Hows your Love Life

[Psman32@af]

Originally posted by SE-R WolfPac
It realy sux when u cant do anything but be happy for your other, it pains me to think she is with another guy instead of me. Its been a week now since i last spoke to her, its just real sad to have to live with it, that your time with her is over and u have to search for some one new. Life sux to have to make ppl search over and over again for the right one. (thankx everyone for listen'in to my sobing, got alot to let out)

Well guess spending time with me car will have to do for the time being, but once again its hard to feel happy for them when u ur self arnt.

yeah i know how you feel, ive been there a many times cause im too chicken to ask a girl out 99% of the time and the times i do well 1/2 the time good stuff does not happen on it. were here for ya man, im sure most of us have been through something like that, so it no prob, most of us have been there.

[Sanchi]

Originally posted by Psman32@af


yeah i know how you feel, ive been there a many times cause im too chicken to ask a girl out 99% of the time and the times i do well 1/2 the time good stuff does not happen on it. were here for ya man, im sure most of us have been through something like that, so it no prob, most of us have been there.

LOL i know how u feel, all through highschool ive been too shy to ask girls out. Just mind my own and surely enough someone will ask me out, only problem is i get the ones with all the problems LOL.

Now the problem is that im not in highschool no more and when i go to collage now their mostly guys . Guess that means i have to actruly look now, or atleast put my self out there, can't sit around looking pritty with a bunch a guys :silly2:

So wish me luck.... im officaly on the market again ladies!!!!:coolguy:

[fortyoz2eric]

yea seriously, my lovelife vanished when i went to college - the girls are completely not interested in relationships there and i haven't met one that i would go out with..its one of few things i enjoy about coming home

[halfast]

Just be happy you had the relationship while you did. It could be worse. Loved, & was loved for 19 yrs 3 mos,4 days. Drunk driver took her. You don't know pain till it's written in stone. Someday, someday.

[tazdev]

Hows your Love Life


in one word EMPTY

[Rich]

Originally posted by SE-R WolfPac
ive been too shy to ask girls out. Just mind my own and surely enough someone will ask me out

Im in my 2nd yr of college, and I still think that way. Ive always been that way. Im to chicken $hit to ask gals out, so I just let opportunities pass me by. Being the negitive person I am (Im trying to change, but it is hard) I only see failure, and I have the most massive fear of rejection.

Probably explains a few things about me

Luckily I am a dumper rather then the dumpee.

Don't worry about your lovelife, man. There is always gonna be some down times, but you can't give in to the darkside. Just hone your macking skills now that you are single (the off season I call it) so that you'll be a franchise player once you sign that new contract. It doesn't hurt to be a journeyman (man-whore) while you aren't signed. Afterall you can look at this as an opportunity to get that out of your system.

[darkness]

whats a love-life?

I've been single for a year without even a hint of anything. It really sux.
It's getting really lonely. I have good friends but it just doesn't seem enough.

[HogieGT-R]

i know where you're comin from man..for me it's really difficult to get a girl interested in me.....i've been single for bout 8 months i'd say and girls either see me as a good friend, or they hate my guts, or they don't know me and seeing how i'm shy when it comes to things like that, it gets difficult for things like trying to meet someone new....and also seeing how my last relationship seemed to make me bitter and cynical..it kind of sucked as well....it's worse man when she's using you as some person to just get their rocks off with..because if you get attached, your heart will get ripped out from your ass...what ever you do, don't end up like i did man..i'm only 16 and i feel as if i'm an old man because of this :rocket:

[speediva]

Being single really isn't all that bad. Heck, I was almost sad to turn in my single badge tonight for being "spoken for" again!!! :o Oh well. But honestly, I went all throughout High School with out any dates between my Freshman Homecoming and my Senior Prom!!! Sure it kinda sucked, but I made it. Just stop looking. It's the dumbest idea you've ever heard, but it always seems to strike then!!! I can honestly say it has happened to me a few times...

[tazdev]

I've been single now for 5 years and it's getting fucking boring.

Friends try and set me up all the time but they never work out
Maybe it's just me

[Sanchi]

AHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!


I'm am such an emotional reck right now. I'm not sure wether i should feel happy or f'ed in the head. On Sunday to my very surprize i get a phone call late night. and... and guess who it was.

Yup it was her. The source of all my sorrow, well any ways she calles me up after bout a month of nothing. (read very first post) and i just lost it. i melted at the sound of her voice. :flash: :flash: i was bout to explode with happiness.. i think that was it.

Anyways she was nearly crying on the phone just when she heard my voice as well. A million thing were going through my mind when i saw her name flashing on my caller ID (cell phone) We had a little small talk and then i told her was it okay for me to go see her. She said it was okay.....

When i got there, it was the strangest feeling just takeing over. I havent realy seen her in 2 monts so. well we talked and talked for bout 2 hour's, prior to this day i had made up my mind about her and i was over her, and ready to move on with my life. So one can only imagion the situation i'm in atm.

She was crying pritty much the entire time i was there. It was a very emotional 2 hours for us. Alot was said, and all in all i got the closure i was after... well some what. I was right about the fact that she was seeing some one new... she said she was kinda seeing someone.

It was a very comforting 2 hours... so comforting and im afraid i have once again fallen back into my little hole. All that getting over her and moveing on has been lost, and i am once again LOST!!!!! SHe said she has been thinking about me alot and stuff and was feeling very guilty about our whole situation.

I absolutly have no ideal what to think right now or what to do about this. All my feeling have been some what rezorected. AHHHHHHHH!!!! Why must this happond to me

[speediva]

I, too, was hung up on my ex for quite some time...

You just need to surround yourself with something to do. I chose to take out all my time for AF. Sure, I looked like a loser doing it :silly2: but it helped me sort things out by talking to others, meeting people, and talking about anything else... Now I'm in another relationship (which is going to move much slower--thank goodness) and I'm feeling pretty good about things. My ex and I can talk without feeling strain or desire (well, atleast I can). It can and will get better. Just keep ploughing on through and you'll be out of the tunnel in no time! :flash:

[primera man]

I dont mean to sound cold here....but be careful.
Dont take this the wrong way but make sure she is not trying to take you for a fool and trying to compare you to her new partner to get the best deal. I hope she's not because you really seem to be hooked on this lady and want thinks to work out.

I still think you need to break away from her though and get over the hurt and pain and move on. You have already started on this road and need to carry it on.

Goodluck

[SkYLiNeFrEaK]

Damn I think i fit in perfectly to this crowd. The end of the tunnel? HEHE I doubt that I will be seeing the end of that.