A new girl problem thread!?

[Solomon219]

Originally Posted by gtkriss

Anyway, things were good for a while, then she started telling me about her sexual past.. The funny thing is though, she was still kinda attached to her bf of 2 yrs, that went away to college in new mexico, but the weire thing is though, she has never has sex, only oral. When she told me this I was like ok, that's cool, but she started to tell me about how many guys she had gone down on and vice versa, it totaled to about 5. Now a 17 yr. old girl that has had 5 guys go down on her, and she did the same make me kinda skeptical.. So i decided to wait and she where the realtionship went. The idea of sticking my tounge into a "used" pussy really wasn't too appealing, i like just regular sex.

This is the first thing that REALLY caught my eye, and it kinda ticks me off. Sexual past. Yeah. Listen, unless you start dating a 14 year old (maybe younger, and DON'T!) it's gonna be hard for you to find someone with NO sexual experience. If you draw the line at full intercourse, you can raise the bar a little. 17 y/o? I'd say five guys is a pretty good AVERAGE for the normal girl.

Next, USED pussy? She's NEVER HAD INTERCOURSE! My gosh, that's just not right. That's bloody well harsh! And wrong, to boot.
The only way I'd even consider using that term is in "well used pussy" and that would be referring to some loose whore. Also, do you just think that cum and spit remain in her vagina indefinitely? The idea of sticking your tongue in a "used" pussy wasn't appealing? How long ago was the last one? More than 24 hours? I'd say you're in the clear! 'Specially if she's had a bath or shower. So you like just "regular" plain, old-fashioned, missionary-style, white, bland, vanilla sex, huh? Which leads me to my next point.

Originally Posted by gtkriss

So one night after her rehersal, I invited her over to my house to chill out and watch some tv, etc. When she came over, I kissed her, and (by the way she tutored me in math) did a little math homework. When I took a break, I sat down on my couch and talked to her. She laid ont top of me and put my hands on her breasts. (This was about 3 wks. into the relationship) I moved my hands down and told her that I needed to study. (What would you choose? Going down on a pussy and not getting much in return?--- I wasn't going to get any that night, not enough time, or study to get the grades to get my license and the new car that goes with it?) She was kinda pissed about that.

HOLY LOADS OF WATERY CRAP, BATMAN! WTF? She was "kinda" pissed? Man, oh man. Dude, you just said in the last paragraph that you like "regular sex". This is about as regular as you can get, with woman on top. What was stopping you?

Yeah, I saw your answer to Moter Rotor's post, but... Wow. I mean. Wow. I, and any guy I know, could not have been held BACK at that point. I know this test was important, but you had a REAL, LIVE VIRGIN WANTING YOUR BODY! Most guys would DIE for that chance. Well...maybe not. Unless you were desperate. But they'd give up something VALUABLE!

I understand that this test was important, it might cost you your license and a car, but what's a couple of hours with a VIRGIN worth? Is that translatable to any tangible value? I'd spend the hours in pleasurable bliss, and then lose a few hours sleep studying!

Originally Posted by gtkriss

About a week later, she broke up with me. (The relationship has lasted about a month.) She said the relationship wasn't what she had in mind, but we could be friends. I got pissed and didn't talk to her for another month. .

It was wrong for you to get pissed, man. You should have thought about what HER goal in all this was. Yours was a stable relationship, but maybe she was just using you to maker her b/f jealous. (?) Having sex with you to say she could? THAT'S a reason to get mad, because she used you. But not for her saying "it wasn't what she had in mind." I'd say that's probably what most people who've broken up with someone WOULD say!

Originally Posted by gtkriss

I think she has made me into a "male girlfriend." Yuck.

Dude. She either thinks your ghey, or that you totally are NOT into her body. Where else is she going to relegate you to? I'd say the next step is for you to be snubbed.[/quote]

Originally Posted by gtkriss

I'm 80% sure she still likes me. I could cut her out of my life, I wouldn't have to see her- ever. But there is a part of me that still holds on, like i'm still kinda in a relationship with her, in this "male girlfriend" role. We still call her other hun, sweetie, blah, blah, blah, but there isn't a relationship. What should I do? Should I tell her I want to give it anothet shot, or turn my tail and run. thanks for reading all the crap above.

I'd revise that 80%, I think, but besides that, in answer to you're final question: RUN! There's no room for another shot. In some relationships there is, but not here. You burned yourself, man. Everyone makes mistakes. The problem here is that the relationship would NEVER be the same again. You're still thinkin' of "what you had" like skating at Christmas and that kinda "new-relationship" stuff. You wouldn't have that here. It would all be awkwards, always watching where you put your feet. A relationship can't be like that. It's spontaneous.


I don't mean to be harsh on you, but I'm telling it as I see it... Correct me if I'm wrong on anything.

[Solomon219]

FUCKIN' A!

You guys were carryin' on a whole conversation while I was typing my long piece of BS....

[Solomon219]

Sezz, you omay rice lover, you coulda TOLD me there was a convo goin' on! It woulda been nice to be included...

See, Kriss....you just can't find a GOOD girl.

