About to be dumped

[imtheoneandonlyD]

Davo- i know how you feel man. 2 years ago my gf and i broke up. We were going out for about 2-3 years and i could have seen myself with her forever. Well i caught her cheating. Which was stupid because i had almost finished purchasing a ring for her.

She "wanted to be friend" but i soon realized my life was better without her.

Things will get better.

[ghetto7o2azn]

Originally Posted by imtheoneandonlyD

Davo- i know how you feel man. 2 years ago my gf and i broke up. We were going out for about 2-3 years and i could have seen myself with her forever. Well i caught her cheating. Which was stupid because i had almost finished purchasing a ring for her.

She "wanted to be friend" but i soon realized my life was better without her.

Things will get better.

i had a similar situation with a 2 year relationship... but not with the ring at all cause when we broke up i was about to turn 15... and u can imagine.. all those hormones all over the place ...

not a good point in my life... u feel like ur on top of the world, and then u feel like it just ends... how do girls do that

[-Davo]

Good question.

it will get better davo. I promis. I had my bf of 2 years do tha same thing to me after he found out that I was pregnet. I thaught I was gonna die.

[PBking82]

Seriously if the girl wants to take her family over you than let her its better off that way. I used to date a girl who's mother and father hated me with a passion (possibly because I tanted their only child who was an "angel"). But when I first was getting to know them I was always respectfull and polite. It wasn't till like a year after we were together that her parent's started doing shit like telling me not to call the house, that she wasn't home when she was, and that she couldn't see me. This girl was fucking 19 at the time, going to college just living at home. The last straw was when I picked her up one night and we went back to my place. Like a hour later her father(this little pussy who thought he was all cool) starts pounding on my door and screaming for her to get out here or he's gonna call the cops. I went out and was like "WTF is your problem, you come up to my house causing trouble you're lucky I don't call the cops on you." This is when he said if he didn't let him in my house he was gonna knock me out, and I was like you're her father, I'm not gonna fight you, but if you hit me I'm gonna be forced to defend myself. At this point she came out and was all pissed at me, and I was just like look, you can either tell your dad to get the fuck off my property or i'm calling the cops and stay, or go with him and in that case i don't wanna ever hear from you again. Needless to say she left with her father. Last I heard she still lives with her parents and doesn't have a boyfriend the girl is like fucking 25 now!! I can understand If you're like 15 or 16 and the parents don't want you alone together but if you're over 18 they can fuck themselves trying to tell you what to do with your love life. Peace-

[-Davo]

King, I agree. What a tosser.


Today I "threw" out everthing that reminded me of her. Oh, fuck it was hard. Her picture came down the other night... I couldn't stand to look at it... I threw out the necklace (which I loved) she gave me for my 19th The Jamacian doll (which even had dreadies) she gave me... I started crying when I looked at her pic (such a pussy).

I've been carrying two phones around for the past 5 months after I went out and bought another one and a new number so it was cheaper to msg and call her... I still cradel that, and look at it every 5 minutes just to see if she's msg'd me to say sorry or want to take me back...

She won't...

I've stopped eating as much... I'm just not hungry, and I've started drinking a lot, I don't know why, it just feels like an escape from reality at the moment...

My family have supported me so much, as you guys.

Dad made me realise if I take her back I'll always feel insecure and not being able to trust her, always counting down the days till she does it again, would I ever be able to love her again? I don't know.. I still love her now, and I feel like I still love her the same as before... But I don't know...

[escort357]

Your situation really sucks. Been there. Done that. I know that it doesn't seem like it, but things will eventually get better.

I'm not going to tell you not to drink, but make sure you don't drink too much. It won't make things any better.

[xokayxo]

as they've said, drinking doesnt help. temporarily, maybe, but dont let it get out of hand. i was never really a big drinker, but when i broke up with my ex i smoked A LOT of weed and it never actually helped anything. it just distracted me, which was good for a short period of time. then i realized, you know, there are so many more BETTER things i can be doing with my time. so i started painting. i started biking and hiking and i switched to full time at my job for the summer. lose yourself in everything that you can because the only way you can forget about her is to focus on completely on other things.

MOST IMPORTANTLY -- I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH -- SURROUND YOURSELF WITH PEOPLE YOU TRUST AND LOVE AND WANT TO BE AROUND!!!! you have friends for a reason. you have family for a reason. your dad sounds like he's right on track with that, and thats awesome that you have that kind of relationship with him. but seriously, you have to work to get over someone like her. someone that you love but know you shouldnt or cant. it's rough, but time works wonders. "nature, time, and patience are three great physicians." i got that in a fortune cookie and i keep it taped to my mirror so i see it whenever i happen to look in the mirror. make that your mantra.

