can guys be friends with girls?

[GritMaster]

Originally Posted by -Davo

I can't remember going further than 1 sentence with anychick and not wanting to bang her at the end.

Lol.

I have plenty of female friends, none of which are girls that I'd neccesarily want to "be with" For the most part I have honest intentions and there are only a couple that I'd want to bang...




Of course the opposite sexes can be friends with each other... what are you... dumb?

[ghostrx7]

im definately not dumb, maybe the question would be would u trust ur girlfriend to hang out with a guy u never met! rock with the bird, im with u on the cutting her off until i do trust her. i broke up with her and now we're just seeing each other. i did ask her if she kissed any of them. she didnt just tell me she didnt. i guess i just need to chill and maybe give her some space and see how that goes. its hard cause we talk all the time and i always want to see her. i am a person with honest intentions also, but if i was hangin out with a girl, i'd probably want to bang her 2!ive been on the other side too many times where i see cheating all the time. i have met her best guy friend and he was cool. anyway, as long as she makes me feel uncofortable, i will not technically date her.(she does want to date me bad!)so we'll see if she proves her honesty!

[driftu]

life is to short to worry about this trivial crap. if she is cheating on then you will find out. then you end the relationship and move on to the next.

trust her untill she breaks your trust.
if she does, then she is nothing more then a whore and not worth your time.

bottom line don't worry about it. it is beyond your control.

[TexasF355F1]

There are a lot of girls who just find it easier to have guy friends. They don't do anything but just hang out with them and see them as their brothers or buddies. Most of the girls I know who have mostly guy friends say they just flat out cannot get along well with most girls. They said they don't trust other girls at all. Usually these girls have been stabbed in the back by the former girl friends, which makes it hard for them to form any sort of trusting friendship with girls.

[GritMaster]

Originally Posted by ghostrx7

maybe the question would be would u trust ur girlfriend to hang out with a guy u never met!

Unless she has done something to warrant me to not trust her, Yes.

[PeanutM&MsRgood4u]

Just remember to never call a girl a "hoe bag"........ to her face anyways....

[Oz]

Yes you can be friends. Fucking your friends not advised in all cases though. Experience.

[RickwithaTbird]

Originally Posted by -Davo

1) I agree.
2) I disagree. I don't know about anyone else, but when I know I can't have a chick, that makes me want her even more.
3) Denied, the guy will ALWAYS want to bang her.
4) yes, but he'll always still want to bang her, seceretly.
5) There's that banging factor again! haha

2) exactly my point.
3) exactly, which is the only reason he would wanna be friends.. he doesnt like her, but would like to bang her.
4) exactly.
5) exactly.

ghostrx7, I read what you said, and what driftu said is also a very good point. My point was just that if you dont trust her, just cut your own emotional ties with her, from within yourself. As in be prepared to find out shes a liar. Then if you find out she's cheating, no big deal because you don't have any emotions invested in her anyways, but there is still that chance for her to gain your trust in the meantime.

[Oz]

The biggest caution is going out with your female friends. Mixed groups make it very difficult to pick up. If you're on the prowl, go out with the boys.

[RickwithaTbird]

I know this is way off topic, but what you just said oz, reminded me of all my best luck. Whenever I roll with my mom, theres always chicks hitting on me. They pull up beside me and wave, and smile, blow kisses, ask me if I want them to sit on my lap.. one time I had two chicks leaning out the driver side window, OVER THE GUY DRIVER, staring at me and waving while I had my system pumping, and my mom was in the passenger seat... so for the best luck picking up chicks... Roll with your mom.

[Oz]

I'll have to go with no on that one.

[Raz_Kaz]

LOL, i'll leave my mom home when I'm out fucking around.


Anyways back on topic. Guys and girls can be friends, it works both ways. If the woman ever tries to stop you from doing so, slap her silly and send her to the womans abused shelter. And if you take that bit of advice, shoot yourself.

[imtheoneandonlyD]

if she wont let you get to know her guy friends then obviously something is going on. Rockwit makes a good point. Try to get to know her guy friends, the way they act towards you can give you alot of info on who they really are.

[-Davo]

Originally Posted by Oz

Yes you can be friends. Fucking your friends not advised in all cases though. Experience.

I agree, unless you want be labled a dog sleeze bag from your friends, and lose respect and possibly a friend.

I've never fucked a female friend and I don't plan on it. Based on watching my other mates fuck a certain female, the entire "group" has broken up because of 1 fuck up. Literally.

[FairyDust]

guys and girls can be just friends. When i met my husband I only had 2 female friends and they rest were all guys. He wasn't real cool with that idea, I lost all my guys friends because I didn't want him to be worrying about me. Even though he had no reason to. Well because I don't get along with women, I can't deal with the catty shit, I'm not into sitting around for hours talking about nothing, etc. So I basically wound up with no friends. Then I'd wind up making friends with his friends, they'd like me better and I'd wind up "stealing" his friends.

So he finally realized that no matter what I tried I couldn't keep friendships with women for anything because I can't deal with their bullshit.

So now he's totally cool with me having guy friends. And sure some guys will just hang around hoping to get some or something, but as long as they don't actually try anything I don't care. I've had a couple guy friends try to get with me and I quit hanging out with them. And when my husband has asked me hwy I tell him why.

But for the most part my real friends that are men are actual friends and not looking for a piece of ass. I have never felt any inclination to wanna get with any of them or anything.

And if you stop her from hanging out with her friends and make her basically become friendless like my husband did she's gonna get unhappy and blame you for it. So if you can't get past the jealousy and trust her, then you might want to think about moving on and finding a girl without guy friends.