What to do when you hate your buddy's girlfriend?

[jon@af]

Honestly? your buddy sounds too nice. I doubt that she would have killed herself(dont know for sure though). I actually think she said that because she knew he wouldnt want something bad to happen to her so she took advantage. Any girl like that needs help. I think your buddy needs to ditch the bitch as soon as he can, or it may end up causing problems. If he wants to get rid of her, heres what he can do: treat her like she doesnt exist, pay less attention to her, dont listen all the time, make her WANT to not be with him.

[zebrathree]

Or put her to good use in the kitchen.

[kublah]

Dude, she can't even F*&king cook...

[jon@af]

Originally posted by kublah
Dude, she can't even F*&king cook...

!!!!!!

[zebrathree]

Originally posted by kublah
Dude, she can't even F*&king cook...

Then drop her arse off to cooking school.

Shes a woman, its part of her duties.

[Im2Fast4U]

Not to steal your thread but I've had/have a similar problem. Try this one for size....

You start hanging out with this girl (we'll call her *Sarah). You start a relationship, it goes well for 6 months then she changes and starts getting with like 4 different guys. She screws you over and she gets so bad her two best friends stop talking to her for almost a month. Then she says it wasn't intentional and she wants to stop and you give her the benefit of the doubt because she never acted like this before and she was a really good friend. Then *Sarah screws her best friend (we'll call her *Maria) over by dating a guy (we'll call him *Jim) that *Maria likes (and *Jim, ironically enough is also my...er I mean your bestfriend ^^still with me here? good.^^) Ok well now *Sarah's dating *Jim and you wanna be happy for them and you tell her you're fine but then you see *Sarah rubbing her relationship in *Maria's face (.....damn this is confusing) and *Sarah is still acting like a complete tramp/hoe/........

So basically you are getting closer and closer to hating your ex who was at one time one of your greatest friends and its making you hate *Jim too. What do you do? Ya, try and figure that one out....do I do nothing? I know I'll end up completely dropping her and there will be no friendship, maybe that's what she deserves?

Ok well, as for your situation, I think that soem people were right, I mean I think he needs to know but probably best if you wait till he asks rather than offering the info. As far as him trying to dump her before, I think that says he doesn't wanna be with her so maybe you should just go talk to him and as for her saying she'll commit suicide...that's tough but if she's serious she needs alot more help then either of you can give her and I seriously doubt him staying with her just to remedy it is best. Good luck man, just do whatever you will be able to live with a year from now.

edit: decided names were needed to lessen confusion.
*= not real name of person

[Carguy393]

Just a quick question is *maria hot?

See there is always someone in a worse situation

Anyways as far as the first story goes If the girl threatens suicide then tell her she needs to go in for a psychological evaluation. If she really has a problem then they will try and fix it. If not then you guys can get rid of her because she is being a bitch and is just whining for attention.

[LayDee]

I think you should definitely share your thoughts with your friend. Don't tell him you can't stand his girl but give him meaningful reasons why he shouldn't be with her and that he derserves someone better.

[THE4TH]

i usually tell them i don't like them or they know it cause i speak 0 words to them ... works wonders..