When did you all lose your vcard?

Lucky hell. She damn near killed me. 21 times in three days at 13 is way to much. Of course now I'm happy for 21 times a year.

21 times in three days? how did you even find the place/time?

Well, I'm 22 and Im still a virgin. Ya I know. But i want it to mean something and be with someone that cares for me. But love iI dont think exist anymore.

it exists, you just have to work it out of them and let it show.

21 times in three days? how did you even find the place/time?
She lived by herself and she had a car with reclining seats.

She lived by herself and she had a car with reclining seats.

sounds like my now wife and i...she was 25 and i was 17

21 in 3 days is possible. My record is 7 in one day so its pretty much equal.

I'm 19 and still have the ol' V-card. Ironically by choice, in the last month I've had two offers... sometimes I wish I didn't have strong morals...

15, eighth grade summer...ah the goodold days

17, senior year. I was in love. I don't regret it. Sex is the best thing on the planet. Love is a close second. Sex AND love is just ridiculous though. Way too great.

haha, sex addict ey rick? me too, its normal. its the best addition on the planet.....i wasnt in love, and it actually sucked the first time. i had about 2000 more encounters to perfect it tho since then.......with 15 girls. i always liked to have a girl everyday instead of being single and hoping to get laid. id rather have sex 2000 times with 15 girls then sex 100 times with all different girls. when i practice with one girl u could really get good at it! learn each others likes/dislikes. then it is amazing..ok, ill stop rambling.......

I'm 19 and still have the ol' V-card. Ironically by choice, in the last month I've had two offers... sometimes I wish I didn't have strong morals...

Ok, scratch that, lost it yesterday.

Ok, scratch that, lost it yesterday.
haha nice hope you had fun :thumbsup:

Ok, scratch that, lost it yesterday.

ha ha. noob.

ha ha. noob.

oooo ouch

is that how it went?[QUOTE][oooo ouch
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is that how it went?[quote][oooo ouch
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No, that's not how it went. Won't say she's not feeling it now though...:wink: if ya know what I mean.

hahaha, nice!

Yep... Not surprised she's feeling it now, but she must have been too distracted or concentrated before, cuz it was nowhere near her first time. I like to think that it was becuase our anatomies weren't... exactly sized evenly?:wink:

so basically you were so small that it took her a day to feel it?

or did you just put it in the wrong hole?

so basically you were so small that it took her a day to feel it?

ouch...

or did you just put it in the wrong hole?

wouldn't she still feel it?

so basically you were so small that it took her a day to feel it?

or did you just put it in the wrong hole?

I suppose I shoulda seen that coming...

13, 9th grade, on the back of someone's porch.

[quote=ghostrx7]is that how it went?

No, that's not how it went. Won't say she's not feeling it now though...:wink: if ya know what I mean.

hungover?

I'm 18 and still sportin the card. I've had the chance in the past a few times but I'm not the type of person to 'fuck for fun'. I've been waiting to lose it to a girl I love and I found her 6 months ago. Now I'm basically waiting for her to give the green light. Any day now! :dunno:

i lost it today...i was in the same boat as XeVeNskyLiNE...i waited for a girl that i love...i was rather impressed with myself....i managed to last a little ove 50 minutes. One thing that I learned is that you have to be the agressor...but let her know that if she doesnt want to you can wait. (And if/when you get the green light play some Jamie Foxxx...)Dont be afraid to talk about it with her though, I almost gurantee she wants it as bad as you do...as was my case

huh......It was with a girl I didn't like and wasn't attracted to at all, and I was sober.

She wanted it, I was horny, so I fucked her.

Sure, I regret it, 'cause I get hassled about her all the time.

EDIT-I was like 15 or 16, I don't remember which.

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I almost lost it yesterday. She wanted to and so did I. We're both 16. We will be each other's firsts. Been going out for like a month. But I didn't have protection. She still wanted to but accidents happen, so I figured we shouldn't. She left for two weeks so I am stuck with blue balls. O well. She'll be back.

She left for two weeks so I am stuck with blue balls.


baby oil and jessica alba playboy pics... should help til then.

IBut I didn't have protection. She still wanted to but accidents happen, so I figured we shouldn't.
You're wiser than most 16 year olds. Certainly wiser than I was :rolleyes: You'll thank yourself in 9 months.

At least when she comes back this time I know what's waiting for me. And I'll be prepared. I just don't want our relationship to become all about sex. Cause it's not. I like her alot. I don't know, I might even love her. I could see myself spending the rest of my life with her. Having kids, growing old, yada yada yada. I think it might be moving a bit fast, but I am not gonna complain.


On another note, she's coming back on her birthday, so I need to get her something. I was thinking a nice bracelet or some sort of jewelry, but it seems kinda played out. Any ideas?

