when did being a bitch become cool?

[drewh4386]

In response to the title, I'd say when parents stopped whoopin their kids.

[sivic02]

Originally Posted by fobearbc

Im confused, you cant be a man and have a job that isnt manual labor? I worked construction for 4 years, but i get way more satifaction out of my current job, i fix fighter jets. I run and play soccer and i dont lift weights in the gym so im not manly? and as to the hitting a woman thing, its context. I have several friends who if they decided to would beat your ass. It took 4 of us to pull one girl off this dude. if you wanna go lift weights and be big fine, dont hate on people that have a different opinion of fitness. As for the personal grooming, i agree take a shower and go.

What I ment with the whole manual labor thing is that the kids nowdays look down on people with manual labor jobs and think that they are just lazy bastards who dont do anything with their lives.

About the gym thing, it used to be "manly" to be in shape and have some size to you. Now things have shifted so its cool to be skinny as hell and struggle to pick up a can of soup. Theres nothing wrong with running and being in shape, I run 2 miles 3 times a week. Men used to have to chase down wild animals to eat them so sit back, gnaw on some beef jerkey and feel manly about yourself. I dont lift for size I lift for strength, so i can hunt down wild mammoths and kill them with my bare hands...

Oh and drew...

[RickwithaTbird]

^^^ That's a fucked up picture. but it makes me laugh.

Anyways, I disagree with a lot of the details you used. I think we should at least attempt to look good for ladies. They certainly put in effort for us. It's only fair. Plus I feel better when I think I look good. I like getting looks from girls. Why are you too lazy to keep yourself up? Another thing, I certainly havent noticed any decline of women who like muscles. There are women who are into all kinds of things. Some like em skinny, some like em strong, some like em tall, some like em short. Stop complaining about everyone else because it's none of your business. It sounds like you're more upset at the women for not liking you better than the skiny guys.

Can we say "sexual frustration". Take a minute and think about what you're thinking. Why are you so unhappy? Does this stem from your early childhood? Why can't you just be happy with yourself and let everyone else do what they want?

[Toksin]

Originally Posted by Oz

To most of this thread. Nothing wrong with generally taking care of yourself and pride in your appearance, but you're not fucking female so stop fucking acting like it.

Hear, hear!

Nothing wrong with dress codes either, keeps a lot of fuckwits out. You don't need to be a unshaved dirty monkey to be a man.

Slightly on topic: LOL at two asian guys at the gym the other day. Dressed like they're going out into town, one wearing a stupid cap/hat thing, and doing 4kg hammer curls (8 lbs?) and bench pressing with JUST the bar.

As for the manual labour thing - most labourers/mechanics RULE. Funniest people ever.

[sivic02]

Originally Posted by RickwithaTbird

Can we say "sexual frustration". Take a minute and think about what you're thinking. Why are you so unhappy? Does this stem from your early childhood? Why can't you just be happy with yourself and let everyone else do what they want?

Ok Freud. I wasnt sexually frustrated when i first wrote this post but I am now that I havent gotten laid in about a week because the girl im dating freaked me out when she wanted me to spend a weekend with her parents after only dating a few weeks. Im happy with myself, its just that everyone else is wrong, once everyone realizes that im always right and they are always wrong things will be a lot better.

[RickwithaTbird]

Originally Posted by sivic02

Im happy with myself, its just that everyone else is wrong, once everyone realizes that im always right and they are always wrong things will be a lot better.

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glad we had this talk.

[fobearbc]

Originally Posted by sivic02

its just that everyone else is wrong, once everyone realizes that im always right and they are always wrong things will be a lot better.

that makes sense, i think i misunderstood. and that is funny

[uranium235powered]

Well, referring to the "Could you hit a gilr" thread, I was joking incase nobody realized. Nothing wrong with wearing a pink T-shirt. I wear one sometimes. If I have time, I'll spike my hair so that it looks nice and neat, otherwise I just leave it the way I got up. I wear any shirt on the top of my drawer, and pants that match. However, I do like shoes, like every girl. I believe that shoes shows your tastes. Picking between 5 pairs of running shoes, 3 pairs of dress shoes, 2 pairs of sandals and 2 pairs of boots is sometimes challenging. Need to shop for some shoes again, I have my eyes set on a pair of Adidas...

