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Cbass
02-07-2003, 01:19 AM
Originally posted by Xv7vX
And ANY MAN who wears guci beside Guci himself is officially homo.
Xv7vX
I should smack you, you know...
Suckas are just killin me with anger!
I only wear Gucci, I do not wear wrangler!
:P
And ANY MAN who wears guci beside Guci himself is officially homo.
Xv7vX
I should smack you, you know...
Suckas are just killin me with anger!
I only wear Gucci, I do not wear wrangler!
:P
Cbass
02-07-2003, 01:21 AM
Originally posted by boingo82
You just haven't found the right one.
There are lot's of right ones :)
It's simple enough, a relationship goes two ways, you've got to give the other person what they want, or they're not going to stick around. Unless you are one of the few lucky souls who have an instinctive knack for what the other person wants, you have to communicate with the other person. This doesn't mean they have to tell you what they want, but you have to pick up on the signs, because there will always be signs.
If someones not giving you what you want, you're not going to stay with them, are you?
You just haven't found the right one.
There are lot's of right ones :)
It's simple enough, a relationship goes two ways, you've got to give the other person what they want, or they're not going to stick around. Unless you are one of the few lucky souls who have an instinctive knack for what the other person wants, you have to communicate with the other person. This doesn't mean they have to tell you what they want, but you have to pick up on the signs, because there will always be signs.
If someones not giving you what you want, you're not going to stay with them, are you?
Tackle Trap
02-10-2003, 06:03 PM
And you are fashion aware, does that make you gay? I mean, just cuz we're male, doesn't mean we're idiots when it comes to clothes, hairstyles, and style in general. Myself, I like to design clothes sometimes--especially dresses. But I'm straight. I like the ladies and am secure with my sexuality.
My opinion.Doesnt necessarily make you gay,but it does make you fruity.You see some of them,they have that fruity,cross between a man and woman,lispse type of voice.And its hilarious too.I dont mean to insult you if you have that kind of voice,but thats my opinion.
My opinion.Doesnt necessarily make you gay,but it does make you fruity.You see some of them,they have that fruity,cross between a man and woman,lispse type of voice.And its hilarious too.I dont mean to insult you if you have that kind of voice,but thats my opinion.
Tackle Trap
02-10-2003, 06:07 PM
Also my opinion again.But if you like designing dresses,I can assure you that you will be after those men soon.No guy likes to design womens dresses and isnt kinda a little gay.Sorry if I hurt you but thats how I feel.
Tackle Trap
02-10-2003, 06:22 PM
It would be silly to say that just because a guy is up to date on the current fasions and is dressed nicely that he is gay. This would be kind of like saying that any girl on this forum who likes cars and likes to work on cars is obviously gay.
I disagree Gonthrax.He wasnt talking about being up to date.He was talking about if you design cloths.Which guys cloths,MAYBE not.Guys know what guys like so designing guys cloths wouldnt,probably make you gay.But female clothing is a different story in my opinion.If you like to design female clothing and your a guy,well then,I hope you get by in life without obtaining HIV.All male female cloths designer I have met(I have met many because of where I live)were gay.And I also disagree with your second sentance.These two topics are not at all comparable.If a girl likes cars and likes working on them,then that simply means she is slightly a tom-boy which in my opinion,no problem.But being a tom-girl...cough cough:eek:
I disagree Gonthrax.He wasnt talking about being up to date.He was talking about if you design cloths.Which guys cloths,MAYBE not.Guys know what guys like so designing guys cloths wouldnt,probably make you gay.But female clothing is a different story in my opinion.If you like to design female clothing and your a guy,well then,I hope you get by in life without obtaining HIV.All male female cloths designer I have met(I have met many because of where I live)were gay.And I also disagree with your second sentance.These two topics are not at all comparable.If a girl likes cars and likes working on them,then that simply means she is slightly a tom-boy which in my opinion,no problem.But being a tom-girl...cough cough:eek:
Cbass
02-12-2003, 01:23 PM
