girlfriend problems

[97civiclx]

so kara and me have been dating for about a year and a half.
our relationship was awesome we were the best of friends did everything together had our problems here and there.
now we started getting pretty serious kissing wise a couple of weeks ago. we decided to slow down and now like this past week she has been acting like she doesnt know me or like im stupid. she tells me she doesnt love me as much as she use to. then tonite she came over and we where hanging out watching tv and she was getting ready to leave and we kiss and it didnt feel like there was any thing there and then she leaves abrubtly i tell her i love her and she justs walks out and shuts the door. im so freakn hurt why she wont tell me what i did or what has changed does ne one have ne ideas on what could be bothering her?

[kublah]

Welcome to the rest of your life... What you have just been subjected to happens to all of us at some point, usually several times. If you don't think you did anything to make her change her attitude towards you, you proabably didn't. That means there is about a 99.9% chance that she is interested in some other dude and chooses to string you along blindly instead of telling you what's up. If you tell a girl you love her and she leaves without a word, it's time to let that one go because she obviously doesn't even care enough about you to tell you the truth.

[Toksin]

What kublah said. I've been where you are. Talk to her, ask her what the problem is, and if it's something to do with you two.

Just brace yourself, it could not be pretty...

[dayna240sx]

you're 18, have been dating her for a year and a half, and are just now kissing?

[kublah]

Originally Posted by dayna240sx

you're 18, have been dating her for a year and a half, and are just now kissing?

No kidding. This relationship doesn't seem to make a lot of sense chronologically... Start freshh somewhere else man. Smile & be cool when you see her, but let her be someone else's problem...

[SonyMobile]

over a year... and you have trouble kissing her? dude, sounds like you need to find a new chick... no offense or nothing...

[jon@af]

I think I'll have to agree with much of what has been said thus far. Please dont take offense to this but it sounds to me as though she is a bit immature. It looks like she either A. Has a new man or B. Is bored with the relationship. I think you'd be better off with someone who doesnt treat like that, because unless there is something you have done that you neglected to mention, what reasons besides the ones I already gave would cause her to be mad. She's giving you the cold shoulder? Give her the cold shoulder, dont ask her to do anything, "pretend" not to see her every once in a while. I know that sounds a bit odd for advice, but that's just what I make of it. Good luck man.

[NOBU-SAN]

At 18 I was crushing shit after like 2 hours sometimes. Fuck all that shit!!! Really, it sounds like she wants YOU to break up with HER. Why else would a broad tell you she doesn't love you like she used to? You're too young for that shit. Kepp your chest out and your head up and go get you some tail!!

"If you're havin' girl problems I feel bad for you son/
Got 99 problems but a bi**h ain't one/"

Ice-T "99 Problems"(Also Jay-Z, same title)

[chicago_guy]

Yea, you should just dump her. A year and a half and you just started kissing? Come on. And you shouldnt have to put up with this kind of treatment. Just go your separate ways.

[97civiclx]

my bad on the kissing thing. weve been kissing since a month after we started going out. we just finally moving past kissing these past few weeks.
also i talkd to her and she does still love me. she has just been moody(something unusual for her) mainly bcause she feels she is to tired and thinks its her 28 days are about up you know what i mean. so she apoligized. phew i was worried all night last night.

[Taloness]

As she gets older she will be better able to tell you when you should make other plans , which means she is too cranky to be pleasant company, and no matter what, you will be in the wrong. We all figure this out at some point, it is just whether we drag our significant others down with us, or know when to spend a night doing laundry!

Glad to hear that all is not lost for the two of you.

This lady's $0.02.

P.

[RSX-S777]

Stay on your guard, bud. You sound a little sensitive, which is OK, but can be dangerous with immature girls. I went through a "moody" period with a girl when I was 18. She cheated on me the [u]NIGHT OF THE SENIOR PROM! (Still bitter...) Then I got a little moody....
Even if she says things are OK, now- Id be careful. If a girl is really into you she wont cop attitude for NO reason. She sounds a little flaky. Somethings up- dont be naive and get caught sleeping.

[Oz]

Fuck her senseless then ditch the bitch.

[DayDreaM BelieveR]

Originally Posted by Oz

Fuck her senseless then ditch the bitch.

That's the way! Might be a bit hard to do though since they've just been kissing after so long...

But on the other hand, so I don't sound like a callous asshole (which is what I am but oh well), it does seem to me like she is losing interest in you or finding it somewhere else. Find out what's going on before you make any rash decisions.

[avpart3]

Call her over and tell her she needs to kiss the ground you walk on, and she should be happy that she found somebody to put up wit her shit for a year and a half. Then you grab the back of her neck and tell her to "Get on her Knees and Show Gratitude!!!!!!"