However, I admit, I seem to be one of the guys that act like a girl. I was overprotected by my mom and wasn't allowed to face the world until I was like 12, so practically I fell into my mom's footsteps rather than my dad's. I love new clothes, new shoes, and jewellery. However, I have to wear uniform at school so it doesn't really matter. Maybe I'm just the odd one out, but I really don't see a problem with it. I still get all the chicks.

[drewh4386]

Originally Posted by uranium235powered

Well, referring to the "Could you hit a gilr" thread, I was joking incase nobody realized. Nothing wrong with wearing a pink T-shirt. I wear one sometimes. If I have time, I'll spike my hair so that it looks nice and neat, otherwise I just leave it the way I got up. I wear any shirt on the top of my drawer, and pants that match. However, I do like shoes, like every girl. I believe that shoes shows your tastes. Picking between 5 pairs of running shoes, 3 pairs of dress shoes, 2 pairs of sandals and 2 pairs of boots is sometimes challenging. Need to shop for some shoes again, I have my eyes set on a pair of Adidas...

However, I admit, I seem to be one of the guys that act like a girl. I was overprotected by my mom and wasn't allowed to face the world until I was like 12, so practically I fell into my mom's footsteps rather than my dad's. I love new clothes, new shoes, and jewellery. However, I have to wear uniform at school so it doesn't really matter. Maybe I'm just the odd one out, but I really don't see a problem with it. I still get all the chicks.

so what are you trying to say?




is that why your avatar says that?

[TerminalVelocity]

first, I like bacardi raz, and smirnoff ras

I also sometimes like taking shots of Jack, smirnoff vodka *yes...the 80 proof, not the malt beverage*

I also like to wear collered shirts sometimes, and I use weight machines at my gym, it helps I go alone and thus dont have a spotter. I also use free weights for a few muscle groups.

I go to clubs with dress codes.

I have worked clearical jobs, and jobs with no hard work at all.

I had to knock into a woman and grab her arms, and take her down to restrain her as she was slaming her fists into my face.

I dont believe anyone should hit anyone without just cause. This dosent mean he called you a pussy ass, or some other name. This dosent mean he threatened you.

The part about context pretty well covers the rest of how I feel about that.

And I was an electrician for 6 months, I worked at UPS loading and unloading trucks all night for a year, and I worked in a blueprinting shop for a few years, which is more work than you would think. Especally when you do maintence as well as blueprinting/reprographics

See, problem I notice is, the girls go for the assholes, the controlling pricks who DO hit them. Ive helped girls get away from abusive assholes...they always just go right back. "Why wont he do it again?" I ask, responce

"Because he said he loves me" or "Because hes nice" or "HE WOULD NEVER DO THAT!!!, FUCK YOU FOR SAYING HE WOULD EVER DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT!"

so yah...maby its not because many guys have become more preppy, or cant break a sweat if their lives depended on it. But maby its because chivilary and honor and just being a good person has left this country.

[fobearbc]

ive asked every women i know,mom and wife included, why they go for the bad guys. Everyone(all 7) said " because i thought i could change them" When will women figure out they cant change, us just tolerate us till they out live us? Or find someone who will not treat them poorly. Its up to them the day they stop pandering to the bad guy is the day the bad guy will change....

[-Davo]

Originally Posted by fobearbc

ive asked every women i know,mom and wife included, why they go for the bad guys. Everyone(all 7) said " because i thought i could change them" When will women figure out they cant change, us just tolerate us till they out live us? Or find someone who will not treat them poorly. Its up to them the day they stop pandering to the bad guy is the day the bad guy will change....

I actually had a thread about that in here somewhere called "Nice Guys Finish Last", take a look, but don't reply to it, because it's old, and dead, oh so very dead.

[sivic02]

Of course if you ask the guy why they went for the good girl they will say "because I thought I could train them" so its a two way street.

[Mediocrity]

This could fall under the "survival of the fittest" theory...

In that if women are responding to men dressing like emo kids, then more men are going to dress like that.. for women.

[drunken monkey]

woo.... never thought of that.
i mean, if all of the women dumb enough to think they can change a woman beater actually get their hands on a habitual woman beater, eventually, there'd be no no women like that....
and then the women beaters will have less chance of reproduction (rape not included....).

so, we will lose women beaters AND the women who accept it.

and what the hell is emo?