I thought sexual preference was decided by your genes, not your jeans! :hehehe:
jon@af
02-12-2003, 08:02 PM
Originally posted by Cbass
I thought sexual preference was decided by your genes, not your jeans! :hehehe:
Well, technically neither. when you are born there is no specific gene that I know of which predetermines whether you be homosexual or heterosexual. Most of the time it is in the post-pubecent period at which point adolescent young men are discovering their sexuality, do they choose what pfreference they have. my $0.02
I thought sexual preference was decided by your genes, not your jeans! :hehehe:
Well, technically neither. when you are born there is no specific gene that I know of which predetermines whether you be homosexual or heterosexual. Most of the time it is in the post-pubecent period at which point adolescent young men are discovering their sexuality, do they choose what pfreference they have. my $0.02
Cbass
02-12-2003, 09:35 PM
Originally posted by ILike2DriveCars
Well, technically neither. when you are born there is no specific gene that I know of which predetermines whether you be homosexual or heterosexual. Most of the time it is in the post-pubecent period at which point adolescent young men are discovering their sexuality, do they choose what pfreference they have. my $0.02
Actually, it is genetic, not a choice. A straight guy can't look at a guy and become aroused any more than a gay guy can look at a girl and become aroused.
Well, technically neither. when you are born there is no specific gene that I know of which predetermines whether you be homosexual or heterosexual. Most of the time it is in the post-pubecent period at which point adolescent young men are discovering their sexuality, do they choose what pfreference they have. my $0.02
Actually, it is genetic, not a choice. A straight guy can't look at a guy and become aroused any more than a gay guy can look at a girl and become aroused.
boingo82
02-12-2003, 10:11 PM
Originally posted by Cbass
Actually, it is genetic, not a choice. A straight guy can't look at a guy and become aroused any more than a gay guy can look at a girl and become aroused.
My understanding is that it's not genetic as there have been identical twins where one's gay and the other's not.
Actually, it is genetic, not a choice. A straight guy can't look at a guy and become aroused any more than a gay guy can look at a girl and become aroused.
My understanding is that it's not genetic as there have been identical twins where one's gay and the other's not.
replicant_008
02-12-2003, 10:31 PM
As part of my job I'm expected to wear a suit and tie to the office. It's part of the 'work persona' I utilise @ work - it's like the pips on the epaulets of an army officer or my foreman's hat, it distinguishes me as being the leader (well actually it reinforces the image that my staff have of what their leader SHOULD look like - I'd rather wear shorts and a sailing shirt).
Because I spend a good part of the day wearing the shirt and tie - I like to be comfortable and to have stuff that's durable and hard wearing. So I end up wearing cotton shirts, pure wool suits and leather shoes - and to be honest I have a physique that looks good in a suit.
Another aspect of my 'work persona' is that I portray that I'm a competitive, driven person and so I select suits that reflect that tend to be sharp and distinctive. (We're talking pinstripe suits and silk ties I guess).
This contrasts with my 'casual ie Rep' persona which I adopt outside work where it's trainers, shorts and a RipCurl shirt most of the time.
Occasionally, folk who know my 'casual' or the Rep persona see me in work clothes and find the difference quite disconcerting. So I look like a ski-bum when I'm outside of work and they find it surprising to see me in a suit working for a corporate. A lot of them know what I do - just that doesn't reconcile with their internal model of what they associate with Rep when he's outside of work...
Because I spend a good part of the day wearing the shirt and tie - I like to be comfortable and to have stuff that's durable and hard wearing. So I end up wearing cotton shirts, pure wool suits and leather shoes - and to be honest I have a physique that looks good in a suit.
Another aspect of my 'work persona' is that I portray that I'm a competitive, driven person and so I select suits that reflect that tend to be sharp and distinctive. (We're talking pinstripe suits and silk ties I guess).
This contrasts with my 'casual ie Rep' persona which I adopt outside work where it's trainers, shorts and a RipCurl shirt most of the time.
