got a date with a teacher...

[ghostrx7]

actually im not sure how im gonna handle that.... i told karoline about the date, and shes the type that will get jealous and want me more, but im gonna have to either resist, or be honest with erin if something does happen(which will hurt my chances) heres a pic for the inquiring minds...lol

[BLU CIVIC]

so you're whipped on ur 1st date, huh

[00accord44]

Purdy lady you got there. I suggest you give that Karoline a reality check asap if you wanna have a relationship with the hot teacher. I know you told her about Karoline, but I don't imagine she'll be very accepting of you continuing that "relationship"

[ghostrx7]

good advice, i think thats my plan brother...

[Oz]

Not a bad looker at all.....

Methinks Karoline will try and screw it up for you. She only sleeps with you to make sure your not getting into a relationship with anyone else (she has to be unhappy, so do you). My 2c.

[ghostrx7]

very good assumption, i could see that happining. u guys might think im crazy, but this girl ashley that i sleep with every few weeks is coming over from the bar. she wants me bad she says. i cant really resist.... if erin wants a relationship, ill give her one, but im still single i guess, right? i know, im a pervert..... what can i say....

[Oz]

Sex is sex, emotional relationships are based on trust however, so decide what you want now, then do it.

[00accord44]

I agree with Oz. You said in the other thread that you think you want a serious relationship. If you want one, then you gotta act like it. If you wanna build an actual relationship where you trust each other then you gotta break old ways. Maybe this will be your "last hurrah" if need be.

Just my from one Chris to another mang

[BLU CIVIC]

Originally Posted by ghostrx7

very good assumption, i could see that happining. u guys might think im crazy, but this girl ashley that i sleep with every few weeks is coming over from the bar. she wants me bad she says. i cant really resist.... if erin wants a relationship, ill give her one, but im still single i guess, right? i know, im a pervert..... what can i say....

so what's it gonna be

[ghostrx7]

well, i took advantage lastnight. shes not a sketchy girl, so she'd be cool with me telling her that i dont wanna see her anymore when things blossom with erin. i have decided what i want, but i still have to see what erin wants. if she wants to get serious, my "sitcom" is gonna end. when she came over i got that happy giddy feeling, like i was a lucky man to be taking her out. we had a great time, and planned to hang out saturday. you guys are all right, sex is sex, and relationships are much different. chris, i think it was kinda the last hurra kinda deal. it was just too easy and convienent to pass up this time. she came over when i was already in bed, she doesnt ask questions, and doesnt expect a relationship outta me(altho i know she wishes she did.) it was fun, but i believe id b all about erin, and erin only, if shes willing to do that. i guess im kinda hesitant cause i liked her ALOT when i first started hanging out with her, and she didnt feel the same. i guess once she got to know me, my personality won her over. to an outsider my life probably seems pretty hecktic ey?lol tonight is michelle's(karolines old roomate) birthday, and we are all going out partyin. erin has another party to go to. i told karoline about erin, lets see how this psycho reacts to that!lol im gonna try to keep my distance from her tho, shes the one that will bring me drama that i definately dont want any part of. lastweek at work i was hungover so bad i was gettin sick left and right. im gonna try to maybe just smoke some reevy and chill instead of being a drunk maniac. we'll see if i could stick to this plan!lol

[ghostrx7]

well, stuck to my plan, i came home to like 4 people chillin with my roomate. i told them i aint going out. they beg me like fiendish crackheads, then i explode and tell em, i gotta freakin work! i just left without sayin a word. i wanted to say, "U'd know i wasnt going out if u just called me.." karoline called me and wanted to come over and watch a movie and lay around. i told her i was going to my friends house. i ended up gettin fryed and playin nba for x360. boring night for me, but i feel great today!lol hopefully i have my date tonight. oh ya, when i came home my roomies girl jessie was askin who i slept with thurs. i guess she woke my roomate up with her screams and he told her.(what a douche) jessie is like bestfriends with erin(teacher). she also said that in front of my friends that i dont want knowing my personal life. i didnt even tell them i went on a date with erin! so much for a "personal" life!!! well, if i go out tonight with the teach, im gonna have a serious talk with her and explain myself. im gonna tell her that if she thinks theres a chance of a relationship, i want it! at least jessie is cool and wont tell her, but her knowing cause my roomie cant keep his mouth shut pisses me off.....

[turtlecrxsi]

Well, this all sounds like it was bound to happen. So what did Erin do when you had the "talk" with her? Or has that happened yet?

[ghostrx7]

i called her saturday and she was at happy hour with her friends. i asked her to call me later, but she might of thought i was gonna call her(cause it was loud). i called once sunday and left a message, but she didnt call me back. i wont call her ever again cause thats the way i am. if she wants to call me, i will take her out again. it pisses me off cause she makes me nervous when i talk to her. i never get that feeling with anyone else......... i did manage to stay sober friday. and avoided karoline fri and sat. she left me messages etc.... but i didnt call her back. i guess im gonna go back to good old chris until the teacher comes around.... im kinda distraught tho, i have a crush on this girl, and i think my nervousness, and eagerness might scare her away. i never have this issue either, usually im the one in control!!!!

[BLU CIVIC]

[00accord44]

So she most likely found out that you did some random chick after you already told her about some other random chick you mess with and now suddenly communications have ceased... interesting.

Originally Posted by ghostrx7

...i called once sunday and left a message, but she didnt call me back. i wont call her ever again cause thats the way i am. if she wants to call me, i will take her out again...

I'm the same way with the phone and I let everybody know it. My basic rule is if I make three attempts to contact someone and none of them are met with an answer or return contact, then I'll most likely never contact them again. It doesn't matter if the three attempts are spread between a day or a year, three is it. Girls can't stand it, but the ones that tested it saw it was true

Originally Posted by BLU CIVIC