Today outright sucked

[stoned_pimp420]

Alright this was a totally fucked day so I need to vent A LOT so here goes....
I woke up and first thing I do is step on a chard of broken glass that was next to my bed due to a broken beer bottle, great so I go to the hospital and get 3 stitches to close it up (it cut pretty deep) Then I'm on my way to get the system in my Blazer tuned by the guy who put it under warranty he tunes it and tells me alls good so I leave and about a half mile up the road I get a sound violation ticket but wait it gets better than this, by 1:12 this evening I have flipped my Blazer and dislocated my shoulder and got whiplash something horrible in the wreck, as I pull myself out of the wreck I smell gas, then the blazer catches on fire but the Lowndes County Fire Department comes and puts it out before much of anything of monetary value (that wasn't already destroyed by the wreck) gets messed up, Then I'm sitting at my Aunts house in Columbus and the best thing happens, she GIVES me a 1990 Buick Century out of sheer pity and kindness like the one I just flipped except this one is silver, then I thank her and off I go to try and find a job the FIRST phone conversation held by me in this car is when a girl I've been fooling around with calls me from the doctors office and tells me this "Rockey, guess what" i say "what's that baby" she says "I'm pregnant" I run off the road going about 65 or so and hit a mailbox and trash the front clip and hood on my newly acquired car less than my first two miles of driving it and I asked her if it was mine and she said "possibly but then again possibly not but I figured you should be the first to know" then I proceed to ask her why it's possibly not mine and she says she has been jumping between me and this other guy (and I've always used protection) and she tells me that he didn't use protection only once, so I'm all sorts of nervous about this whole kid thing because I'm only 18 and BARELY make enough money to make it to and from work. The worst has yet to come though, I make it home and find out that one of my close friends is possibly paralized for life because of a car wreck that he had in Tuscalloosa thanks to drinking and driving around the same time that I flipped my Blazer and he's on life support and in a coma, and then immediatly after I get out of the hospital seeing J.J. in a coma, Brittany calls me back and says that she doesn't want this child and she wants an abortion and then has the NERVE to ask me for 200 dollars to pay for half of the abortion and I told her HELL NO!!!! So she said "fine then I'll go to the father of it then" and well you know where the days ends up..............me crawling inside a bottle of Vodka and trying to drink my troubles away, and tomorrow I'll be taking ALL of the suspension and other modifications out of my old buick and putting them in this one along with a front clip and hood and audio system out of whats left of the Blazer even though I'll have to cut the back half of it out with a sawzall to get the subs out it will be worth it I guess.

My day totally sucked...........possibly the worst day ever recorded on the internet and I'm still having hell moving my neck any at all and since I told Brittany to FUCK OFF about money for an abortion I haven't heard from her since.
What really pisses me off about the whole abortion thing is that if she goes through with the abortion thats murder and if she has it and puts it up for adoption thats abandonment, when neither are necessary while I'd try my damndest to support her and my child (if a DNA test proves it's mine) I would NEVER even THINK about either of those options that she has put up to me. I've tried calling her back and she won't answer my calls. The total damage to vehicles that I've performed today is NOTHING compared to J.J. and this shit with Brittany and the worst part about it is that her parents hate me and my parents hate her and then agian my BEST friend may never walk again so today was a F.U.B.A.R. day for me and I'd appreciate it if you all would ATTEMPT to put yourselves in my situation.

P.S. My insurance company will probably deny me any insurance after they hear about this wreck.

[MagicRat]

( Jesus Christ!!)
You get the award for worst day!

I am glad you were not hurt worse! It could have been BBQ Rockey!

The cars can be fixed or replaced, don't let it get to you.
Your girl is definitely scared but maybe a bit heartless.
Sadly, the man in a womans life cannot do much to prevent her from having an abortion if she really wants. It's sad that she feels her situation forces her to have one.

