What do you consider as "CHEATING" in a relationship?

[Raz_Kaz]

Simple.


Whatever you and your other significant other feel is cheating applies both ways. If he/she gives you shit for flirting with other guys/girls, then there is no goddamn reason as to why he/she can get away with it.


No "if's" "and's" or "but's"

[Muscletang]

Kissing, why? If you found your girl french kissing some guy would you be pissed off?

Now a little peck on the cheak or even a light one on the lips I don't care. But you get a five second frencher and I'll flip out.

[Andydg]

Originally Posted by Raz_Kaz

Simple.


Whatever you and your other significant other feel is cheating applies both ways. If he/she gives you shit for flirting with other guys/girls, then there is no goddamn reason as to why he/she can get away with it.


No "if's" "and's" or "but's"

[driftinggrifter2]

Originally Posted by Raz_Kaz

Simple.


Whatever you and your other significant other feel is cheating applies both ways. If he/she gives you shit for flirting with other guys/girls, then there is no goddamn reason as to why he/she can get away with it.


No "if's" "and's" or "but's"

I second this one though the other never agrees on this. they usually got to have it one sided

[xviciousx]

Even "just" kissing shows a mental need for something else. Therefore you shouldn't be with the person you're with.


Cheating is cheating, but if you don't get caught, doesn't it get you ahead in the game?

[XeVeNskyLiNE]

Originally Posted by Raz_Kaz

Simple.


Whatever you and your other significant other feel is cheating applies both ways. If he/she gives you shit for flirting with other guys/girls, then there is no goddamn reason as to why he/she can get away with it.


No "if's" "and's" or "but's"

Exactly. I just got in a fight with my girl because not too long ago she was being suspicious of me about talking to alot of girls, that I've known for a while, and are all friends. Yet I bust her talking to guys while "trying to get to know them". It goes deeper than that, but for personal reasons I'll keep it hush.


Point is, just as Raz said, if she can get pissed at me for something and she does the exact thing I got bitched at for, I have plenty enough reason to blow my fucking gasket too.

successful relationships are based on equality.

Kissing is cheating. Period. I'm dead fucing positive that if my girlfriend saw me kiss another girl, ANYWHERE on her body, with ANY kind of alcohol content, I'd be in for a serious ass whooping.

[indyram]

It's all about trust, if there is none the relationship don't mean shit. Anything kissing and above I would consider cheating. A kiss on the cheek to a close friend is ok. Like already said too, it depends on what he/she think. I have experienced many situations in which "she" likes to live on a one way street. Sorry it doesn't work that way. I am ok with flirting as long as it goes no where, I would be a hipocrit if I wasn't. I have always been a big flirt and everyone knows that, it's just how I am, and I doubt it will ever change.

[vinnym86]

Originally Posted by L-Spec

Well, what I guess I mean there are expections. I have friends that are girls and she should have friends that are guys. It's just when it comes to the point where everything becomes seductive flirting lol, I guess you could say. Sorry about the confusion. I agree, flirting is fun and games..

the line's thin but blurry, for sure. i mean, flirting can be fun and games, but i guess it can also be a sugar coated "come back to my place"

[SLoe]

Originally Posted by Rally Sport 92

Just to let you guys know.. but chicks are more concerned with the emotional crap than the physical one.. while we can get jealous or not like that a chick has had alot of sexual partners, she'll feel the same way if you were really in love with someone else or equivalent..

HA! That's what you think. The women are no different from us on what they consider cheating. If you consider it cheating, so will she.

[Rally Sport]

I wasnt talking about the cheating part on that last one, lol.

[kicker1_solo]

To me, almost anything is cheating. I'm an extremely jealous and protective person. Kissing would be out of line, even flirting doesn't fly with me. My chick is and will be into me and only me. If she's not then she's gone, there are plenty of other girls that can be. Most of the girls I have been with know how I am and usually turn out to have the same standards as I do.

[SLoe]

Originally Posted by kicker1_solo

To me, almost anything is cheating. I'm an extremely jealous and protective person. Kissing would be out of line, even flirting doesn't fly with me. My chick is and will be into me and only me. If she's not then she's gone, there are plenty of other girls that can be. Most of the girls I have been with know how I am and usually turn out to have the same standards as I do.

If both people in the relationship don't feel just a little jealous about those type things, then it's not worth the time.

[Muscletang]

Since we're on the subject...

Flirts: doing what comes naturally

[XeVeNskyLiNE]

Glad to see the AF community agreeing on something

Now we need some female insight.

[vinnym86]

In Britain, flirting tends to be alcohol-fuelled to cover up fears of intimacy and rejection.

so... the brits are just like americans? except brits?

"The British male is either reticent, tongue-tied and awkward, or boorish and crass, and he usually consumes too much alcohol. English male flirting tends to be very circuitous, and involve a lot of insults rather than compliments," said Fox.

rrrright... guess not.