I could see myself spending the rest of my life with her. Having kids, growing old, yada yada yada.

you're taking this relationship too seriously... chicks dont dig that. infact, that's just scary. for girls and guys. you're in high school for god's sake... don't think its the pinnacle of you're life. college is a major change, and even still, only a stepping stone in life.

man, i could see myself spending the rest of my life with a lot of girls, doesnt mean anything. i mean that in the sense, surprisingly there are a lot of good girls out there, the first one you meet isnt the only one.

sure, theyd make great wives someday, but not for you. not saying dump and become weary, just, dont get so caught up you wind up like jimster, in teh emo forum.

When I said that I didn't mean it in a psycho sort of way. I'm just saying that if it ever ended up like that, I could see myself living my life with her. I could also see myself searching for other women if we ever broke up. I must have worded it wrong.

Witty you're 16



A) Dont plan sex, it makes it boring
B) Trust me, at your age you shouldn't be thinking about serious relationships, you're young, you'll want to be able to go out and have fun without being tied down, with a steady g/f that gets cut down significantly.
C) If you are serious about her, hold off as long as you can, if it's not real and you lose your virginity you'll only regret it later down the road.
D) Buy good condoms, dont go cheap, trojans specifically, or lifestyles.



Good luck

I know the feeling you're talking about man and it's ok to have because to be honest, a lot of guys have it and just don't want to admit it. Being as you're only 16 right now and have only been with this girl for a month, I would give the relationship a little more time before you have sex. I'm not saying "noooo, you should wait til marriage," but it's always good to get a little farther into the relationship, I think. That way you can get to know each other without having sex as a concern. I know you say it's not about the sex and wouldn't be, but that's easy to say when you haven't had sex. Just make sure this is absolutely what you want right now in your life because you're young yet and to be quite honest, most relationships at your age do not go past high school (note: not trying to say you're in a bad relationship).

Anyway, sorry if this seems like I'm shaking a finger, because I'm really not trying to do that. Whatever you decide, best of luck and the same goes for your relationship:smile:.

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I'll probably never get laid.
If my sorry self got the chance, you will too. The thing I am starting to discover, is you can't show that you're nervous or you think you can't get her. As long as you keep those things to yourself in the begining your doing great. It doesn't come over night, you have to show your 100% confident even if you aren't.
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If my sorry self got the chance, you will too. The thing I am starting to discover, is you can't show that you're nervous or you think you can't get her. As long as you keep those things to yourself in the begining your doing great. It doesn't come over night, you have to show your 100% confident even if you aren't.


A good friend once told me "you have to be confident in yourself before she will be confident in you".

I was 11, she was 10 and the sister of a friend. Regreted it for a long time. I didn't again until I was 20. Regretted that to along with many others. One thing that life has taught me, for those who were 15 and am regretting/starting to regret it, learn from it and then forgive yourself. Otherwise you'll walk around with more and more baggage and it will keep your new relationships from being healthy. Sex, to me, with my limited experiences @ 31, is best served when married. There's a spiritual element to sex that's the most beautiful in marriage. But then again, sex for sex' sake has its advantages too. Best to wait until marriage, but if you decide not to, be safe and hopefully in a healthy and commited relationship.

I regret nothing

edit: never regret your actions. whatever you have done serves as wisdom. Actions you may have taken may not have been smart, but they have always made you more the wiser.Provided you're willing to learn from them. Otherwise you're a fool.

that's the beauty of the internet...it's made-up mostly of lies and half-truth's :thumbsup:Or you could tell the truth and if person ever ran into you IRL, they'd never know it was you who lasted a whopping 20seconds.

At least when she comes back this time I know what's waiting for me. And I'll be prepared. I just don't want our relationship to become all about sex. Cause it's not. I like her alot. I don't know, I might even love her. I could see myself spending the rest of my life with her. Having kids, growing old, yada yada yada. I think it might be moving a bit fast, but I am not gonna complain.


On another note, she's coming back on her birthday, so I need to get her something. I was thinking a nice bracelet or some sort of jewelry, but it seems kinda played out. Any ideas?Somepeople laugh, but K-Mart jewelry. It's the same brand as Helzburg and many other name brand jewelers but around 1/4 the price.:naughty:

Witty you're 16



A) Dont plan sex, it makes it boring
B) Trust me, at your age you shouldn't be thinking about serious relationships, you're young, you'll want to be able to go out and have fun without being tied down, with a steady g/f that gets cut down significantly.
C) If you are serious about her, hold off as long as you can, if it's not real and you lose your virginity you'll only regret it later down the road.
D) Buy good condoms, dont go cheap, trojans specifically, or lifestyles.



Good luck


A) Agreed.
B) Good and serious relationships from the start grants better appreciation to women, aside their bodies. Don't judge him like that because he's 16. He could see you as too old to have a real relationship. I'm not tied down because of my girlfriend. All teenagers aren't just young, stupid and immature. Although I fully understand you... actually, i probably would've said the same thing.
C) Agreed.
D) Agreed.