significant other?

Originally posted by kicker1_solo
and I actually have a real gf and don't need to resort to other things like you have suggested


Ok lets see:
1. Rumours of a human clone spreading.
2. Kicker has a girlfriend.


1+2=:eek:

Originally posted by Neutrino



Ok lets see:
1. Rumours of a human clone spreading.
2. Kicker has a girlfriend.


1+2=:eek: A few days short of being a year and a half long relationship.

Originally posted by Neutrino


You mean ambidextrous cuz you just invented a new word. BTW don't mess with me at scrabble.:D

Moppie probably wins at Scrabble because he'd never have trouble gettting rid of his Zs, Xs, and Qs. And just picture him playing Boggle!! :eek:

gf

Originally posted by Neutrino


You mean ambidextrous cuz you just invented a new word. BTW don't mess with me at scrabble.:D


Anyone notice the minnor gramatical error in the above? :rolleyes: :rolleyes:


:lol2: :lol2:
(thanks for the speeling correction though ;) )

Crap I don't want to be the grammar nazi

Single and loving it (most of it at least) :finger:

Originally posted by Neutrino
Crap I don't want to be the grammar nazi

In that case you can be the grammar robot from The Simpsons.

Does not compute, does not compute.

zzzzzzzzz, pop, bang.

THUD!

Perhaps you'll want to find that question mark key first. :p

Originally posted by 94 Mustang GT
Single and loving it (most of it at least) :finger:

That used to me, now I'm single and hating it.

Originally posted by boingo82
Yeah, I hope you're not doing what my ex did to me...he wanted out but didn't want to be the one to break up...so he turned himself into the biggest asshole possible in a pathetic attempt to get ME to dump HIM. All this served to do was lower my self-esteem. He has never admitted to this day that he wanted out of the relationship. He claimed that he would come back to me and he just needed space. We both knew he was just bs-ing and the worst thing was that he wouldn't just say it was over so I could get on with my life.

Nope, it's not like that at all... she knows that I don't want to be with her, but every time I break up with her, she threatens suicide and stuff...

Last time (which was a few weeks ago) she actually took a bunch of pills...

So, I'm just plain stuck.

Poly.........





















:biggrin2:

Originally posted by ci5ic


Nope, it's not like that at all... she knows that I don't want to be with her, but every time I break up with her, she threatens suicide and stuff...

Last time (which was a few weeks ago) she actually took a bunch of pills...

So, I'm just plain stuck.

ACK!!! i know how you feel, been with my gf for almost 4 months now and i kinda want out sometimes cause i think shes looking for something more then just a good relationship... shes also older then me, but in her mine im her last chance at anything i dont have the heart to hurt her cause im afrade of what might happond if we split :*(

ohhhh boy... when ur single u want a GF.. when u have a GF u want to be single.. sumtimes...

Well Im not quite sure how or why this happened, but I have to say I have a change in status back to the single world....But it may not last long if things go as good as they are right now.

:o I need to get back together with a girl again. damn

I think my stock car racing sure will help. :D did last year.

Married - very happily :D






...and Ci5ic, RUN AWAY!!!!!!!! far far away. You do NOT - repeat: DO NOT - want to be caught up in that sort of shite. Run screaming into the night, my son.

Married. :D

Originally posted by Spec2 Girl
Married. :D


To whom? One wonders:rolleyes: :finger:

used to have a gf, but i dumped the bitch

:D hehe

married

Originally posted by Polygon
In that case you can be the grammar robot from The Simpsons.

Does not compute, does not compute.

zzzzzzzzz, pop, bang.

THUD!

right click > save target as...
ftp://ftp.smoovenet.com/pub/lardlad/sounds/season12/error26.mp3

LOL Funny Jay

:thumbup:

Nice

Originally posted by ci5ic
Nope, it's not like that at all... she knows that I don't want to be with her, but every time I break up with her, she threatens suicide and stuff...

Last time (which was a few weeks ago) she actually took a bunch of pills...

So, I'm just plain stuck. :huh: Uhhh... I can only think to advise that you seek professional help for her, seriously. That's not fair for you to bear her baggage...

:hehe: :biggrin2:

Originally posted by jay@af
:huh: Uhhh... I can only think to advise that you seek professional help for her, seriously. That's not fair for you to bear her baggage...

Some people won't accept help .

that last one I had during christmas, she was on prozac, drank like a fish, and was scarring up her arms. not a good look.

just didn't care about herself at all. it's really really hard to deal with a situation like that.

on christmas eve she got way way too drunk and basically flipped out. but she didn't remember a thing the next day. I just had to back off and leave. she's still the same. she may grow out of it someday.

Originally posted by HuMMerMan
I got nothin.

