Projector Lights Wiring HELP!!!

Hello, I needed help in the wiring for my new projector headlamps. The new lights that I bought convert my original H-4 to a dual H-1 and H-3, 1 for low beam and 1 for high beam. There are lots of different wires that I am sort of confused about. There are 2 female plugs, which I figure I plug into my lamps, and only 1 male plug which goes into the original plugs in my car(did they not send me another male plug?). There are 4 wires which need to be grouned which are confusing me. I think 2 of the wires are to be grounded to my engine, and I'm guessing the other 2 are to ground to the battery or alternator? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thank You.

These are the projectors that I purchased.

http://www.procarparts.com/store/displaydetails.cfm?pid=217-111P-LD-NY2

nm I got it...THX