friend has a big problem.....dont know what to do

i know this girl, actually ive been trying to go out with her
for over a year,she has been seeing this guy that beats
on her, he dont take her anywere, she cant leave the
house, cant use her phone. its her house, it was left to
her when her grandma passed away, her friend introduced
her to him over a year ago. he moved in, all he does is
slap her around, she is a good person and she deserves better.
i found out a year ago that she had a crush on me, and i am
also interested in her also. so one of her friends were going to
help throw him out and that was months ago. he is still there.
her and the friend were playing monopoly the other night
and they were trading property. he grabbed the board and
slung it across the room and said i dont like cheaters.
he went and got his gun put 3 bullits in it and told them.
" i dont know what i will do if someone tried to make me leave."
and he already told her that he would come back and kill
her parents if he got thrown out. they are afraid to call the law.
what can she do to get rid of him.

Damn, that is a a horrible situation. I would probably have no choice but to call the authorities. That's the only thing I can think of, other than putting a bullet in his ass. But I don't recommend the second option.

i cant stand the though of whats going on, i think of it
all the time and its killing me. if the cops do pick
him up he will just come back. he would kill her and
her parents then. i found out that his last girlfriend
had to post up his phone number and tell people he was
gay to get rid of him, and he finally moved out. if
i could get my hands on that girl that introduced him
to her i would strangle her. she told me that he shoved
her down one night and when her parents asked why
he said i thought that she was a piece of furniture.
all the guy does is play playstation, drink and snort
pills. he beat her up a few weeks ago and her dad
had to run over there and pull him off of her. i could
kill him. the poor girl had to quit collage to keep
the bum up. i tried to tell her about him from the
start and she didnt listen. now that she has seen
the light, its too late and he thinks that he owns
the place and her too. in high school the kids
made fun of him cause his name is isreal and called
him aladin....he got on the phone and told me that
his friends would kill me and throw me in a sludge
pond if i didnt leave her alone. i told him that he
better rub that damn lamp and make a wish and get the
hell out of dodge. he hung up on me.

your paragraphs hurt my eyes...
But yea, call the cops and explain to them whats going on and the consequences and tell them he is armed and dangerous. Then call on the wellington vice to take care of the rest :lol2:

i think i will do that, i will talk to her parents
before so they will know what a going on.

too many ppl that know could be dangerous, he can hear of this....I say tell only those who are not living in the household

yeh. her mom and dad live next door.
they want him gone and they too
are afraid to do anything.

yea, just let them know of your intentions an get the cops involved asap...also, I wouldnt plan on getting too close to the girl soon afterwards, she wont be ready for any sort of real relationship, just stay friends and then take it from there

yeah i realize that i cant make it look
like i called the cops, and that it was
my intentions on getting him out
of the house. i plan on laying low for
a month or two

Keep on talking to her, but dont expect anything from her, she will need someone to talk to after all this, just be a good friend, sometimes a mans gotta do that

WOW man, she lives right next to her parents... that must be really hard for the parents to be so close and not be able to do anything..... you should bring him down to L.A. we will teach him a lesson...

the next time he leaves or she has to go to work tell her to go to someones house maybe yours and call the cops. thats the smartest thing to do. no ones gonna touch you, they prolly wont even realize its you till its all done. get her out of there. if all else fails remember you win some you lose some tell her to run and drop that clown

Sounds like he needs a thorough beating.

well we were thinking when she leaves to go to work
for her to get her clothes together and leave shes
going to hide the car in a relitaves garage. i will
then pick her up and she will stay at my place. her parents
has already gotten everything worked out. she will quit
her job too. we will make it look like she has just disapeared.
i live 10 miles from were she does. im going to meet her
at 11:30 tonite. the abuser is gone right now, he said he wouldnt
be home til 5 in the morning that he had been called out to work.
so we took advantage of this. she has agreed to do it. she is scared.
im going to pick her up in my ss camaro. it has dark tinted windows
and no one will ever see her.

good

thats the route you should go let it all blow over and get her a job somewhere else cuz it could be bad if someone sees her

yea, move to mexico....

Whoa, her grandma left the house to her? Is it in her name? If it is, get the cops over there and have him thrown out onto the street. As quickly as possible get a restraining order on the asshole, he is stupid enough to come back to harrass her, and he will go to jail for it.
If it's not in her name (I can't imagine that he has ANY right to ownership of the place) then it must be in her parents name, get them to have him thrown out.

ahh she can quit the job she wont have to work.
i ll get her anything she wants. the only thing is
she cant go anywere for a while.

where do you live man?

it was left to her parents they let her move in 2 years ago.

in kentucky

Hey, your plan sounds very good but what will he do after he finds that she has left. Didn't he say he would come after you? Sorry if this offends anyone at all but is he like a big "redneck", because I'm not sure how it is out there but I heard they can get very mad

well im going to go and get her right now
by time i get to her aunts she should be there.
thanks for the advice guys....and all it took
was one call to her parents house. i will
let everyone know how it goes when i get back.
:bigthumb: thanks again, im kinda nervous about
this but i know its the right thing to do.

