Whats the longest relationship that you have had ?

[GOD]

The longest one for me is like a couple of months ....thats kinda sad for some reason my relationships dont seem to last too long . And usually its just my fault or i get tired of the girl

[enzo@af]

It's my current....V. Day will be 3 years. I love her to death.

[bellaracing]

I feel pretty pathetic right about now but I have never had a relationship so both of your relationships are pretty long for me *lol*

[GOD]

It's all good man we all find a girl sooner or later some . Right now i'm trying to find the girl of my dreams ....like thats gonna happen lol but i just wanna tell ya that if you don't look for it too hard it will come to you but if you look too hard that it won't happen at all . Good luck

[JD@af]

Don't get discouraged. I think relationships SUCK THE BIG ONE!!!
And no, I am not saying that in retaliation to being hurt or anything.

To me, having a steady relationship stands against everything important about being a human being. It creates co-dependency, complacency, and compromise. Living life to the fullest consists of eliminating dictating forces like these from your very existence!!

Yes, I recognize that someday I too will grow tired of having my space all the time, and will want to share my very being with another person. I know that someday doing for another what I prefer to do for myself at this juncture may bring me some odd sense of satisfaction and fulfillment. But until that day (which frankly I hope is very far away for me), I will enjoy living the sweet life, the single life of a swinging bachelor, casual sex among close friends and occasional strangers, and the confidence in yourself not to need someone else's exclusive approval or affections in order to maintain a decent level of self-esteem.

If you pick the right person and don't wind up finding yourself in a divorce, you have the rest of your life to be married and raise a family with that person. Being young and single is the time to grab it all by the horns and have some fun so that there will be no regrets to be had later in life, when it's not quite so cool to try and score at bars on Friday nights.

In conclusion, life is too short to just stand by one person watching the rest of the world go by. Get out there and have fun, because I see no reason to envy those that are in relationships that often only help feed their need for attention. Live for yourself.

P.S. To answer your original question, GOD, 13 1/2 months.

[crash]

6 1/2 years so far.

[GOD]

well spoken well spoken jd . What you said is so so tru . Hell you just have to live life b/c u never know when its gonna end . So just go out and have the time of ur life until the time is right to settle down .

[JD@af]

Thanks GOD. For more mindless ramble, check out my new Philosophising forum, in the Coffee Break (Off-Topic) board.

[bellaracing]

JD

umm okay *lol* I don't know what to say about your speech, should I be saying thank-you??*lol*

[Robs944S]

it'll be 4 yrs in OCT.

[RacingManiac]

I'll tell you when I actually have one....I am 17....isn't this kinda pathatic?

[Seb928S@af]

RacingManiac don't worry about that my relationship suck. I just broke up with a girl before valentines day but trying to hook up with another. hehe I have had one girl I am in love with only problem is that she is in europe and I am here.

[carmaster]

My longest is about 2 weeks, but that was back in 7th grade so I dunno if it really counts.

[bellaracing]

RacingManiac

That is what I am talking about except I am an 18 year old who has never had a boyfriend before, I am a year older so don't feel pathetic yet *lol*

[ichthus]

Bah, that's nothing...I'll be 21 tomorrow and I've yet to date anyone. At all. Always had other priorities and some really great friends to make up for it. It'll happen when it's supposed to...