Girl problems - Page 2

MBTN · #16 10-16-2005, 09:59 PM

Just say hello, nothing else. If she just says "oh hello." then she got your message and blew you off. Otherwise she will either tell you she got your message but was busy, or she will say she didn't get your message at all.

clawhammer · #17 10-17-2005, 07:29 AM

I mean its entirely possible that I called the wrong number, or that my message was inaudible, etc and she wouldn't necessarily know that I called. Should I mention it maybe after she doesn't say anything?

MBTN · #18 10-17-2005, 03:21 PM

Say hello and see what kind of vibe you get. If she seems to be avoiding you, then you know what's up...

clawhammer · #19 10-17-2005, 09:46 PM

Well, I went ahead and talked to her about it. I told her that I was confused by her actions (she said "yes" and then didn't return my message), so then she's like I never said yes, I said "maybe". And then she was making up some bs excuses about not calling me. Oh well, looking back at it now, it's actually kind of funny that she would say "I never said 'yes'".

xokayxo · #20 10-18-2005, 12:36 AM

shady girls make up excuses. i'd say give it another shot and if she does the same thing, forget about it (and her). dont waste your time on someone who doesnt want to spend their time with you.

PBking82 · #21 10-18-2005, 02:26 AM

Seriously, I'm dealing with this girl who is sooooooooo fucking passive it's not even funny. EVERY time we've done something I have to decide(we're talking possibly hundreds of dates) I don't give a shit about the whole balls thing! I have balls I know that, she knows that. But everytime I figure out something to do I ask her if she's cool/what would you like to do and her favorite response is "thats great, whatever you want to do" or "i don't care". And she has this thing about not calling me untill i call her, or she won't return my messages. It sounds like she's always blowing me off, but she truely digs me. Whats even worse is everytime I've talked to her about this she's like "ok, well i'm sorry i do that. I'll work on it". I've been dating on-off with this girl for like 5 years and I'm not sure i can take it anymore. WTF?? Why does the guy always have to be the one to take charge and figure shit out and handle the action. I'm going to get wasted. Peace-

MBTN · #22 10-18-2005, 08:27 PM

"I'd say give it another shot"
NO
Screw it. Consider it a loss and move on. Sadly shit happens, but she was just being a typical tease.

2.2 Straight six · #23 10-18-2005, 09:24 PM

cos men an women don't see eye-to-eye. men an women are completely different, we think "women are screwed in the head" an they think "the bastard left the toilet seat up.." its life an i can honestly say despite the psycho-analysing i like to do to try and understand them, i never will.

PBking82 · #24 10-18-2005, 11:54 PM

I get that men-women don't see eye-to-eye but you can really help the situation by taking charge. Well maybe this is the reason i've never had a real long lasting relationship besides the one i'm in right now. You have to be like LOOK!!! don't play fucking games with me, don't try to fuck me over, and don't try and treat me like shit and not expect me to do anything about it. You have to make them understand that you aren't scared to break up with them. They can't hold that over your head all the time, because it's fucking bullshit. I believe in treating women right, but i don't think that we as men should be allowed to be treated as shit. Seriously i don't understand the double standard between men and women. Women are like all men suck but as soon as a guy talks shit about a girl he is a fucking asshole. I'm gonna stop because i could go on for fucking pages about this. I love women but the majority of them piss me off beyond belief. Peace-

XeVeNskyLiNE · #25 10-19-2005, 12:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PBking82

I get that men-women don't see eye-to-eye but you can really help the situation by taking charge. Well maybe this is the reason i've never had a real long lasting relationship besides the one i'm in right now. You have to be like LOOK!!! don't play fucking games with me, don't try to fuck me over, and don't try and treat me like shit and not expect me to do anything about it. You have to make them understand that you aren't scared to break up with them. They can't hold that over your head all the time, because it's fucking bullshit. I believe in treating women right, but i don't think that we as men should be allowed to be treated as shit. Seriously i don't understand the double standard between men and women. Women are like all men suck but as soon as a guy talks shit about a girl he is a fucking asshole. I'm gonna stop because i could go on for fucking pages about this. I love women but the majority of them piss me off beyond belief. Peace-

whew. personal experiences? Been there, done that.

Seriously some girls just don't give a rats ass. I'd say she's one of them. I don't believe in that "Oh sorry I didn't get your message" bullshit, cell phones don't magically erase messages, and not to sound sexist or anything, but most girls are addicted to their cell phones.

So like the other guys said, just move along like its no biggie.

xokayxo · #26 10-19-2005, 03:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PBking82

Women are like all men suck but as soon as a guy talks shit about a girl he is a fucking asshole.

i dont think generalized statements like that should be allowed. i have never said, nor do i believe, that all men suck. i know that there are great guys out there and i've met some of them. i do believe, though, that if girls have reasons to bad-mouth guys that guys would have just as many reasons to bad-mouth girls.

2.2 Straight six · #27 10-19-2005, 12:39 PM

yep, i agree with xokayso on that. i dont think its sex that decides the bad-mouthin, its the person an what they've done/what they do.

capricorn · #28 10-20-2005, 12:21 PM

here's the deal... sounds like you've rejected lightly with the first call... if you call again, you'll just give her another opportunity to reject you again.

Twizted_3KGT · #29 10-24-2005, 02:28 PM

yeah, you can either keep trying and end up looking like a loser...or you can shrug it off like she means nothing to you and it'll be like nothing happened.

Girls aren't so different from guys, there's a lot of girls out there that think exactly like guys (they're just the ones we, as men, call sluts). I know a girl that will date a guy just to play his Xbox, now thats shallow...(did I bang her? yes, she was hot, and dating the guy w/ the xbox, but obviously messed up in the head). Some girls don't even like it when a guy wants them, they'd rather have him play hard to get. They do like dominance though, idc what they say, dominance makes them feel secure...almost the same way money makes them feel secure.

So you have about 2 choices as a guy for girls to be all over you...be strong, good looking, caring, and funny....or have money. Now if you're like me and have both....nah j/k...i dont have much money

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