friday night lover part 2

so this friday started like every other friday in the last 2 months. a few people came over and we got really drunk. my roomate and his g/f went to bed and my friends went to the bar. now its karoline and me. i try to put the moves on her and she resists this time and goes home. i wake up saturday all pissed off cause i didnt get any. i talk to her sat, but i hung out with my friends and she actually came over my house and chilled with my roomie and his g/f. by the time i got home, she went home herself. anyway, sunday comes around and us 4 go to see chainsaw massacre. after that the girls made us dinner and drank wine. we were all drinking and smoking and got pretty f'd up. now, ive been sick for like 1 and a half weeks with a bad cold. i took a few cold pills and they made me feel jittery. anyway, its now karoline and i at 11pm lastnight. we start playing games with each other, kissing and what not, and one thing leads to another. she grabs me and says, were having sex now. we strip and jump on my bed. it took me a while to get aroused because i was weak from being sick. finally it happens, and its all going perfect. now heres the part that gets to me, after about 5-10 mins, she tells me to finish. i ask her if shes sure cause i wanted to go longer, again she begs me to finish... so right after i finish, she gets mad when i pull out. instantly she wants to go again. now, usually i could pull something like that off, but when im sick theres a small chance. after trying for a few, she gets pissed off and says i do it like a girl! i got so pissed off cause i know my potential, but this girl is so intimidating that she makes me nervous which doesnt help. basically she just storms out and i end up catching up to her and walking her out. we kiss then shes gone.. after she left, i was HIGHLY disturbed. i ended up staying up all night jittery as hell from the medicine. i feel like i couldnt live up to her expectations, but on the other hand, it was going good till she told me to finish. i did ask her why she tells me to finish, but she didnt answer me.. i felt like a pathetic loser:banghead: i know this is long and slightly embarassing for me to say, but i dont care.. comments? its definately a love/hate kinda deal...lol and i should add ive known this girl for like 14 years.

It's the medication. Maybe she was getting weirded out by your jitters while you were giving it to her. Then all of a sudden she liked it after it was over. Women are weird. We men spend all of our lives trying to "impress" women to get some "action" but then after awhile you realize when you've been with the same person for awhile (like being married for almost 5 years like me) that if she wants it bad enough then she'll be a little willing to make some compromises just like we men have done for countless years...

well, she wasnt weirded out cause she askes me to finish like everytime we do it, then she wants more! i do believe it was the medicine, etc... i just wonder if shes been with guys that could finish like 3 times in a row or whatever....

Thats that crazy woman shit. My girl will tell me at least 3 times "Get away from me" while we're in the middle. I fell for it the first time then she yelled at me later saying "Why did you stop!?". So now when she tells me to get away I slow down or ignore her completely unless she is in obvious pain. But last time she was hurtin and she still didn't really want me to stop, just chill out for a minute. I don't wanna get into too graphic of detail (sorry for what has already been said mods) but the trick I use is just to "stay in the garage where the heat is on" so I get to catch my breath, the garade door can cool down and the car stays running.

damn, ur right on with that get away shit, she says the same stuff. shes like, gimme, gimme, what the f:ck!lol then shes like im outta here if u dont f me now! i tell her relax, take a deep breath! its like the most stressful damn experience. i dont have any problems with others, she just gets on my nerves at the wrong time, u know? how u supposed to b confortable with someone yelling at u!lol

^:lol: So she's like the field general of the bedroom huh? I like an aggressive woman, but not a mentally abusive one!

hahaha, she even asked me a question if something was ok to do, and i said "i dont know ur the referee, whats the ruling on that?"lol well, i called my roomies girl today to ask her what her deal is, and she said that she just wants sex and doesnt want to get involved with anyone. im totally fine with that since im a anti-relationshipaholic. i think she might b getting feelings for me and thats whats bothering her, but i could b wrong.... i know she was drunk, but she said we'd have beautiful babies when we were doin it, that also freaked me out a bit..lol

i think she might b getting feelings for me and thats whats bothering her, but i could b wrong.... i know she was drunk, but she said we'd have beautiful babies when we were doin it, that also freaked me out a bit..lol
:eek: NOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!

