One of my many thoughts

[jon@af]

Have you ever had one of those feelings in the pit of your stomach, such that you knew what it was but you had not the slightest idea of how you should go about getting rid of it? As of late I have been bothered seemingly more and more by the same kind of feeling, and I know what I should do, but I dont know how. To some of you this will sound a bit stupid, and others will know exactly what I mean but here goes. Every so often there is a want to be with someone, to be able to hold someone, and to just be able to have someone sitting next to you, and know that they are there if you need them. I myself really havent had the pleasure of experiencing this as I am always so busy doing this or that, that I never really get the time to develop relationships with persons of the opposite sex to the point that the relationship may grow and become something more. Im not so much asking for advice as I am, in a way, venting my feelings; but recently that pit in my stomach has done nothing but twist and turn like a knife, and it bothers me. There are people whom I know and whom also know that I care about them, but they never seem to return the feelings. I'll be there to comfort them, and I'll make the steps to growing a relationship, and they will treat them with apathy. I know some would say that perhaps Im trying to hard, or perhaps Im going about it the wrong way, which is possible; but I just wish that for once, someone would notice what I was sending to them and respond in the same way. I know some may say, "Well, it will happen for you sooner or later." I understand that, and Im not saying it has to be a deep relationship that spans for years; I just want someone. Anyways, some of these words may be in vein, some may not; some of you may think me looney, others may not; but nonetheless I just needed to get that off my chest. *exhale*

[TexasF355F1]

I know what you're talking about. It really sux, but i don't have any advice except that things will get better.

[dirtydx]

yeah that feeling hurts. getting dumped hurts worse tho LOL.


it almost sounds like you just want some

[titutus]

i agree with you !
(very sux )

[Dumped91Hatch]

Yeah I think if you want some of this and you get nothing but this Just give it time it will happen eventually. If it does get you down just chill and think about the good things. You can't rush love you have to wait for it to come to you. It took me too many relationships too count till I found the right girl. And if you just want someone, anyone then it's not worth it. And if they know you care about them try not to let it get in the way of a friendship.