More problems......

Ok, 2 days ago the check engine light came on and tha van is starting ruff. Where can i go to get my codes read?

Oh yea, its a 99 windstar 3.8

go to auto zone they do it for free

When you go to autozone....get the actual numeric code. They tend not to give that unless asked....as most people won't understand it.
You can then do a search in this (windstar) forum....and see what other's have posted as solutions for that code on their windstar.

If it is a "lean code"....do not follow their advice and buy any oxygen sensors. Lean codes usually are caused by a vaccum leak.

Ok, havent been able to get to autozone but its getting worse. I notced the theft light either stays on or blinks fast while the car is running. Also when starting it wont turn over and clicks like the starter is bad. Is there a anti-theft thing that is messed up here?

any way to disable this?