As much as women talk about how they don't want a relationship, most really do deep down. The same goes for us, but I think our deep down is a good bit deeper :p

true, thats why i posted this today, most people probably wouldnt even say this stuff, but i know most of you are serious with ur responses. of coarse u get ur occasional a-hole that makes jokes, but the ones that really read and respond have a sense of the real world... i guess we just both like to have someone there once and a while to do relationship oreintated things(like the movies, dinner, sex, etc) it seems to b going ok, and it has been about 2-3 months since we started having sex with 0 incidents or fights which is always good. she thought it would ruin our friendship, but i think im proving her wrong and she cant stand it. im verry easy going and hassle free...and the "ref" likes that..lol

Quite wasting your time and personal sanity trying to figure her out. That is the mystery of a woman the keeps us interested. Just when I have been foolish enough to believe that I actually understood one, they do something to show me that I am so wrong (which means to them that they are right) and laugh at that guy. Thinking a guy is on to them really pisses them off. So no doesn't mean no, it means KNOW in her case, as in you are supposed to know what she wants and you better give it to me without asking. You have known each other for like 14 years. Obviosly she trusts you which considering what you know is probably extreamly irrational. Saying no can be a woman's way of putting all the responsibility on you (review BC concepts) freeing her of any guilt that she should not be doing what she is doing. Intoxication is also freeing her from guilt and the fear of facing more serios commitment and the realistic risk of loosing it. Making babies also adds to her excitement and justifies her guilt feelings about how much she enjoys banging (YOU)! Search "women's rape fantasy". Use safe search option to find the real deal. Some women are more aware than others, beginning at the lower end of their spectrum with the dream of being swept off their feet from a dance floor by their handsome prince. Not so different from the way guys think... personally I have allways imagined what spending quality time with identicle twins would be like. Somehow over the past 30 years those twins have not gotten any older! :evillol: Sounds like your girl knows her toes are curled by a little more than just being swept off her feet, and exploring her fantasies with you after so many years is only her beginning to where she dreams of going. She wants to continue raising her level of excitement and freedom. Accept as fact, that she does trust you and wants you to take control, to which she may raise her level of bazzaar resistance to keep you off balance and maintain her control. It is a game! Be THE MAN, grab her by her hair, pin her down or against the wall and bite her...carefully! Your way. Always Handle with care! And never forget that the next girl is not this girl. Tell her you will be the one that decides when she is ready. Tease her and make her wait. Yet slowing down must give her a chance to start thinking again. Keep her thinking and wondering what comes next.

I agree there are few acceptions where every woman actually always does want a permenant relationship. Women say they don't want a relationship because they have learned in their past that they do not receive what they wish for, and are more likely to receive when they are not asking. Then it is only a matter of time before they take what ever they want... again with few exceptions.

So out of curiosity when is her birthday? You better know and don't forget. I will take my 1 in 12 chance and guess she may be a Scorpio rather than a wishy washy fishy.

haha, very good response, and ya, i did bite her gently lastnight, i know about the teasing cause thats my favorite... i try to throw her off by my own personal games, but she seems to have the final say most of the time. i believe her b-day is august 28th or something, not really sure, but i could look it up! but ur right about the figuring her out thing. i didnt really care until lastnight when she was sketchin me out, but i think im so tired from not sleeping that there is something im missing. im definately gonna go back to my normal life and wait for our next encounter. i did leave her a message today just asking how she felt after gettin home at 1am, but nothing else. shes a dental assistant at a huge medical center(age29) im 28. she is one of my bestfriends and i should just keep it that way. whatever happens happens, but nexttime ill be sure to give it to her good so shes fiending for more. she has told me i am a very good lover as far as kissing and stuff, and she is also(minus the yelling!)lol its funny how i know her so well, but feel intimidated by her, i guess thats from wanting her sexually for about 12 years before it actually happened, now that its a reality, i just gotta calm down and enjoy the ride..... keep em coming, im enjoying this online free therapy!

i believe her b-day is august 28th or something, not really sure, but i could look it up!
You've known her for 12 years and you don't know her birthday? I know you're anti-relationship, but come on :disappoin :p

...but nexttime ill be sure to give it to her good so shes fiending for more. she has told me i am a very good lover as far as kissing and stuff, and she is also(minus the yelling!)...
Hmmm. I like a screamer. A couple weeks ago there were some painters touching up the areas around my bedrrom window so she put on a bit of a show for em. They were all grins when we walked out of the house later on :iceslolan

...keep em coming, im enjoying this online free therapy!
Free? The clock is running at $250/hr. I'll be sending the crackhead to collect at the end of the week.

You have no power over this woman. I wouldn't f*ck her again until you do.

i must regain control.....
1. im really bad with bday's, the only one i remember is mine!(seriously)
2. she screams at me, not in joy. i enjoy a screamer, dont get me wrong....
3. crackhead aint gettin shiiiiiit! haha by the way, he knocked on my door lastnight and asked to use my phone cause he hit his hand. i thought for a few, then went out. his hand was bleeding like hell! he had to call his mommy to bring him to the hospital. i should of let em bleed to death......

