When did you all lose your vcard?

[2.2 Straight six]

Originally Posted by SiGNAL748

Sure, but I still prefer llamas.

llamas? didn't you just get married to a goat?

[zx2guy]

not to pry or anything but does anyone else notice that even though many of us regret what we did we still posted nonetheless?

i gave it my girlfriend, when i was 15... by far the stupidest thing ive done. at the time it seemed like a big deal... but now it dont.

[imtheoneandonlyD]

Originally Posted by zx2guy

not to pry or anything but does anyone else notice that even though many of us regret what we did we still posted nonetheless?

i gave it my girlfriend, when i was 15... by far the stupidest thing ive done. at the time it seemed like a big deal... but now it dont.

He asked, so i answered. I dont see the big deal in saying that i regret it.

[zx2guy]

its not just you... many of these ive noticed have had some form of regret behind it. hell me too. i reget it. no one... well of the ones ive been skimming through, has gone off and said hell yeah and many more. its all had almost a solomn tone to this.

and its not a big deal. to say your opinion of it.. only an idiot would say yeah i did it when i was 15 and proud of it.

[vinnym86]

I regret nothing

edit: never regret your actions. whatever you have done serves as wisdom. Actions you may have taken may not have been smart, but they have always made you more the wiser.

[2.2 Straight six]

i think it's that at the time everyone think they're ready, they think they're mature enough etc. it's only in retrospect that we realise its something we should've saved for the one(s) we love. we regret it because we've found someone we love and we cant take back waht we've done.

we say we regret it because we do, what the point in not saying it? as said above; they asked we answered, and we added regret in some cases.

bottom line, we were stupid, many thought that it's something you do to say you've done it. i think...

[Nicole8188]

I don't regret doing it, I regret being so young. And thinking that I was grown-up. And being naive enough to think that I was going to be with the same person forever. And not being able to give it to the one person I love more than anything.

[2.2 Straight six]

aren't almost all of us guilty of that? the thing is it takes something like this to realise other things, we're not as mature as we think. but it's too late, the wake-up call just comes too late.

[clawhammer]

Well, they say hindsight is 20/20.

What I'm wondering, was when those of you who did loose it at 15, I'm sure you've heard someone telling you not to do it, why did you not listen to them? I mean they could have told you that ahead of time. I realize that my question may come across to some in the wrong way, but I'm just wondering, how could we convince a 15 year old to not to do it? Or should we just let them go ahead and experience the regret for themselves?

I can't speak from experience because I still have mine, but I'm just really wondering.

[Nicole8188]

I really don't think there is anything that you can tell them...

I have the most wonderful mom, she instills everything in me very well. I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't go to parties. I never have. I'm a really good kid.

I still did it...

I think it's something that they're going to do on their own, society doesn't really look down upon it enough. Trust me, when I was contemplating it, I had many more people telling me that there wasn't really much to worry about and that it wouldn't make me a bad person and pretty much reassuring me...

[2.2 Straight six]

i drank to much. i dont blame anyone exept myself. no matter how much you indoctrinate ids not to do this stuff they'll do it, it's free will. and in my case free booze.

yes, i hate myself for it.

[tenguzero]

24 years and counting. I'm the only one still left on the team out of my entire group of friends. And surprisingly I'm a damn Scorpio to boot.

You know, it's kind of funny how so many people usually say stuff like "Bah, it was nothing. People always make too big a deal out of it." etc. And yet, those are often the same people who are the first to shoot me tidbits of "advice" like: "don't just settle, because that's what I did" and other such articles that really lead me to believe that they took it more to heart than they'll admit.

Troublingly enough, I'm sure if i dig back far enough through the archives, I could possibly find my first reply to an instance of this revolving topic, and it probably went something like the one above, except with the "24" replaced by a "20" or something -- and I'm sure back at that time, I never expected to ever be saying "24". But here I am.

[imtheoneandonlyD]

I do regret it, hell i didnt love her...i just wanted to do it.

[MunG35]

18... and still got it...

[vinnym86]

Originally Posted by MunG35

18... and still got it...

wha?? lost it at 18, but u still got it?