Occasionally, folk who know my 'casual' or the Rep persona see me in work clothes and find the difference quite disconcerting. So I look like a ski-bum when I'm outside of work and they find it surprising to see me in a suit working for a corporate. A lot of them know what I do - just that doesn't reconcile with their internal model of what they associate with Rep when he's outside of work...
Tackle Trap
02-13-2003, 05:15 AM
Actually, it is genetic, not a choice. A straight guy can't look at a guy and become aroused any more than a gay guy can look at a girl and become aroused.
Its NOT genetic.If a guy likes to take it in the ass then he chose that likeing.He was not born a fagget.Its there choice to become gay.
Its NOT genetic.If a guy likes to take it in the ass then he chose that likeing.He was not born a fagget.Its there choice to become gay.
Cbass
02-13-2003, 01:09 PM
Originally posted by Tackle Trap
Its NOT genetic.If a guy likes to take it in the ass then he chose that likeing.He was not born a fagget.Its there choice to become gay.
And you know this HOW? I have had gay friends, they say it's not a choice. :rolleyes:
But if you want to make ignorant bigotted statements you can't back up, by all means, you can. But let's get this thread back on topic before it gets closed.
Its NOT genetic.If a guy likes to take it in the ass then he chose that likeing.He was not born a fagget.Its there choice to become gay.
And you know this HOW? I have had gay friends, they say it's not a choice. :rolleyes:
But if you want to make ignorant bigotted statements you can't back up, by all means, you can. But let's get this thread back on topic before it gets closed.
BLU CIVIC
02-13-2003, 01:18 PM
i'm not fashion aware...probably b/c i don't like buying clothes...still wear clothes from my junior year of h.s. and that was 6 years ago...but i can say that in my junior and senior year of h.s. i was in home ec. making and designing clothes....was cool being the only guy (how does this look on me, can you zip me up :D) i personally would still be doing it if i had time and if my singer didn't break...the only drawback is the looks that you are given for saying that you know how to make clothes...but the women seem to love it :D
BLU CIVIC
02-13-2003, 01:22 PM
by the way....my bro's..i would say very fashion aware...he's the one that got me to start wearing clothes that match and to start ironing :D ......he wonders why some of his good clothes are missing
Tackle Trap
02-13-2003, 03:55 PM
And you know this HOW? I have had gay friends, they say it's not a choice.
So you are saying,it is instinct for them to take it in the ass and and not be attracted to women?Thats the stupidest thing I have ever heard.They MAKE the choice to take it in the ass.They have a choice...let this queer pump me?Or not let this queer pump me.Its not genetic.
But if you want to make ignorant bigotted statements you can't back up, by all means, you can. But let's get this thread back on topic before it gets closed.
There not ignorant,if you want to believe a false statement and believe a fag that it was in his genes to be queer,then by all means,be ignorant and believe them.The queer says its not there choice because now that he has AIDs there sorry they MADE the CHOICE to be queer.
There is a HUGE difference between genetics and choices.You see,its in my genes that Im 6'4" and have brown hair and have a size 15 foot.I have no control over that.But its my choice if I want to be a alcoholic,a drug addict,or in this case,a gaylord.
So you are saying,it is instinct for them to take it in the ass and and not be attracted to women?Thats the stupidest thing I have ever heard.They MAKE the choice to take it in the ass.They have a choice...let this queer pump me?Or not let this queer pump me.Its not genetic.
But if you want to make ignorant bigotted statements you can't back up, by all means, you can. But let's get this thread back on topic before it gets closed.
There not ignorant,if you want to believe a false statement and believe a fag that it was in his genes to be queer,then by all means,be ignorant and believe them.The queer says its not there choice because now that he has AIDs there sorry they MADE the CHOICE to be queer.
There is a HUGE difference between genetics and choices.You see,its in my genes that Im 6'4" and have brown hair and have a size 15 foot.I have no control over that.But its my choice if I want to be a alcoholic,a drug addict,or in this case,a gaylord.
boingo82
02-13-2003, 04:00 PM
If we're going to have a "are gays gay because they want to be, or not?" discussion, that needs to happen in a DIFFERENT thread. Any more posts about this subject will be nuked.
