I have decided the best thing for me now...

jcz1987 · #1 02-21-2006, 05:27 PM

I've decided to get over her now... she used me this whole time. From her previous relationships with guys even if shes friends with guys... she finds ways of using them... I had a freind who is now a freshman in college that wanted to date her but she rejected him. He spent 50 dollars worth of movie tickets with her and hanging out.. I ended up using about 800 with the Starbucks, the jeans I bought her, the Winterball tickets and dinner that night and all the place I took her to eat and see movies.... *sigh* Ive realized I cant trust anyone in life and now... its time to move on but she will never get hte same attention from me.... lets see if she can find a better guy for her... one who has the same abilities as me... a big hearted, romantic, caring man who expresses his love different by artistic skills in Photography, a personality that shows caring and honesty with some intellectual and common sense about life.... and I highly doubt she'll ever get to sit or drive in a BMW again...I jsut feel kinda bummed out about life in general right now since I have some others things going around me with my family and stuff. I will continue the passion and I have for photography. I will jsut never give her the same attention that she had with me. It will take a very long to time to heel.... oy yeah by the way... when shes depressed.... she does physical pain to herself by cutting her arms.... I just dont want her to become depressed about what happned between her and I. All I know is that she was able to get stuff out of me buy using me like this yet she says she was the one who felt being purchased but yet she just said that to make me feel bad.. I know... She justed tried to make me feel bad... I cried in front of her before and it showed my weekness. I feel betrayed by her and her friends definatley.

Muscletang · #2 02-21-2006, 05:56 PM

Dude, there are three billion women on this Earth. Now that number is only 2,999,999,999 billion. So I'd say you have some chances of meeting a nicer and much better looking chick. It may hurt now, but try to get over it and find somebody else.

Oh, if she gives you any shit about crying in front of her tell her to shut the fuck up and never talk to you again until she closes that revolving man door she calls a vagina. You don't have to put up with that because she was a bitch and hurt you.

BleedDodge · #3 02-21-2006, 10:46 PM

If she can't cook, she can't stay.

Rally Sport · #4 02-21-2006, 10:55 PM

Damn man, that sucks, I know a couple of chicks like that though.

Johannes · #5 02-22-2006, 02:28 AM

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Originally Posted by jcz1987

I ended up using about 800 with the Starbucks, the jeans I bought her, the Winterball tickets and dinner that night and all the place I took her to eat and see movies....

Send her a receipt?

sivic02 · #6 02-22-2006, 05:19 AM

Muscletangs words are wise and true.

I will give you the same advice I gave my boss who is about 25 and just got a divorce. All you need to do right now is just get your dick wet, worry about the other shit later. Plus you seem like your probably a nice guy and you drive a bmw...if nothing else you can get girls because of your car. Chicks like that will eventually realize that they fucked up and shouldnt have been the way they were or will live out a meaningless life doing nothing worth a damn for the human race. Either way your still a better person for realizing that you need to move on and find someone who is better for you and preferably finding some hot chick whom you can photograph and show us the pictures....im drunk dont mind me...

mwrobe1 · #7 02-22-2006, 07:35 AM

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Originally Posted by jcz1987

yeah by the way... when shes depressed.... she does physical pain to herself by cutting her arms....

I'm not trying to sound mean and insensitive here, but this is a sign of serious psychological problems, if anything, she should go see a shrink regularly until that doesn't happen anymore. Not to get all mushy here, but someone will never be able to love another if they cannot love and respect themself. You made the right move. Most really hot chicks are headcases anyway...sometimes its not worth the trouble.

ec437 · #8 02-26-2006, 03:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Johannes

Send her a receipt?

YESS

Dude I love it. From now on I'm invoicing any and all bitches I spend money on.

Johannes · #9 02-26-2006, 03:41 AM

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Originally Posted by ec437

YESS

Dude I love it. From now on I'm invoicing any and all bitches I spend money on.

Yeah... food and beverage, shipping and handling, gas, miscellaneous...

WickedNYCowboy · #10 03-01-2006, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by BleedDodge

If she can't cook, she can't stay.

Clean and laundry too.

Nicole8188 · #11 03-01-2006, 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Johannes

Send her a receipt?

Does this work the other way around?

Seriously, I've never had a boyfriend spend more money on me than I have on him. I think I'm getting used...

TerminalVelocity · #12 03-01-2006, 11:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Nicole8188

Does this work the other way around?

Seriously, I've never had a boyfriend spend more money on me than I have on him. I think I'm getting used...

A girl who actually spends her own money on a date and dosent always force the dude to do it?....

What state are you in? Do you like tall guys? How about fast cars?

Do you cook?

GForce957 · #13 03-02-2006, 12:07 AM

For real!

NC is a great place, come visit haha

TerminalVelocity · #14 03-02-2006, 02:12 AM

sorry bro, but I got ya beat.

California, and...I can cook!

GForce957 · #15 03-02-2006, 01:20 PM

Whats your favorite dish? I'm not gonna cook it but I'll order it from ZANZIBAR!

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