Once she's gone get him kicked out, and have her get a restraining order. It doesn't sound like he'd actually kill anybody, afterall anybody who has to beat up girls and play with guns to feel like a man is obviously a fairly large pussy.

good luck man.... hope everything works out

^ you still don't want to mess with him


he's the one with the gun :screwy:

well we just got back, she is here with me and she
said that she is never going back there. and if
he does come here, which he dont know were
i live, i will blow his ass away. shit my car was crammed
full of her stuff. i have been living by myself for several months
just got a new doublewide. no pictures on the walls
she screamed when she came through the door. im
not a good house keeper. she lauged and said well ill
be busy tomarrow. i told her that i would sleep on the
couch, which is thats were i have been sleeping anyway.
i need to go grocery shopping i dont have enuff food
to acomidate 2 people for the rest of the week. im
going to leave her here she wants on the computer.
maybe you all can chat til i get back.

Glad everything worked out so far!

good luck man and while your gone make sure all the doors and windows and shit are locked dont take any chances

tell her i said hi too bad you dont look closer to chicago i woulda went over there with you

Hello Guys n Gals, tacoma man is the sweetest
guy i have ever met. he is big hearted, he is
a real man, not like that sissy i just escaped
from. his place needs a womans touch.
his drive way looks like a car lot ha ha.
he loves his cars.

welcome to the family!!!!! :)

Thanks, i think he is going to teach
me to drive that big 6 speed camaro,
it scares me to death. its fast.
icant drive a standard, ill burn
out the clutch.

hehe...im sure ull do fine. its not all that hard.

haha hello hows it goin? nah its always fun to learn to drive a stick specially on a camaro good luck with everything. keep in touch on here too:ylsuper:

By the way thats some car youve got,
my dad has a 68 ss its gold, i think
it has a 395 in it it has a 4 speed
in it. he restored it himself.

By the way thats some car youve got,
my dad has a 68 ss its gold, i think
it has a 395 in it it has a 4 speed
in it. he restored it himself.

Thanks!!! mines got a 327 in it..i just bought it in fall. im in the middle of swappin trannys

its funny, he has a picture of Adam Sandler
under were it has his screen name, he could be
adams twin brother. but he is built a little
heavier than Adam Sandler. they look just alike
in the face.

i never pictured him looking like adam sandler

he does. just for laughs how did you picture him.

i have no idea.....lol...just not adam sandler

i figured you might have thought he looked
like grizzly adams ha ha. cause his name
on here is tacoma man

how many others are in this chat room?

theres alot in here

well ur not really in it.....you post and then you can go to another post....your post always stays in the spot then you can go to another topic...talk there ...and then come back and talk on this one again.

my name is Jessica.

hello jessica mine's eric whats tacoma man/big sandler real name?

james, friends and family calls him jamie

cool well nice to meet both of you

by the way my car is a red 99 vw jetta.
no mods wouldnt know were to start.

u need a camaro....wont your daddy buy you one ???:) hes got one!

o theres tons of mods
heres a site to start off at great site one of my favs
http://www.estrictlyforeign.com/

i dont know if its worth it or not. my car has
the spoiler and gfx kit on it. its a v6

thats not it, well i may have to sell the
car because that bum might spot it,
and its not fast enough to out run his
f 150

after i rode in that silver super sport
i do want a camaro, i will probally sell
the jetta so that bum wont spot me
out on the road.

yeah

i think he said that he would think about me
driving the blue z28. its broke down right now
though.

oh..that would b cool tho

i went through to his bed room and
looked in the closet and there is a
motor in there!!!!!!!! its just its shell
it has been cleaned up. hard tellin
what i might find here. he shore has been
gone a while now, he went to wally world
"wal-mart".

oh you mean ghetto-mart? well at elast here its ghett lol.....damn milwaukee.

yeah he went grocery shopping....i bet thats
funny. im going to ask him if he slammed any food
cans on the floor to get 5 cents off. well he just came through the door and has arm loads of
groceries, and he said he got us some food at
wendy's. im hungry, that bastard...excuse my
language that i was living with spent all of my
money to buy pills with and i had to do without
groceries.