[RickwithaTbird]

Originally Posted by xokayxo

as they've said, drinking doesnt help. temporarily, maybe, but dont let it get out of hand. i was never really a big drinker, but when i broke up with my ex i smoked A LOT of weed and it never actually helped anything. it just distracted me, which was good for a short period of time. then i realized, you know, there are so many more BETTER things i can be doing with my time. so i started painting. i started biking and hiking and i switched to full time at my job for the summer. lose yourself in everything that you can because the only way you can forget about her is to focus on completely on other things.

MOST IMPORTANTLY -- I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH -- SURROUND YOURSELF WITH PEOPLE YOU TRUST AND LOVE AND WANT TO BE AROUND!!!! you have friends for a reason. you have family for a reason. your dad sounds like he's right on track with that, and thats awesome that you have that kind of relationship with him. but seriously, you have to work to get over someone like her. someone that you love but know you shouldnt or cant. it's rough, but time works wonders. "nature, time, and patience are three great physicians." i got that in a fortune cookie and i keep it taped to my mirror so i see it whenever i happen to look in the mirror. make that your mantra.

Right on.

I gotta second that whole post. You'll never trust her bro. I was with my ex for about 2 1/2 years, but she admitted to cheating 9 months into it. It was never the same. She wants me back now, and the last time I saw her was a year and a half ago. I still don't trust her.


The wise man is not the man who knows all, but the man who LISTENS to the man who knows all.

The temptation to talk to her is rough, I know it. I made all the mistakes you're wanting to make. But the fact is that I should have just moved on right away. You are still Davo. You'll be davo tomorrow, and davo in ten years from now. No girl can take that away from you..... unless you let her. Right now you're letting her, and you aren't davo. You're "her ex". Dont be that guy. When you wish you could talk to her just tell yourself that its okay to miss her.... but not okay to dwell.

[jcsaleen]

Im telling you man shit passes... I know how it is... The whole I feel like my life is over and I have nothing to live for feeling but trust me you will get over it. Love it or hate it as the expression goes. In thing cases look back and smile on the good times together and be done with it. Two... I wouldn't be her best friend now just because it will hurt you more in the long run. Just let it passes and say goodbye. Don't be a be to mean about it but don't be a bitch either. Tell her strait out your done. It's for the best.

Me personally which some people think is sad but I don't - I'm more or less a materialistic person, I never want to be commited etc. Especially after see'ing my friend's GF dump him make out with another guy the same day and then he lets her back into his life again - She totally controls him, I can't stand the sight of her she's a disgrace. Back to the main point.

In the end just go your separate ways leaving neutral....

[xokayxo]

Originally Posted by RickwithaTbird

The temptation to talk to her is rough, I know it. I made all the mistakes you're wanting to make. But the fact is that I should have just moved on right away. You are still Davo. You'll be davo tomorrow, and davo in ten years from now. No girl can take that away from you..... unless you let her. Right now you're letting her, and you aren't davo. You're "her ex". Dont be that guy. When you wish you could talk to her just tell yourself that its okay to miss her.... but not okay to dwell.

to summarize:
1. dont talk to her
2. move on
3. you are Davo!
4. keep being Davo!
5. dont let bitches f**k with your s**t and make you "un-Davo-ish"

[King Of Crunk]

Down with the bitches and the hoes!!!....honestly I have found it helps to go on a vacation....it sounds so cliche but if you get out where you're at for a couple days and just live for the moment and not the past you'll feel alot better about yourself.......

on a side note, this is one of the best relationship threads i've read yet.......good job guys....and who said that guys were just pigs that treat woment like meat....psh* gimme a break...






damn my neighbors daughter is lookin fiiiiiiine today........damn! i'd like to "do some laundry" with her!!

[xokayxo]

i like meat.





but not women.

[-Davo]

hehe thanks guy, you are right I'm glad I posted this and not let it eat me.

I'm not drinking much, I went out last night but I stopped drinking after 8 beers, I might be drinking with friends on monday, and next saturday, but that's about it... I'm not a big drinker, I don't want to burn my self out.

Thanks guys...

[RickwithaTbird]

Im glad to hear you're doin alright davo. Just remember to keep that smile on. Like mcdonalds.... or something.