need girl advice

[jcz1987]

Sometimes, girls can be picky with the guy they want to be with. The best way is to be yourself and ask what she likes and talk about.

[kicker1_solo]

have you tried paying them?

[MagicRat]

Two things I have noticed. As an old fart in my late 30's , I have noticed women become more sensible, pleasant and down to earth as they mature. By the time they hit 30, they pretty much have stopped playing their finicky games. (okay, by that age, half of them have divorced the loser they chose over you but thats a different story)
But as you can't wait that long, try to look as if you are not looking. Girls can spot a guy on the make from 10 blocks away. Present yourself as friendly and confident enough to talk with them without appearing as if you are particularly interested. Trust me, it sparks their interest in you, (at least in enough of them to make it worthwhile)

[asterox]

think about what you're saying between the lines...

when it looks like someone is putting game on a girl, telling fibs and whatnot, she knows this but what she's hearing is "i like you and i'm willing to put myself in a vulnerable position to be close to you"

the first step is respecting the sexual power that all girls have, as soon as you say "you're nothing but an object," she's going to feel shitty and won't want to see you

what are you saying to girls.. what do you talk about on the phone?

[SkylineNoDoubt]

All i can tell you man that its not that unless they dont even talk to you after getting the phone numbers. I mean if you talk and try to continue from that point to make things work... well thats your problem right there you're style to put things down aint right... trust me yo i went thru the same thing for like a couple of years before mastering them techniques TRUST ME this is the problem... time and experience will tell you i say. Even try working on and analyze if things dont work say to yourself "What did i do wrong there?" and compare with past experiences and match em up and you'll get it.

Good luck yo.

[chicago_guy]

Originally Posted by SkylineNoDoubt

All i can tell you man that its not that unless they dont even talk to you after getting the phone numbers. I mean if you talk and try to continue from that point to make things work... well thats your problem right there you're style to put things down aint right... trust me yo i went thru the same thing for like a couple of years before mastering them techniques TRUST ME this is the problem... time and experience will tell you i say. Even try working on and analyze if things dont work say to yourself "What did i do wrong there?" and compare with past experiences and match em up and you'll get it.

Good luck yo.

That's very true. You have got to learn from past experiences, whether they are good or bad. You should just try different approaches to girls and figure out which one had the best affect, and then perfect it. Different girls, however, go for different approaches. This is when you need to study a girl that you want to get with. Like say if you see her in a club, and she is just sitting at a table with a drink, then you need to it at a table that is in her view and do the exact same thing. If the girl you have your eyes on is making a scene onthe dance floor, then you have to get in on that action and do some dancing. Girls look for a guy that share the same kind of interests or have a similar personality as them. So theoretically, if the quiet girl sees you and notices that you're quiet too, she may become interested in you, and then it opens up a door for you to go over and start a conversation with her. The same thing goes with the wild dancer chick. But I could be wrong....but it's worth a try isn't it?

[MBTN]

If you walk up to a girl with the intention of banging her, 99% of the time you won't bang her. They see right through you. Don't push it because you aren't getting lucky right away. Walk up to them with the intention of getting to know them first.

[zebrathree]

Make eye contact when you're talking to her.

Speak to her well, not like shes a bag of meat.

[kicker1_solo]

tell her that you have a big one.