Thats a nice way of putting it, but I have to agree, I got nothin too... :D

Originally posted by ci5ic


Nope, it's not like that at all... she knows that I don't want to be with her, but every time I break up with her, she threatens suicide and stuff...

Last time (which was a few weeks ago) she actually took a bunch of pills...

So, I'm just plain stuck.

Problem with that, is that she knows as long as she threatens you'll give in and stay with her for a while. Besides being obviously sick, she's manipulative, and I hate to say it but by staying with her when she makes them, you're empowering her in a way. You can't expect yourself to be responsible for another person's sickness, especially when that person refuses to help themselves.
From everything I've seen of you, you are attractive, well-spoken, intelligent, funny, clever, essentially just an all-around great catch. And I truely mean that. You deserve someone that is in the relationship for you as well as themselves.

Originally posted by jay@af
:huh: Uhhh... I can only think to advise that you seek professional help for her, seriously. That's not fair for you to bear her baggage...

I've done as much as I can in that department, she's been to several doctors, but she is not serious about getting help... So she ends up with prescriptions, and uses those as a crutch... Those are the pills that she took too...

No, I don't need to be caught up in it, but alas, I am, so I'm just trying to deal with the situation the best that I can... One of these days I'm going to just have to split on her, and let her sort her own problems out... as my brother told me "It's her goat, she can fuck it however she wants", and I'm beginning to come around to that way of thinking...

And, as darkness mentioned about his last girlfriend, she has a habit of getting very drunk and being an absolutely horrible person to me and our friends, and we hate it, but when she wakes up the next day, she has no recollection of it, so for her, it doesn't seem like things are so bad, but for the rest of us, we can't stand it. It's gotten to the point that I don't get invited to go out to the bars anymore because people know that I'll have to bring her, and they can't stand her when she's drunk either...

One way or another, I will resolve this situation soon... I'm just miserable in the mean time...

Sounds like it needs to be dealt with sooner rather than later dude.

As I found out, for your own mental health, you can't let her destroy you as well.

Originally posted by RickyDimes
used to have a gf, but i dumped the bitch admit it, she dumped you :D

Ci5ic.......you cannot allow yourself to be used forever.If you feel that your relationship is over,salvage what you can for yourself,and move on.The idea of caring for someone indefinitely simply because you used to have a relationship is horseshit.Care about her,by all means,but by allowing her to dictate your future on pain of hurting her feelings,you are simply accepting her emotional blackmail.Face it,the relationship can only go further downhill,best you get out from underneath it before it crushes you.

Umm, Mr T - you wanna re-read what you just wrote? Sounds like good advice ;)

Originally posted by Oz
Umm, Mr T - you wanna re-read what you just wrote? Sounds like good advice ;) hahahaha, Mr T is capable of good advice sometimes :)


:lol2:

Originally posted by kicker1_solo
hahahaha, Mr T is capable of good advice sometimes :)


:lol2:

Just smile and nod, Kicker. That or stand up a lil taller b/c that went straight over your head. :p :bloated:





Ci5ic: I know it's tough, but it only drains on you more to drag 2 people through life than doing it on your own. Best of luck to you.

What do you do when the girl you were in love with is gone but you still feel for her but at the same time you dont? Theres another girl now and i feel for her but still think about the old one and most know the old one is Sexy_Angel? Boys help a brother out here!!!!

Originally posted by 89B18C1CRX
the old one is Sexy_Angel? :eek:

Originally posted by SeXy_AnGeL
Do you have a significant other? (gf/bf/wife/hubby or are you just single?)

Married for 15 years now, we're together for 17 years. :smoker2:

Originally posted by darkness
Sounds like it needs to be dealt with sooner rather than later dude.

As I found out, for your own mental health, you can't let her destroy you as well.

Amen.

And it's also not good for her to have this behaviour pattern (threatening suicide to get what she wants) repeatedly reinforced, by seeing it working. The best thing to do for yourself, and in the long run for her, is to get out of the situation. I see people like this most working days, and I can tell you you do not want to be caught up in it. It will not get better, it will get worse, unless something dramatic changes - and it doesn't sound like that's happening. The longer you're in this relationship, the worse it'll be when you finally get out - so get out now and minimise the harm.

Originally posted by moondog

And it's also not good for her to have this behaviour pattern (threatening suicide to get what she wants) repeatedly reinforced, by seeing it working. ...

That's what I was trying to say on the last page. Every time she threatens, you stay, and she will continue progressing to worse and worse threats because that's what works.

Originally posted by moondog


Amen.

And it's also not good for her to have this behaviour pattern (threatening suicide to get what she wants) repeatedly reinforced, by seeing it working. The best thing to do for yourself, and in the long run for her, is to get out of the situation. I see people like this most working days, and I can tell you you do not want to be caught up in it. It will not get better, it will get worse, unless something dramatic changes - and it doesn't sound like that's happening. The longer you're in this relationship, the worse it'll be when you finally get out - so get out now and minimise the harm.

