Zeljko runs the BMOM for the benefit of everyone, so I don't think there is anything wrong with it being there, it is encouraging participation.
I don't know where you see 3 threads a month about BMOM anyway....
As for the one for model meetings, what is wrong with that? This is an international forum, if there was a 'Dutch Modellers Monthly Meet' or a 'British Modellers Monthly Meet' I am certain it would get the same treatment and be flagged for the month.
I don't see you complaining about the Classifieds thread being flagged though......