Are All Men This Confusing????????

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One on one is the best... :bananasmi

The fantasy thing is great..but once it happens, it's not all what it's cracked up to be. :bigthumb:

About fantasy..i'd rather fantasize about MANY woman just waiting for me..like in line...LOL... I remember being a young lad (young, dumb..and full of cum) and fantasizing about these 5 teachers i had in high school..they where all *business woman types*..you know, stockings..heels..short skirt..glasses..hair up with a pencil in it..and just bangin.. :evillol:

Oooooppss....got alittle carried away there.... :lol:


Karmacae...I solute you for trying to fullfill his fantasy, in fact..if we had more woman like you on earth, it would be a heavenly place.. :bananasmi

PS....i'm single.... :naughty:

I've been forced to read Cosmo by my significant other before, it's surprisingly informative, actually....

agreed. My mom used to have a subscription to cosmo, and I used to look through it hoping I could see a bunch of pictures of hot chicks. Eventually, I began to read them. Then I read them all. Its like crossing over into their territory and seeing how their minds work. If I have a chance to read a cosmo, I usually do. Great magazine. Although sometimes they get things wrong about guys, but, not as bad as guy magazines when it comes to talking about girls.

Solaris, there are some things we just don't want to know. And now we know them anyway.

PS....i'm single.... :naughty:


Jeez, I'm genuinely shocked :rolleyes:

Sorry...

About fantasy..i'd rather fantasize about MANY woman just waiting for me..like in line...LOL... I remember being a young lad (young, dumb..and full of cum) and fantasizing about these 5 teachers i had in high school..they where all *business woman types*..you know, stockings..heels..short skirt..glasses..hair up with a pencil in it..and just bangin.. :evillol:


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karmacae, It should have stopped when your man left the house. And most of the time when a guy asks that kind of stuff from his woman it's generally wishful thinking cause there aren't to many women who would actually do this.

he was there. he just did not join. It was after he came back

Cosmo is propoganda, there I said it.


Women think they understand men because they think they are too complicated for us. Wrong, we're just as complicated for you because what we say/do doesn't make sense for you.

I don;t liek Cosmo and the way it brainwashes women into looking at it as their insight into the man.

I am the minority here, and I don't want a three some. I don't even fantasize about it. I am happily married, and my wife has no complaints. 2-3 times a day, she has no need to, but anyways, a 3 some is just a way to "legally" cheat on the person your with. when you choose to commit to someone, you are commiting to them, and forsaking all others, which is also part of your wedding vows. Bringing someone in under the guise of a "threesome" is just making the excuse to have sex with someone else.

Have you sat down with your husband and had a sensible conversation with him, asking why he deicded he did not go through with this? did you bother to ask him, if it was alright for you to go on without him after he decided not to join in? did you ask if he was alright with you continuing with the other girl? If you didnt, I bet its bothering him big time but he is just hiding it.

To me, it seems that he was caught up into the illusion that this is the best thing possible, and how he is wrong if he didnt like it, or want it. And, once it was finally presented to him, he realized that it wasnt the thing for him, his love for you was more than enough and he didnt need to have someone else there because he loved you and only you and didnt want to have sex with anyone else. He left, probably because he was realizing what posistion he just put everyone into to, and the only way to deal with it at that moment, was to remove himself from the area to get a clear head.

this is evident, because even after he came back, it appears he didnt do anything, you had his decision there... you should have stopped too...

just my opinion.

Cosmo is propoganda, there I said it.


Women think they understand men because they think they are too complicated for us. Wrong, we're just as complicated for you because what we say/do doesn't make sense for you.

I don;t liek Cosmo and the way it brainwashes women into looking at it as their insight into the man.


that kinda reminds me of something I told my ex one time. It was something like...

I understand that you think you understand what I dont understand, but I understand that that is just a misunderstanding, because I understand what it is that I dont understand. That is why I am more understanding than you. Do you understand?

she just got mad. I dont think she understood.

this is evident, because even after he came back, it appears he didnt do anything, you had his decision there... you should have stopped too...

just my opinion.


Yup, i agree... karmacae, you basically cheated on him. When he had too much love for you to share you with another person.

shitty buzz

because I understand what it is that I dont understand

DOUBLE-NEGATIVE BOY!!!

Oprah is a bunch of propaganda for women to, lets oust her and bring back the MAN SHOW!!!

how can you understand what you dont understand?????

i dont think you can

how can you understand what you dont understand?????

i dont think you can

but i can understand what you dont understand... i think thats what he was saying, you understand?

Its that I understand what it *IS* that I dont understand. My ex thought she understood everything. But she didnt, and she didnt understand that she didnt understand everything. I understood that I dont understand everything. That is what made me more understanding.

I think I made it more understandable that time.

But picture it this way. When we argued, she thought she knew everything. But she didnt. I knew what it was she didnt understand, but she didnt understand that I was trying to tell her she didnt understand. Instead she thought I was just telling her she was wrong, because she never would have imagined that she misunderstood something. So when I tried to tell her that she misunderstood, she just thought I was lying.

But me on the other hand... I KNEW that I knew everything. And when I didnt know... it was that simple.. I didnt know. If I didnt understand something I would ask for an explanation. When I asked for an explanation she got defensive like... "I dont have to explain anything to you, you always think you know everything?"

