More problems with the opposite sex..

[CamaroSSBoy346]

Okay, so I've kinda had this crush on this girl for awhile...maybe more then that... but anyways, tonight my friends were talkin to her, and the topic of me and her going out was brought up. Oh joy.. Heres what I've found out. She likes me, as a friend for now. She said that she might be interested IF I showed more interest in her, and she wants me to show her that I DO like her. Now, lets just say I'm about as romantic as a rock. I mean, I thought letting her drive my car, metting her and hanging out with her before school starts in the hallway, buying her gum/candy all the time, buying her Slurpees, and Taco Bell, just buying her stuff in general. (I know, pretty shallow, just buying stuff, but like i said. Like a rock)

Now heres the confusing part. Some of my other friends will joke around saying "wow, yall are going out" to which her reply is something like "Yeah right, we're just friends." But then sometimes she'll give me some signs, like she will laugh at some of my dumbest jokes, and we talk about some of the weirdest stuff, that only WE would talk about (Kinda hard to explain...)

So now my question is, what are some things I could do to show her that I really have feelings for her, and I mean, more then just a friend.

[Oz]

If you can't come up with some good ways to show her your feelings, then don't tell her. But if you're going to put some thought and creativity into it, it sounds like you're in with a chance.

[HighOctaneNOSUser]

Did you try just asking her out to a movie or dance something?

[Mustangman25]

Just ask her out somewhere, and make it clear on the date that it isn't just two friends...it's apparant that she doesn't really see anything in it yet, so it's completly up to you. Nothing's going to happen at all unless you take some action.

[sganc4life_4]

I would say ask her out to dinner then go to the beach or something like that after if its a nice night. Works like a charm whenever ive done it.

[BleedDodge]

She wants your money.

[PBking82]

Originally Posted by BleedDodge

She wants your money.

Finally somebody who gets it! Bro if you want this relationship then you're gonna have to do more than buy her shit and let her drive your car. Ask her out on a date and make sure she knows it's not a "friend date" then tell her how beautifull she is and how much you like spending time with her etc... You gotta understand that some women don't like you buying them lots of shit. Like my girl. I like to spoil her because I have good taste in things so on her birthday, christmas, anniversary, etc... I would always get her really nice shit. She appreciates it, but see's it kinda as being bought and I totally get that. Tell her what you like about her, etc... Idunno man it's kinda hard to give advice on feelings because IMO if you can't express those feelings it generally means that you don't have them. Peace-

[clawhammer]

Try sending her flowers?

[Toksin]

Or just tell her straight up?

[2.2 Straight six]

Originally Posted by Toksin

Or just tell her straight up?

thank you !

look, if you want to be honest with her, just be honest.

be like "look, i really like you. i know we're just friends but i want this to become more. i have certain feeling for you and i really like you...."

if that fails then sorry, my mistake.

[quteasabutton]

don't "just buy her stuff" cuz trust me if she's like most girls she'll end up just using you for your money. once they find out that you'll buy them anything that they want, well they'll try that just to see how much they can get you to buy. i've told guys it's over because all they did is buy me things to get me to like them, and i want a guy that gets to know me, asks me out on a date, stuff like that. so yup, let her know how you feel, ask her out someplace and good luck to you, hope it all works out

[MBTN]

If you're buying her stupid little things all the time, you gotta say something like "How about we skip Taco Bell today, and I'll take you to dinner instead?" ASK HER OUT! You're headed straight for the infamous "friend zone".

[sickcallawayc12]

You could cook for her instead of taking her out. then again, i don't know shit about girls.

[v10_viper]

Boink her.









Or you could just tell her the truth?? I really don't understand what's so hard about telling a girl you like her, shit it's 50/50 man, either she likes you back or she doesn't, in your case, she does, what the hell is so damn complicated? Try something not so original...I once asked a girl out right after we got home from a track meet when we got back in the school..definately not the most romantic thing obviously but hey, it worked.

[Emilyprw]

Take her out to dinner and a movie. The clasic date. In every girls mind Dinner and a movie is a date unless its with some homosexual dude or your asking her to go with you and some of your buddies. If its just the two of you for dinner and a movie its a date.