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#1
07-29-2003, 07:54 PM
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Damn women!!
Ok heres the problem...I ve been with my girlfriend for a while now, like 2 years... and I love her and everything...but theres a problem..
I bought a 95 neon for around $2000...I know its not much...but im in college right now. But anyways, I paid for the car, without any assistance...and my girlfriend seems to think it's "our" car, when all she does is help out with gas once in a while. Also, I take my car to work... and when Im done, I get out to the parking lot, and my car's gone. She just helps herself to my car...and she shows up at my work to pick me up, like 20minutes after Im done.  Im sorry but when Im done work, I want to get the f*ck out of there. Anyways, how can I tell her nicely...I tried telling its my car, but she gets all offended.. Any ideas?? Thanks 
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07-29-2003, 08:08 PM
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I take it her name is no where on the title.
next time the car goes missing, report it stolen.
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07-29-2003, 08:33 PM
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How the hell does she get to your work to take your car? You need to sit her down and lay down the law and tell her how you feel.
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#6
07-29-2003, 08:36 PM
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She gets a ride there from her dad...to use my car to go shopping...well, where I work is farther than the shopping mall...it would have made more sense for her to just get a ride there from her dad. Instead she insists on driving around aimlessly, racking up kilometers on my car.
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#7
07-29-2003, 08:50 PM
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ok, then just tell her how much its bothering you. Tell her that honesty matters to you, and your being honest, and that her just coming and taking your car, and yes, it is yours, bothers you alot. if she needs it, she can ask to borrow it, but to just show up and take it is plain rude and disconcerting. in my opinion, she is showing a lack of respect to you, and acting like your married....... maybe she is trying to give you a hint.
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#8
07-29-2003, 08:57 PM
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Whoa Sniper...thats scary
 Haha..but I do agree that its kinda rude... I felt like I was being used for my car. I really dont want to feel like I married...Im only 20... Oh ya..she says she feels like a little kid when I telly her to ask when she wants to borrow the car. 
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#9
07-29-2003, 09:14 PM
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If she feels like a little kid then let her feel that way, you are the male, and should be the dominant partner in your relationship. You need to show her who wears the pants, and tell her that should she want to borrow your car, she will tell you when, where she is going, and when she plans on being back. If it's your vehicle, you should have rules for it, and she may not like it at first, but she will come to accept it(hopefully).
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#10
07-29-2003, 10:35 PM
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What is so hard about stealing her key? Have her buy her own damn car. If she can spend money shopping, she can spend money buying her own car. You can find cars really cheap.
Shes probably taking your car to go meet her other boyfriend. I agree with "ILike2DriveCars" you need to lay down the law, otherwise she will just take advantage of you. See, guys dont relize this, but girls need to be put in place. All my ex-boyfriends were pussys so I knew I could totally took advantage of them. My current boyfriend wears the pants in the house, he respects me, but he also lays down the law when I do shit he doesnt like and I respect him for that. If someone took something of mine without asking, it would be the last time. Its your car, go buy the club.
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#11
07-29-2003, 11:45 PM
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   No shit!!!! She cant just take your car. If my woman did that i would tell her that aint cool.
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#12
07-29-2003, 11:45 PM
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Why don't you just tell her, that if she is going to use YOUR car which you paid for with YOUR money, then she had damn better have it back by the time YOU need it. If she doesn't want to be considerate of the fact that it's YOUR car, then tell her to get her own damn automobile. (but try and leave out the damn part)
OR buy a real man's car (like mine) one which your girl friend "wouldn't be caught dead in"
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#13
07-29-2003, 11:47 PM
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...And why the hell does she have a key??????
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#14
07-30-2003, 06:05 PM
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She conveniently snatch the spare key that came with it...
I guess I can steal her key..cause I already tried telling her its "MY" car...and that just created a big mess... I dont know...I just feel like shit when I lay down the law...she has this way of making me feel like Im wrong and that Im being an asshole.
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07-30-2003, 06:15 PM
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Thats just the way most females are, if your not gona put her in her place she's gona take advantage of you and your never gona be happy with what she does. I was the most wiped lil BF in the world with my first. Till she fwked me over and we split, now with my new GF hells no am i gona spoil her rotten like my first. Your only 20 im guessing your GF is younger then you?? Dosent she have school too or something, well your gona just have to tell her 2 years is nothing you got your entire life ahead of you... just remember that
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