See, she thought I was waiting for her to explain something because I already knew in my mind what I was waiting for her to say because I already knew, and I knew it was wrong. But I really just didnt understand, and I understood that, but she didnt. She thought she understood me, and that I was an asshole trying to prove her wrong if she tried to explain. She misunderstood, and when I told her that, she thought I was lying, because she knew that I did already did understand, but she was wrong about that. I didnt.

man... fuck it... nobody understands me.

ah now i understand what it was i didnt understand.

I spoke to my husband about this and he clames that he had a really bad day at work and he couldent get into it that night. He says he is willing to go for it again. He is not mad at me for finishing with the other chick, he just couldent get into it. He wants to try again. Should I do it. I think I should...... For him......

you do what you feel comfortable with. to me though, its still cheating.

I dont think it is cheating if your partner agrees.

do this first, he might need to be slowly let into the whole 3 some. Go to your local sex shop and buy an inflatable FEMALE doll. Then when your husband comes home, do what you did last time, only this time have the doll instead of your friend. Then blind fold him and remove the doll and replace it with your friend.

And he wont even notice the difference!

do this first, he might need to be slowly let into the whole 3 some. Go to your local sex shop and buy an inflatable FEMALE doll. Then when your husband comes home, do what you did last time, only this time have the doll instead of your friend. Then blind fold him and remove the doll and replace it with your friend.

And he wont even notice the difference!



How would he not know the difference between a doll and a person??

ohhh come on have a sense of humor!!!!

Hey karmacae.....i wish you would marry me! :)

ohhh come on have a sense of humor!!!!




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I guarantee that was the worst moment in that mans life, having to tell his wife that he is not into the threesome thing........ Then in a few weeks ask him if he wants to try it again, and he should say yes........

Rick


I knew it... everybody bow down to the almighty RICK!!!

this is quite interesting so i have to add my 2 cents! i personnaly wouldnt be able to have a threesome with someone i was totally in luv with. save the threesomes for the girl that broke you're heart cause she acted like a slut. i have this small feeling that karmacae also fantisized about being with another girl(especially if u finished the job without your hubby)when ur in a commited relationship, it is still cheating, just like the reply earlier, legal cheating! maybe he thinks u'll leave him for her?or that u will have these encounters when he is at work? anyway, the guy sounds like he cares for u alot and i think u should wait till he mentions it again before planning ur next orgy!!my ex girlfriend is bi and i think it would be awesome to have a threesome. but if we were still together, i wouldnt risk the relationship. some people do have feelings and cant see there luved one enjoying the company of another(especially sexually).anyway, i agree, i got most of my sexual technics from cosmo, fhm, maxim, etc. definately good tricks in those mags! if u ever plan on giving a girl the big o, just remember, u have to warm up the oven before sticking the chicken! it dont matter how big ur shit is, cause u could always use fingers and tongue, or even toys with batteries!!!!!just remember guys, u must befriend the enemy or else you,ll get left behind!!!!!!that thing could do something we cant, so just keep it at youre house and she'll never leave u! good luck karmacue!let us know how u make out!

I think I made it more understandable that time.

But picture it this way.
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... nobody understands me.

Tough concept to get, but... you KNOW that you don't understand everything, where your gf did NOT KNOW that she didn't understand, which ultimately made her more ignorant of situations than you.

So I get it.





I spoke to my husband about this and he clames that he had a really bad day at work and he couldent get into it that night. He says he is willing to go for it again. He is not mad at me for finishing with the other chick, he just couldent get into it. He wants to try again. Should I do it. I think I should...... For him......

If you're doing it for him, and you are both ok with it....but also be aware of the previous posts that 3somes can be bad/hard on relationships. Something that might need to be clarified: is it intended to be a one time thing, or is this opening a door to a change in what's going to happen in the future?

If he's not "into it" again however, it's likely time to trash the whole idea.

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I am pretty shure he is into it. He braught up the conversation and asked if I was willing to try again. And no I do not think it will be an on goieng thing, Just a treat once and a while when he is really good, I havent decided on that yet. But for shure it will not be a common thing for us...

I can see where a really crappy day would ruin a surprise set up for you, so it makes sense that if he's truly interested he'd bring it up again.

lucky karmacae's husband....

I wouldn't mind if my wife got it on with another chick.......... IF that meant that I get to as well. The thing about 3somes, is that in a serious relationship, you have to wonder... Am I going to feel jealous or insecure about this later on down the road?.... If you can see yourself being content with him putting his sword into a different sheath, then I say go for it.

But as a man, this is my foundation for all 3 some action.... NO OTHER MEN... Its that simple. If my wife says, "If we do it with another chick, then we can do it with another guy".... Then I will accept that I will be having no 3somes. None... I will cut my losses if it comes to that. I know that I would be jealous. (not to mention TURNED OFF) I would not be attracted to my wife, if I saw another dude "rockin the boat". Im the only one that gets to "work the middle" in my relationships.

Is that selfish?.... no. Because, if she is not comfortable with me putting the special sauce on another chalupa, then I can accept that too. But if she is cool with it, then I would let her know, beforehand, that nobody else gets to do the horizontal polka with her, even if we do a 3some. If she's not cool with that, I just won't do the 3some thing.

Make sure you and your husband are very clear on all of that. The biggest problem when it comes to this type of thing, is miscommunication, or lack of communication. Talk about it.

Rick