to know her and expressing interest in her as a person and her life... multiple small nudges in this direction would probably work better than a single grand gesture.

It really also might depend on how old you are too. Spending time after work at a bar or having a lunch date works well in my life as I'm fairly busy with work and other such obligations and free time is hard to come by.

The most simplest thing that I've found out is that you don't have to guess if she's into you or not. Ninety-nine percent of the time, the other person will make it painfully clear that they're into you. You just have to give him/her an opportunity to do so.

[Steel]

Originally Posted by capricorn

I don't know about you guys but from what this sounds like, you're trying to make a single grand gesture to profess your feelings for/towards her.

What I'm saying is why not give her a small card (an e-greeting from yahoo or similar) or listen to her and suprise her with something small based on conversation. I believe its about getting to know her and expressing interest in her as a person and her life... multiple small nudges in this direction would probably work better than a single grand gesture.

It really also might depend on how old you are too. Spending time after work at a bar or having a lunch date works well in my life as I'm fairly busy with work and other such obligations and free time is hard to come by.

The most simplest thing that I've found out is that you don't have to guess if she's into you or not. Ninety-nine percent of the time, the other person will make it painfully clear that they're into you. You just have to give him/her an opportunity to do so.

neh, its just that im being a real big wuss with this girl, i dunno why. I'd love to hit the bars, except she's 19 so that doesnt work. It probably *is* painfully clear to anyone but me, but, heh what can i do.

[Muscletang]

Originally Posted by Steel

neh, its just that im being a real big wuss with this girl

Don't worry man all the great ones started out at square one. Yes, even this guy was shy at first.

Originally Posted by Steel

but, heh what can i do.

You go over to her, look her right in the eye, and say, "listen, I'm going to cut to the chase, lets just pretend we're two people with needs, I need you, and you need me, so why don't we forget these little games and just give into each other?"

[2.2 Straight six]

Originally Posted by Muscletang

white guy get some boo-tay!

[2.2 Straight six]

Originally Posted by milton666

force her to have sex with you

considering two of my closest friends are rape victims i can tell that's not in any way funny. there are people out there that do that kind of thing, please don't even joke about it.