Listen to this man

who needs a girlfriend, I'm a MUSICIAN! PASSION is my only true love!

oh yeah...it helps that the girl I can't get over got over me in RECORD time...heh. she still hasn't given my letter jacket back, either...*sigh*

I'm thinking it'd be more efficient to turn gay...or put on a skirt and pretend to be a lesbian. *ponders*

Originally posted by kicker1_solo
:eek:
Yea man, shes the oen everyone spends their lifes looking for and some neverfind, but she just doesnt always take care of business when it needs to be taken care of.:(

Originally posted by 89B18C1CRX

Yea man, shes the oen everyone spends their lifes looking for and some neverfind, but she just doesnt always take care of business when it needs to be taken care of.:(

I fucked this up bad. And I appreciate the compliments, but I am not the one everyone spends their life looking for. I'm the girl that you think you want but in the end you realize that shes nothing but trouble and a pain in the ass. I had a great guy and because I didnt do what I should have done, even though I had like a million chances, I fucked it up. I'm sorry. Ryan is the guy all you girls really want...trust me. He treated me like a princess and how did I treat him? I'll tell you, like crap. When you get a great guy, treat him like he deserves to be treated. I'm sorry...

Angel,
Fucking up is what second (and more) chances were invented for. Just never give up. :)

:wave: PM me some time of you want.
Oz

Originally posted by SeXy_AnGeL


I fucked this up bad. And I appreciate the compliments, but I am not the one everyone spends their life looking for. I'm the girl that you think you want but in the end you realize that shes nothing but trouble and a pain in the ass. I had a great guy and because I didnt do what I should have done, even though I had like a million chances, I fucked it up. I'm sorry. Ryan is the guy all you girls really want...trust me. He treated me like a princess and how did I treat him? I'll tell you, like crap. When you get a great guy, treat him like he deserves to be treated. I'm sorry...

Hey Angel. we all make mistakes, believe me I've done it too. Don't stress, just it's a way for you to learn more about yourself and make yourself better.

Life is a series of challenges, no one gets them all right all of the time.:D

Originally posted by SeXy_AnGeL


I fucked this up bad. And I appreciate the compliments, but I am not the one everyone spends their life looking for. I'm the girl that you think you want but in the end you realize that shes nothing but trouble and a pain in the ass. I had a great guy and because I didnt do what I should have done, even though I had like a million chances, I fucked it up. I'm sorry. Ryan is the guy all you girls really want...trust me. He treated me like a princess and how did I treat him? I'll tell you, like crap. When you get a great guy, treat him like he deserves to be treated. I'm sorry...
NO matter the trouble or the number of times she fucks up, theres not another girl in the world like this one. I break up with her yes, but god damn what I would give for her back, and here with man. You guys out there that say happily married and what not thats only cause you didnt met this girl. Id do any and everything for her, shes a great girl no matter what she says!!!!!:cool:

Originally posted by 89B18C1CRX
.. shes a great girl no matter what she says!!!!!:cool:

IF you both think each other are SO awesome, just HOOK BACK UP ALREADY!!! Seriously. Sounds like you're made for each other.

wow, im suprised on how many posts this thread carried in. :eek:

Originally posted by boingo82


IF you both think each other are SO awesome, just HOOK BACK UP ALREADY!!! Seriously. Sounds like you're made for each other.

Ill second that:bloated:

Originally posted by ILike2DriveCars


Ill second that:bloated:

I'll ditto your second.



Just do it in PM's :finger:

Originally posted by ci5ic
I'll ditto your second.

I think I'll be the 4th to say this:)

Sounds like a plan!:grey:

Originally posted by boingo82


IF you both think each other are SO awesome, just HOOK BACK UP ALREADY!!! Seriously. Sounds like you're made for each other.


I think we are... :D

Thats great then. :)

Originally posted by SeXy_AnGeL



I think we are... :D
I have to say I think she has to be right this time. That last break up just is that one that makes you realize that she is that special one. I dont think Im ever gonna give her up now!!! So back up the hell up boys!!! LOL. I love you Kate.:D :D

Originally posted by 89B18C1CRX

I have to say I think she has to be right this time. That last break up just is that one that makes you realize that she is that special one. I dont think Im ever gonna give her up now!!! So back up the hell up boys!!! LOL. I love you Kate.:D :D



Girls tell me that I dont have the best man ever....Sorry boys, im taken now :D I love you Ryan!! :D

:(

Love blossoms on the net.

:apuke:

Don't like it that much....yo ryan, im taking your gal.....:D