However, her screwing around with you as well as the other guy without you knowing is unforgiveable, at the very least because of the possibility of transmission of STD's. At least you did the right thing, in your attitude and in using protection!

On the other hand, maybe you shouldn't use the phone and drive? I know I drive like shit whenever I do that, so I don't anymore.

[driftinggrifter2]

You know what man I think your sig just summed up your whole day.
Sorry to hear bout such a day as that. Atleast your still breathing and not hospitalized. the whole abortion thing really sucks to...if it turns out to be yours cuz she can still get the abortion without your permission. Judging by the situation though the adoption wouldnt be that bad(depending on if she wants to be a mother or not) though im not for either option i would rather see a child given for adoption rather than aborted. Hopefully it all works out in the end for you and judging from the way things are i kind a hope its not yours otherwise things are going to be hell (her probably being the cause since she knows how to push your buttons)

[stoned_pimp420]

Today like the title said, it outright sucked and I honestly am at a loss of words, which is rare for me considering I'm a MAN of many words, I had to share with an audience of people who would give me an HONEST opinion even though she BEGGED me to not share this info with anyone, as for my friend J.J. the doctors said he could be out of his coma tomorrow or he may never come out of it, which stresses the living hell out of me because I've grown up with this cat and if given the chance I'd take his place in that coma this second unfortunatly is NOT an option, I almost wanna die but then I remind myself that I MAY have a child on the way that will need me someday and I don't honestly know WTF to do, this is BY FAR the WORST situation I've EVER been in or imagined myself being in considering I didn't want children to become an option for me until I have a ring on a girls finger (and I mean more than an engagement ring) So........well like I said I'm a man of MANY words but I'm at a loss of words on this one...............

[v10_viper]

So where ya live, I'll bring two 18's of beer and a small bottle of absynth.

[-Jayson-]

wow i never thought it was possible to have that bad of a day, ive had some bad ones better never that bad. Sorry about your friend, its hard life lesson hes gonna have to learn. Sadly to many people dont realise the dangers of drinking and driving untill its to late.

That girl sounds like a Ho, no doubt about it. Shes prolly sleeping with alteast one other guy. If you said you always used a condom and you never saw any broken condoms, i highly doubt that kid is yours. She seems pretty confident its not your anyways. But for christ sake stop calling her. She is not a girl you want to be messing around with. Your gonna end up fathering someone elses kid.

[stoned_pimp420]

You know Jayson you're right about everything except one thing, I take it that you took it that my friend was the one drinking and driving, well that's backwards my friend was the sober one and he was driving back from the mall and a drunk guy came across the median and head on into him and (this is what really pisses me off) the drunk guy WALKED AWAY from it with no problems besides he spent the night in jail for DUI and possible vehicular homicide, and I just found out that the peoples mailbox that I ran over is wanting SIX HUNDERED AND THIRTY TWO DOLLARS of restitution for ONE mailbox, so I'll probably be going to court over that one.

The only halfway decent thing that came out of yesterday besides the fact that I'm alive is that the Buick ended up not being to bad off and all of the non cosmetic supports were still solid and not bent, I'm too tired to worry about cutting the roof off and pulling a stereo out of a rolled and burned Blazer so I'll save that for another day, unless I have another day much worse than yesterday (then I won't be posting on here unless they have internet in heaven or hell)

As for my foot it's sore as everything but at least I'm here to bitch about it.

When I looked at the Blazer this morning I realized that I had to have gotten laid over across the seats because the drivers seat is what stopped the roof from caving in anymore on that side, man I am SOOO lucky to be alive much less able to post on here today. I've realized how quickly everything can be taken away from you and I'll probably be making some SERIOUS lifestyle changes in order to insure that I'll be around to not see everything be snatched away in an instant.

[Oz]

YOU are your own worst enemy. You left a bottle lying around that got stepped on and cut your foot. You crashed your car. You didn;t use pretection while having sex. You crashed your (new car) and then you drank yourself into a coma.