The topic at hand is: Is it gay for guys to care about clothing?
Discuss.
The topic at hand is: Is it gay for guys to care about clothing?
Discuss.
jinushaun
02-13-2003, 04:25 PM
Just to clarify, when I said 'I am a guy that cares about clothes', I didn't mean that I only cared about myself dressing well. (Which is how most people interpretted the statement) I meant that I am also interested in women's clothes and designing clothes. I think female clothing is so much moer interesting than male clothing. There's just more variety and room for expression and exploration.
Cbass
02-13-2003, 11:27 PM
Point taken, boingo82.
I don't think having fashion sense has anything to do with sexuality personally... I am reasonably fashion aware, and I lust after every halfway attractive woman I meet... This may just be because I'm young, or maybe because I am libido in a can :hehehe:
If someone wants to call me gay because I have Italian designer loafers, khakis and a button up shirt over a T-shirt that's tucked into my pants... Let em, I'll go and pick up a girl in front of him, while he can only remark about how gay I am to dress so well :rolleyes:
I don't think having fashion sense has anything to do with sexuality personally... I am reasonably fashion aware, and I lust after every halfway attractive woman I meet... This may just be because I'm young, or maybe because I am libido in a can :hehehe:
If someone wants to call me gay because I have Italian designer loafers, khakis and a button up shirt over a T-shirt that's tucked into my pants... Let em, I'll go and pick up a girl in front of him, while he can only remark about how gay I am to dress so well :rolleyes:
BLU CIVIC
02-14-2003, 06:36 AM
Originally posted by jinushaun
Just to clarify, when I said 'I am a guy that cares about clothes', I didn't mean that I only cared about myself dressing well. (Which is how most people interpretted the statement) I meant that I am also interested in women's clothes and designing clothes. I think female clothing is so much moer interesting than male clothing. There's just more variety and room for expression and exploration.
ditto on that.....after making a robe, suit, shorts, and dress shirt....there wasn't anything really left for me to make as far as mens clothing goes....but women have a lot of clothing to choose from....easier too...one funny account that i can remember is when i was in h.s. i wanted to make a dkny dress for a friend but the teacher wouldn't let me....so i had to take it to the principal and she made the teacher let me make the dress (b/c of the whole fitting and pinning part)...long story short...i got 95% of it done b4 someone stole it from the classroom and the teacher showed no remorse
Just to clarify, when I said 'I am a guy that cares about clothes', I didn't mean that I only cared about myself dressing well. (Which is how most people interpretted the statement) I meant that I am also interested in women's clothes and designing clothes. I think female clothing is so much moer interesting than male clothing. There's just more variety and room for expression and exploration.
ditto on that.....after making a robe, suit, shorts, and dress shirt....there wasn't anything really left for me to make as far as mens clothing goes....but women have a lot of clothing to choose from....easier too...one funny account that i can remember is when i was in h.s. i wanted to make a dkny dress for a friend but the teacher wouldn't let me....so i had to take it to the principal and she made the teacher let me make the dress (b/c of the whole fitting and pinning part)...long story short...i got 95% of it done b4 someone stole it from the classroom and the teacher showed no remorse
jinushaun
02-14-2003, 02:53 PM
Originally posted by BLU CIVIC
ditto on that.....after making a robe, suit, shorts, and dress shirt....there wasn't anything really left for me to make as far as mens clothing goes....but women have a lot of clothing to choose from....easier too... :cool: So you make actual clothes? I haven't actually put needle to thread yet, but I design alot. And by design, I mean something more than just a logo tee. :rolleyes: I like designing dresses best. And I hate asymmetry.