...by the way, he knocked on my door lastnight and asked to use my phone cause he hit his hand. i thought for a few, then went out. his hand was bleeding like hell! he had to call his mommy to bring him to the hospital. i should of let em bleed to death......
Hit his hand with what? a spike?

i think a hatchet, he had a small fire pit outside....
i think i came up with a plan for the fnl.. i got some handcuffs that im probably gonna surprise her with. thought about a gag, but i think id like that more than her..lol but im not gonna talk to her till she calls me friday. then im gonna go out with her to a bar and flirt with every girl in site. i know shes the jealous type, cause the more girls i bang, the more she wants to bang...go figure.

then im gonna go out with her to a bar and flirt with every girl in site. i know shes the jealous type, cause the more girls i bang, the more she wants to bang...go figure.
My girl is kinda like that too. She knows we're nothing "official" and I'm moving back to Florida in January. That brought up the discussion of what girls I have waiting for me down there. Ever since then she makes it a point to (and this is a direct quote) "Put it on you so good you won't even be able to think about those Florida bitches". Works for me. We'll see how successful she was once I get back to school

most girls love the challenge. the more unavailable u are, the more they fiend. i enjoy the game, cause im good at flirting when i know im probably gettin laid one way or the other...

Why is it that it seems easiest to flirt with girls when you know you got some tang waitin on you elsewhere? When I'm single and strugglin I can't talk to women for the life of me!

Like now for instance, there's a girl in my class that I've been talking to, but I know I really can't start dating her cause all my free time is tied up in the girl I got now! But if I was still swingin free, I'm sure I'd just sit far away from her in silence :shakehead

yeah, ive noticed that. its because u dont really care if u get shot down cause u know ur good anyway either way. when i go in a slump and am not banging anyone, my confidence is very low, and i get nervous talking to new girls. but once i get one, it seems they all want u. im much more relaxed and have a i dont give a f attitude when im gonna get some regardless. when girls see u arent nervous talkin to them, they realize u wont b nervous giving them some.. hense the 4 girls in a week post, that was def a record for me. now ive dwindled down to this. i must get more girls or b jerkin for a few months......hahaha

...now ive dwindled down to this. i must get more girls or b jerkin for a few months......hahaha
I refer you to my sig

haha, i dont think ill b stuck with that shizzle again. ive been doing good with the lady's. i almost picked up a 32 year old that wanted nothing to do with me at the beginning of the night.(im 27) she gave me the hand in the face!lol 10 minutes later i almost talked her pants off. i went out for a cig, and her friend wanted to leave....damn..

well, i wasnt gonna talk to her, but she just called me. thinkin lettin her take a spin in my rx cause she loves drivin it, but i might just blow her off.....

Dude, ignore her for a month. Trust me. For fucks sake - only expend this amount of mental energy on a woman if you're getting the full benefits of the relationship ie. home cooked hot meal every night.

but oz, i dont really want a relationship. i still want freedom to do whoever i want, whenever. i really am against relationships, they cause people to fight and torture each other... i want a friend with benefits, which she is. also, she does cook for me, but not everynight. i guess the main reason for this post was the bad sexual experience!lol i was pissed i didnt show my potential, but then again, i have before, so she knows.... anyway, i told her to stay home lastnight, and we'll go to see the departed tonight. i want to see that and dont like going to the movies with dudes, u know?

Yeah, even without the relationship you're torturing each other. I KNOW you don't want a relationship with her - what you DO want is to get power back in the bedroom. And the most effective way of doing that is to ignore her for a month. And have a HUGE smile across your face anytime she's around. But still ignoring her. ;) Think about it.

i would agree to that under most circumstances, but we hang out every friday regardless. shes good friends with my roomates girl, and sometimes shes there when i get home. i bet ya anything we have sex tonight, and i also bet it will b good! we went to the movies wed and she looked hot, smelled good, etc... and i didnt give her one compliment, i wanted to, but held back. we had a good time, then i dropped her off....

When youdropped her off, did you say "Get yo ass out my damn car beeyotch!" and then peel off. Thats the way to really show you care :)

lol, well, i dropped her off at my house cause her car was there, so peeling off was outta the question...lol i just kissed her on the cheek and went in.. i know this girl way too well to try to play games. shes the first person i smoked bud with for god sakes..haha, its all good, we're gonna get drunk as hell tonight, and im sure ill do my thing.. ill keep ya posted.

well, went exactly as i planned. at first she wanted to go to her old roomates house to hang with her, then we drank, smoked, etc. i drank a pint of grey goose, her a bottle of wine. we were watchin tv in my room then i just started lickin her neck. of coarse she played hard to get, but i just kept at it and it worked. we had veeeeery good sex, then she left, worked out pretty good! now im at work hungover like a mofo......