It sounds like you had a horrible day, and I don't think anyone deserves that much crap in a single day, but how much of it are you personally responsible for and could have been avoided?

[stoned_pimp420]

Oz you are WRONG I used protection the other guy used protection all except once, granted I did wreck my vehicles and I'm the idiot for even fooling with this trick in the first place especially since her family hates me and my family hates her, but what can I say I was thinking with the head that can't see, hangs around with two nuts all day and lives down the way from an asshole!!!! BUT at least I was smart enough to use protection EVERY time I slept with her which is more than I can say for the other jackass. I'm not trying to insult "the all great and might OZ" but it sounds like the OZ needs to do his reading before he goes to criticizing people for their actions.

[quteasabutton]

Originally Posted by Oz

YOU are your own worst enemy. You left a bottle lying around that got stepped on and cut your foot. You crashed your car. You didn;t use pretection while having sex. You crashed your (new car) and then you drank yourself into a coma.

It sounds like you had a horrible day, and I don't think anyone deserves that much crap in a single day, but how much of it are you personally responsible for and could have been avoided?

lighten up a little, clearly he's having a hard time here. the bottle was an accident that yes, could've been avoided but still sucks anyways. crashing his car sucks too but i'm glad you're ok. he DID use protection, the other guy didn't. and if someone told you news like that don't you think you'd be a little shocked too? i would hate for them to tell me that while i was driving. i can't believe you managed to cram that many bad things into one day, i hope things get better for you. PM me if you need to talk about anything, serious.

[driftinggrifter2]

Dude stay away from the chick cuz chances are after she confronts the father of her child he'll probably bug out(sooner or later) and then she'll most likely come back to you for her own survival. Don't let it happen or her use you like that. I wouldn't even talk with her again unless the baby by some slim chance turns out to be yours.
As far as your friend has there been any type of progress with his health?
Hope all works out in the end with him. I can relate with this one. I had a friend just got his license(this is bout 6yrs back) we were tight ya know. If anyone fucked with him they would fuck with me and vice versa. Well the 2nd day of having his license a drunk driver ran a red light and t-boned the drivers side of his car. Dude was going so fast it killed my boy instantly(doc said that) Driver got 2yrs jail plus probation. the night i found out i was at a party and had a half bottle of tequila right before they told me. I was a wreck for a long time.
If there is any progress man keep us up to date fuck any one that wants to patronize you for this I'm sure there is a few of us you can talk to.

[stoned_pimp420]

I must say I do appreciate the FEW people on AF who attempted to put theirselves in my shoes on this day, and as far as the people who had negative things to comment on my day and or actions/reactions well I'd rather keep my thoughts to myself so as to where as I won't get banned for my personal thoughts.

Like I said before I appreciate the few people who have given me mental support during this whole ordeal and it won't be over until either A) she has the abortion, which is gonna kill me emotionally and spiritually or B) I die and I don't plan on that one happening anytime soon. SO I'll probably need and want any support from anyone that I can get any from (not to sound like an attention whore) but I'm emotionally destroyed by this one and I don't know WTF to do.

[Quickshift]

Damn that sucks, Hope your friend makes a fast and full recovery, as far as the baby goes if it's not yours don't talk to the girl again

[vinnym86]

Oz raised a good point about how some of these things could have been prevented, and how it was your own fault, but imo you have every right to complain, its just tough luck, and sorry it had to come to it. I hope it all works out for the best. Usually i'd always just say "you know what, shit happens, nuthin you can do." i'll say it here too, but it seems almost insulting. but hey, shit happens. nuthin you can do. just ride out the wave and try to land on your feet. from there, you can pick up and start again.

[imtheoneandonlyD]

Im kinda with Oz, i believe some of these things could have been avoided. But needless to say they did happen. Crashing the first car was just stupid, letting a phone convo fuck up your driving that much is just dumb. The glass bottle thing sucks, i hate going to the hospital for anything, even if im not the one hurt. Hope things get better.