Originally posted by BLU CIVIC
one funny account that i can remember is when i was in h.s. i wanted to make a dkny dress for a friend but the teacher wouldn't let me....so i had to take it to the principal and she made the teacher let me make the dress (b/c of the whole fitting and pinning part)...long story short...i got 95% of it done b4 someone stole it from the classroom and the teacher showed no remorse Wow. That sucks ass. Sorry to hear. :(
ditto on that.....after making a robe, suit, shorts, and dress shirt....there wasn't anything really left for me to make as far as mens clothing goes....but women have a lot of clothing to choose from....easier too... :cool: So you make actual clothes? I haven't actually put needle to thread yet, but I design alot. And by design, I mean something more than just a logo tee. :rolleyes: I like designing dresses best. And I hate asymmetry.
Originally posted by BLU CIVIC
one funny account that i can remember is when i was in h.s. i wanted to make a dkny dress for a friend but the teacher wouldn't let me....so i had to take it to the principal and she made the teacher let me make the dress (b/c of the whole fitting and pinning part)...long story short...i got 95% of it done b4 someone stole it from the classroom and the teacher showed no remorse Wow. That sucks ass. Sorry to hear. :(
BLU CIVIC
02-14-2003, 03:20 PM
YEAH I ACTUALLY MAKE CLOTHES...
boingo82
02-14-2003, 03:48 PM
Actually, I think it silly that a man designing womens' clothes would be assumed to be gay. You're looking at women, figuring out what flatters their figures, makes them look sexy, etc., then using machinery to achieve the look...how again is that gay??
My fiancee dresses nicely and has helped me pick out clothes on occasion. He's a good judge of what is flattering. I have, in the past, made some of my own clothes, mostly pants. There used to be a Coleman plant in town, and if we showed up at 4:30 in the morning the factory gave away all the remnants (pieces that were too small to make sleeping bags, etc.) and so we accumulated a houseful of free fabric. I used sleeping bag canvas to make jeans, complete with pockets, belt loops, button closure, zipper closure, etc. I am a master at setting the zipper fly. :cool:
My fiancee dresses nicely and has helped me pick out clothes on occasion. He's a good judge of what is flattering. I have, in the past, made some of my own clothes, mostly pants. There used to be a Coleman plant in town, and if we showed up at 4:30 in the morning the factory gave away all the remnants (pieces that were too small to make sleeping bags, etc.) and so we accumulated a houseful of free fabric. I used sleeping bag canvas to make jeans, complete with pockets, belt loops, button closure, zipper closure, etc. I am a master at setting the zipper fly. :cool:
HogieGT-R
02-17-2003, 07:37 PM
There's nothing gay about it cuz a guy just has to have style. if a guy doesn't have style, then the ladies don't come in and people think of you as a slob......if you don't have style, and go for a job interview, the person with the style who came in will get the job.....guys without fashion sense always wonder why they are always home alone, while the guys with style score left and right...style is a great tool for success and that's why it's not gay
jon@af
02-17-2003, 07:43 PM
Originally posted by HogieGT-R
There's nothing gay about it cuz a guy just has to have style. if a guy doesn't have style, then the ladies don't come in and people think of you as a slob......if you don't have style, and go for a job interview, the person with the style who came in will get the job.....guys without fashion sense always wonder why they are always home alone, while the guys with style score left and right...style is a great tool for success and that's why it's not gay
Well put:D I very much agree.
There's nothing gay about it cuz a guy just has to have style. if a guy doesn't have style, then the ladies don't come in and people think of you as a slob......if you don't have style, and go for a job interview, the person with the style who came in will get the job.....guys without fashion sense always wonder why they are always home alone, while the guys with style score left and right...style is a great tool for success and that's why it's not gay
Well put:D I very much agree.
speediva
02-17-2003, 07:48 PM
Women like confident men. If a guy looks like he just crawled out of bed, he more than likely isn't going to give off the vibe of confidence. On the other hand, if a guy is dressed to his "best" he will seem far more confident and thus more able to attract people, even just as friends.
Like I've said before: I am into cars and motorcycles. Is it not the best way for me to get to know what guys think and like??? How is it any different for a guy to design or show an interest in clothes (a predominantly feminine field)??? He gets a better knowledge of how to best find a woman.