Ok well...

:useless:

ok, ill put some up at lunch....

Wow. I didn't think you would actually respond to the pic request.

Is this thread gonna need the NSFW tag added?

Nsfw?

Not Suitable For Work

hahaha, no way am i postin x-rated shizzle! thats for my enjoyment only.... i will post pics of me and her to give u guys a visual. u wanna c porn, download it from limewire like i do.......lol

shes the one on the right...http://img421.imageshack.us/img421/931/476853143loe2.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

and me and my roomies girl...
http://img50.imageshack.us/img50/7616/gpg2006051347px7.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

Nice. She has kind of a christina aguilera thing goin on... I like it.

a little jewel look too, i think shes seeeexy........the one on the left is her old roomate. i tried to make out with her too, but she wasnt havin it. maybe after she heard us in the other room i should of known she wouldnt have any part of me! cant blame me for tryin...

well, its tuesday and i havent talked to her since friday. looks like my thread title still holds.......

Well its probably best that way no?

Or is it that you're gettin a lil randy during the week and need some vitamin P to soothe you

haha, vitamin p is my shiiiiit! it is good that way, i could do whatever i want during the week, and still get my fix fridays... one of my ex's came in my work today and rented a car, she wants to hook up soon and get wasted, so thats pretty much definite punany. i do like to get laid during the week also, so im gonna have to find another bootycall to tide me over. i told off the last one i had cause she questioned my myspace comments, and then my fri night lover told her she slept with me when she was drunk(they are friends....) i was doing great with the 4 in one week post, but i dwindled down to 1 girl, 1 day a week... not cutting it!!!!!

...i do like to get laid during the week also...
And who doesn't? That's why I make so many trips to get my girl from the south side, I gotsta have it at least 4x a week or I get real irritable and mean.

haha, sounds about right, 4 times a week.. i definately had alot of booty calls before, but none limited to fridays!lol i know me not calling her is making her frustrated and want me more. she always wanted a bootycall, but says everyone falls in love with her, or calls her too much, etc... now that she found one that could give a fuck what she does, im sure she's flustered...

YES! The key to keeping a woman is making them believe that you don't really care. That's my general demeanor toward most girls and they always eventually bring it up and say that they hate my attitude but at the same time they kinda like it. And thus, I have never been dumped.

now that i think of it, ive been dumped only once. the bitch only wanted me for my 93 rx7 twin turbo, then i totalled it and she dumped me...lol, thats ok, i was using her for her vagina.... but ya, women love that i dont give a f attitude. thats why most azzholes get the hotties. i prey on the ones that are with those azzholes. they go out with me and have a great time and think, id b soooo much happier with him, so i should break up with my man.. then i tell them i dont wanna relationship and they go back to the original ahole...... funny how that works...

Wow. It is proven once again that Chrises think alike.

years of training my friend....

i used to date all through highschool, and a few years after, so this being single/picking up chicks thing is fairly new. i think i got the hang of it pretty well in 3 years tho..

and my favorite line, "why buy the cow if u get the milk for free!"

So, I have a question, and be honest. You don't care what she does the rest of the week, but if she were out fucking some other guy, would you be slightly upset?

I don't think he would, as long as she doesn't catch anything contagious.

I don't think he would, as long as she doesn't catch anything contagious.

Yeah, no body wants the gift that keeps on giving.

Yeah, no body wants the gift that keeps on giving.
Puppies?

Accord back to your cave! hahah I think I found Chris number 2 origins of his ownig ness....


Take her for a night out on the town and then head back to your place and show her the real you?

Accord back to your cave! hahah I think I found Chris number 2 origins of his ownig ness....

whoa...whoa...whoa...slow down there, toots.

don't go stealing my phrases.

now, back to your cave, Dave.

Chris you want me to shoot you with my feet?

whoa...whoa...whoa...slow down there, toots.

don't go stealing my phrases.

now, back to your cave, Dave.

Retaliatiowned

Do you want me to Accown you?

Do you want me to Accown you?

that was by far the worst attempt at a 2.2-esque -owned setup i have ever seen in my entire life.

expert opiniowned.

Retaliatiowned

very nice, i'm likin' it. :sunglasse

very nice, i'm likin' it. :sunglasse
I've been studying the craft diligently :wink: