Am i a bad friend or are girls backstabbers? - Page 2

chixSI · #16 03-21-2005, 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by asdfbeau

why is it that women always say 'i have more guy friends than girl friends'? - no shit...it's really not going to be that hard for you to keep/make guy friends. it doesn't matter whether you're a tomboy or not. women, on the other hand, are less likely to remain your friends if they weren't meant to be your friends in the first place.

the answer here is really simple, your interests have alienated you from most women, period. therefore, you will never have the cliche 'clique' of friends that other women will have - you don't have the same range of things in common, you don't have the same mindset (as illustrated by you going to a meet to check out cars, while they to go check out guys). They can never really be your friends now: you've come over to the dark side; it's time to grab a beer, turn on the speed channel, and accept the answer that is staring you in the damn face: guy friends are just easier than girl friends.

this thread was at the top when i posted to it, so don't bitch at me about bringing up old threads.

Damn, you don't sugar coat anything...but that's fine, i NEEDED to hear that from someone!

thanks dude, but i'm really at that point know where i have giving up...i love my guy friends and i will just have to except the fact that I will probably will never have a decent girlfriend. But you know what...i think i'm cool with that now....

Snorlax · #17 03-23-2005, 12:45 PM

interesting. o_O its hard then to really become friends with ppl ... you just dont kknow their motives....

chixSI · #18 03-23-2005, 03:30 PM

yep it's offical, all my guy friends came up with a new nick-name for me. My real name is Jennie but instead of that, they call me Kenny now

JDMgirly · #19 03-27-2005, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by chixSI

yep it's offical, all my guy friends came up with a new nick-name for me. My real name is Jennie

Hey .. I can be your girlfriend...

95VicChik · #20 03-28-2005, 06:31 PM

hey,

i must say that you seem like a cool person, i'll be your best girlfriend hehe....girls are stupid about girls being "tomboyish"...y? i have no clue...that's just the way girls are...no offense to anyone here

i'm in the same boat your in...i don't get along with girls very well because of the fact that they are too competitive to look past differences in other people. I'm the type of tom-boy that'll wear guys and girls clothes...y? some days i want to be comfortable and somedays i want to look good and cute...does that make me a bad person? no...does that mean that i should go out and change my ways and my looks because i don't fall into a "cool" category when i waer something that a guy would?...absolutely not....

my point is if someone is going to judge you by your personality, character, your actions, or the way you dress....there not going to be real friends in the end...i'll be flat out honest with you..i have very few friends, i'm not attractive, i'm fat, and i dress like a guy sometimes...but you know what? i'm happy with who i am...and so are the friends that i have....and i feel safe in knowing that they would do anything in the world for me if i needed them...they don't judge me by the way i look or act...or that i like to get myself under the hood of my car and get dirt under my fingernails...

be yourself, and if girls can't handle that, then that's there loss and there problem...if there head is so far up there @$$ that they can't see past something....then that should be your first clue

HitVtech · #21 04-25-2005, 11:43 PM

some people just suck. Not all females are back stabbers.

Miss EX · #22 10-23-2005, 09:01 PM

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Originally Posted by chixSI

i've noticed that girls only trying to be my friend and use me for my car to get attention by the guys!!

Girls are sluts. I am so sick of the femme crowd. I know what you mean, I like to have girlfriends too. But they are all back stabbers, like to step on you, make you feel crumby. You know what I think their problem is? INSECURITIES! I've just been hanging out with the boys, I still tend to try to hang out with the same girls all the time, but they always tend to dissappoint me. Oh well what are ya gonna do!!!

russiankid · #23 10-24-2005, 04:23 PM

i bet your a nice girl to hang out with , but like some one said that its your tomboy thing, maybe if you changed the way you are, or maybe try and blend in with the girls around you, so they will like you

honda_racing101 · #24 10-24-2005, 09:46 PM

Hello, old thread.

russiankid · #25 10-26-2005, 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by honda_racing101

Hello, old thread.

talkin to me?

chixSI · #26 10-27-2005, 06:40 PM

WOW, this is an old thread brought back to life. Maybe the reason people did bring this thread back up because the forum itself is always dead with no new threads.

Well about my luck with the girls, i'm still having the problem and just took the fact that this is just the way I am. i don't think my problem is that i'm tomboyish, because by looking at me, i look like any other girl. I'm just more involved with the guy sport of racing. Everything else about me is all girl. Well maybe I can't wear dresses or shorts, but I'm still a girl. So with that said, I'm pretty sure it's not that i'm tomboy. But exactly what is the term tomboy? Is it when a girl likes the male sports or it is a girl who looks and acts like a male? Anyways thanks for the advice... all is much help

russiankid · #27 11-02-2005, 09:06 PM

well then be what ever you want, screw the girls, there are lots of girls out there that are like you, maybe you can find one and be friends