[Motor Eyes]

Originally Posted by Solomon219

Sezz, you omay rice lover, you coulda TOLD me there was a convo goin' on! It woulda been nice to be included...

See, Kriss....you just can't find a GOOD girl.

listen. there waffle man. i DID tell you over aim didnt i? but no00o you HAD to be special! and write more!

omay, so get it iff ya head and drink some waffles with some milik.
because i just got back from the parental Pahty and its time to sleep.

so stop your crying!

AND!!! i quote

Originally Posted by gtkriss

.... this sucks

dude, if the advice isnt "ged enuff", then stop cying about it. and dont waste your time on the INturNet looknig for answers, because you wont find them. THE END.

your additude is really nasty. its as if ure expecting things and not getting what you want.

are you 14?

i like waffles.

[Solomon219]

Originally Posted by Motor Eyes

listen. there waffle man. i DID tell you over aim didnt i? but no00o you HAD to be special! and write more!

omay, so get it iff ya head and drink some waffles with some milik.
because i just got back from the parental Pahty and its time to sleep.

so stop your crying!

i like waffles.

Man...you really must've been drunk.

But it's omay. You're still pretty for a mechanic with a dog's head. You just hafta work on your kisses. They're a 'lil sloppy.


TO KRISS:

I didn't know she was just tryin' to get you to go down on her, but that doesn't change my feelings. Instead of spending a couple of hours having sex, you'd've only had to spend about 30 minutes...maybe more, if she reciprocated.

I dunno. I study better after gettin' off . Then I'm not so distracted .

[gtkriss]

jesus christ, you guys lay the truth down hard! But your right I did fuck up, I just wish I could had gone back in time to fix it, but I can't. Oh well, i'll just be surronded by Aim away messages like this:

OUT...i'd say call me, but you can't! Wow...

PS...Steven, I got the ring and letter...you made me cry like a baby. That was so sweet

Yuck... I feel like i'm gonna puke

[Motor Eyes]

Originally Posted by gtkriss

jesus christ, you guys lay the truth down hard! But your right I did fuck up, I just wish I could had gone back in time to fix it, but I can't. Oh well, i'll just be surronded by Aim away messages like this:

OUT...i'd say call me, but you can't! Wow...

PS...Steven, I got the ring and letter...you made me cry like a baby. That was so sweet

Yuck... I feel like i'm gonna puke

lol tahts ok

but ... i still cant believe u had to study

[Solomon219]

Yes, we're harsh. But you're the one who subjected your problem for public scrutiny. As long as you know it wasn't personal.

Originally Posted by gtkriss

Cmon ppl, the chick kinda looked like a ho

If she kinda looked like a ho, WTF? Why are you so torn up about her. Leave it alone and find a girl with similar interests.

I also wanted to make fun of you one last time:

Originally Posted by gtkriss

I always leave the ladies wanting more

Man, you sure did THAT night!

Originally Posted by Motor Eyes

Solomon219, you're so smart. I wish I was as smart as you.

Thanks, M.E.! Don't get your hopes up, though. I'm always here to answer the questions that are "too hard" though. Omay?


She's SERIOUSLY gonna kill me.....

[Motor Eyes]

Originally Posted by Solomon219

Yes, we're harsh. But you're the one who subjected your problem for public scrutiny. As long as you know it wasn't personal.



If she kinda looked like a ho, WTF? Why are you so torn up about her. Leave it alone and find a girl with similar interests.

I also wanted to make fun of you one last time:



Man, you sure did THAT night!



Thanks, M.E.! Don't get your hopes up, though. I'm always here to answer the questions that are "too hard" though. Omay?


She's SERIOUSLY gonna kill me.....

Originally Posted by Solomon219

Im so sorry, i really did mess it up. im acutally a turd because i like poo poo, my name is waffle man and i like to slap the horsie

i feel sorry for you dave. maybe you should consider revising high school again

you special ed child.
UH!!!
fucker!

[gtkriss]

geez. oh well.. It's really hard to find an attractive girl that doens't wear abercrombie & fitch, and isn't preppy where I live... wait, "katie" was all of those things, yuck.

[Motor Eyes]

Originally Posted by gtkriss

geez. oh well.. It's really hard to find an attractive girl that doens't wear abercrombie & fitch, and isn't preppy where I live... wait, "katie" was all of those things, yuck.

dang! you really have a lousy choice

i think you shouldnt shove urself into the girly business and do somethin uuuh. maybe dont try too har dot get them into bed? because it wont happen so quickly?

;/ i dunno, do u like pancakes?

[Solomon219]

Don't worry, dude. Seriously. There's other fish in the sea. You just hafta decide if you want to date a fish. I wouldn't. I'd find another girl around where you live.

This shit happens ALL the time, you're not alone. Just let things happen. Be yourself. You'll be glad, later on, that you DIDN'T stay with this girl. Unless she becomes rich and famous, and then you're screwed.

That help any?

[gtkriss]

you really scare me... and wtf is up with you fetish with waffles and pancakes... I'm not even going into your cat working at kfc smoking a joint

[gtkriss]

yea it did, I guess i'll just move on..... so on to pancake cake boy.....

[Solomon219]

I'm leavin' this to her.