97 Civic security/"other" harness?

[Max-97CivicEx]

K, i got a 97 Civic EX I am planning to install an aftermarket alarm in.

I know it has the keyless entry "security" harness and some other harness , presumably for the factory alarm.

Anyone know where to get the female connectors for those 2 harnesses? (not for the stereo harness)

Also, I found the pinout for the security harness (the one that plugs into the factory stereo) but does anyone know where to get the alarm harness pinout? I would really want to try to cut as few wires as possible and make it as simple as possible? Or am i making my life harder worrying about this crap?

I am pretty green on this stuff, so I would appreciate any advice or pointers.

Thanks.

-Max