how would you like to be let down?

[TerminalVelocity]

Originally Posted by drewh4386

Just so you'd know,
Since your all he knows, he will go insanely depressed for a while. 4 years? I'm not trying to make you feel bad, but doesn't he know what you want? Have you discussed this with him? People change over time and you may have also. Some of the same things you liked may have had a gradual change that you didn't notice. Samething for him also. Yall could be subconciously getting on each others nerves. All I'm saying is if you gave him chances and he doesn't know how exactly to change, explain that to him if you didn't. IF that doesn't work then let him go. Yall are both young and still don't know exactly what you want or how to do things $ years in a relationship doesn't mean you "know" if that is yall first MAJOR hook-up. Yall simply could have just grown apart. Me and my ex did. ANd instead of breaking up with me, she cheated. The worst thing.............

My ex didnt give me a chance, she said she did many times but she never outright told me what was bugging her. I tried giving her the worlds, I worked multiple jobs and moved, leaving all my friends and family to be with her. She didnt do shit except move out of her house which she said she wanted to do anyway. And if she just talked to me about the few things bugging her we would probally be together and things might be better, if not at least I would have just left without her tearing my heart out after 4 very serous years.

[caviman69]

Find the biggest and baddest guy in town and tell your boyfriend that you fell in love with him.

[Knifeblade]

You sound like a drama princess, getting off on his whining.

[xokayxo]

oh that's wonderful! thank you. moving right along....

[-Davo]

Originally Posted by xokayxo

lets put this from your viewpoint.

you leave a note on your girlfriends car in the morning (with hopes that she will find it when she leaves for work that afternoon) and don't hear from her all day. the note reads something like this:

"i'm addicted to you. i'm lying awake smiling with thoughts of you in my head. everywhere i go and everything i do is always the second thing on my mind. whenever we are together i feel like i am a better person, and a happier person because of you. whenever we aren't together i am anxious to hear your voice and see your face. you amaze me with every action, your kindness, and your patience. i love everything about you and i cant wait to see you again."

/end your viewpoint.

my viewpoint.

boyfriend leaves love note on my car. *vomit*

/end my viewpoint

i've been avoiding him for the past week and havent really hung out with him because i dont know how to break up with him (does that make me a bitch??) but i know i want to. i suppose there isnt really an easy way to break it to him. if anyone can think of a sickening love note to write back, i would appreciate it. (note: it does NOT have to be nice -- get creative!!!)

woah you're in a really fucked situation.

Have you seen the movie "how to lose a guy in 10 days"? yeah I think you should sit down with a pad and paper and watch it again, just do little shit to turn him off.

For example, find out what he doesn't like, and do it.

If he doesn't like a bad smell, stop bathing (I know being a female this would be almost impossible), get him irritated to the point and tell him "I don't think it's working for me, sorry".

You'll smash his heart in to a millions of pieces and it'll take years for him to pick the parts back up...wtf am I saying? I'm writing my own death cirtificate here, at least I know what to avoid....Or at least I think...


Pet Shop Boys rule!

[MBTN]

That's the dumbest thing to do... don't beat around the bush. The truth hurts. Do it as straight forward as possible. It'll suck for him, but it'll suck the least out of anything you can do.

[Knifeblade]

Ayep, push up your wonder-bra, say adios.

[xokayxo]

i think i'm the only girl ive ever known who hasnt owned a wonder bra. thanks to genetics, i've never needed one.

oh and last night i ended it with him. problem solved!

[Rally Sport]

In other words she's an A cup, not needing a bra most of the time. sorry had to do it.

[Ridenour]

"Dear Boyfriend"

I'm a stuck-up bitch. I'm too good for you, and have too many fucking issues for you to waste your time dealing with. Please don't waste another second of your valuable-time trying to break through my bitch-shield and my fucking mind-games and tests. Leave my ass now and move onto the next attractive woman in line. Don't waste another second thinking about my bitch-ass - it's not even worth thinking about. Move on immediately to one of the many women waiting for you.

- Girlfriend."

I wish this is how chick's would dump me, cause it's what I think about most of them.

[xokayxo]

Originally Posted by Rally Sport 92

In other words she's an A cup, not needing a bra most of the time. sorry had to do it.

i will not justify this with a response.


...other than this one.

[Knifeblade]

...Ride...

[Rally Sport]

Originally Posted by Ridenour

"Dear Boyfriend"

I'm a stuck-up bitch. I'm too good for you, and have too many fucking issues for you to waste your time dealing with. Please don't waste another second of your valuable-time trying to break through my bitch-shield and my fucking mind-games and tests. Leave my ass now and move onto the next attractive woman in line. Don't waste another second thinking about my bitch-ass - it's not even worth thinking about. Move on immediately to one of the many women waiting for you.

- Girlfriend."

I wish this is how chick's would dump me, cause it's what I think about most of them.

[ljen]

From a woman's point of view:
Grow up and tell him the truth, then move on and let him move on. There is probably some desperate, clingy, pathetic gal out there that will love to have Mr. Drama.

Meanwhile, YOU should be a decent person and just end it. Maybe you have some sick little thrill in keeping him on a string, cut it and be done with it. Your both young, this is not the end of the world, just the end of bad 'relationship'.

[drunken monkey]

i wuld like to be let down honestly