Like I've said before: I am into cars and motorcycles. Is it not the best way for me to get to know what guys think and like??? How is it any different for a guy to design or show an interest in clothes (a predominantly feminine field)??? He gets a better knowledge of how to best find a woman.
I-Tech
02-20-2003, 07:28 AM
You can change the point a little: Being gay doesnt mean you are fashionable!
SilverLotus340R
02-20-2003, 06:54 PM
I would have to say no that if you are fashion aware or wear nice clothes than you are NOT gay. i mean i wear nice clothes and 80 % of them are designer (tommy hilfiger, gap, j crew) blah blah. but i am 100% straight. If it were not for nice clothes girls wouldnt look at you at all.
as for designing clothes...i dont see whats wrong with it. if some guys didnt do it than we would all be still wearing loin clothes. And for whoever said something about people wearing Gucci must mean your gay...how?? i dont personally because i cant afford it. but just because the label says Gucci doesnt mean your gay. i mean the designer of the clothes maybe gay but that doesnt mean it shows in the clothes. I wouldnt mind designing clothes. i have done some and i have made some clothes in like home ec. in school. but if you think for the straight fact that ..your design clothes your gay..thats stupid. And what about the guys that design womens clothes..they get to stare @ 1/2 - fully naked women trying on their clothes all day long??? i would say if your a straight guy and you design clothes for men or women and enjoy it more power to you. but when you start enjoying looking @ the men then something is wrong
i personally dont like gay people and that is because of their ways and going about their ways..i think its wrong and truely disgusting. no offense to them or nething but to me that is wrong. but thats not this discussion
as for designing clothes...i dont see whats wrong with it. if some guys didnt do it than we would all be still wearing loin clothes. And for whoever said something about people wearing Gucci must mean your gay...how?? i dont personally because i cant afford it. but just because the label says Gucci doesnt mean your gay. i mean the designer of the clothes maybe gay but that doesnt mean it shows in the clothes. I wouldnt mind designing clothes. i have done some and i have made some clothes in like home ec. in school. but if you think for the straight fact that ..your design clothes your gay..thats stupid. And what about the guys that design womens clothes..they get to stare @ 1/2 - fully naked women trying on their clothes all day long??? i would say if your a straight guy and you design clothes for men or women and enjoy it more power to you. but when you start enjoying looking @ the men then something is wrong
i personally dont like gay people and that is because of their ways and going about their ways..i think its wrong and truely disgusting. no offense to them or nething but to me that is wrong. but thats not this discussion
jon@af
02-20-2003, 07:55 PM
Originally posted by I-Tech
You can change the point a little: Being gay doesnt mean you are fashionable!
I agree. I think it's a really stupid thing to think that just because a guy is gay hes automatically fashionable. We had a gay guy at my school last year and he wore some of the ugliest clothes Ive ever seen. Homeless people wouldnt wear these clothes.
You can change the point a little: Being gay doesnt mean you are fashionable!
I agree. I think it's a really stupid thing to think that just because a guy is gay hes automatically fashionable. We had a gay guy at my school last year and he wore some of the ugliest clothes Ive ever seen. Homeless people wouldnt wear these clothes.
MaximusGTR
02-21-2003, 01:29 AM
Botton line is females like a man that dresses up to par, So why not know whats in and whats not. Got to appeal to the ladies as well as look good for yourself:D
orange nitro
03-04-2003, 11:27 AM
It is not "gay" to be fassion aware. Even though I am the total opposite of this. I wear the same cloths all week...yet I still don't stink.
Raz_Kaz
05-10-2004, 05:02 PM
Who says that dressing nice, and nice being in accord to everyones taste, is gay? Some people like suits and such, others with baggy clothes and such. I for one have been labelled fashionably sexy because of my great taste in clothes, but others can dispute saying that the clothes I like are horrible. No need to argue because everyone has their style :thumbsup:
FireBball972
05-19-2004, 01:34 PM
yeah, they invented a new word for fashion sensitive heterosexuals
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