Soul Mates - Page 2

NSX · 01-22-2003, 07:50 PM

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Originally posted by Misundaztood
How many nice guys have soulmates?

Yah, seriously; I hope I'm not being vain or anything; but I consider myself one of those people too: virtuous, no sex until after marriage, always helping; but girls always go for the bad boys. It sucks, are all girls like this?

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Originally posted by Misundaztood
For me, I do not believe there's anyone out there for me.

Well, you have to be proactive; increase your probability of meeting your soulmate...meet more people!

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Originally posted by Spec2 Girl
I definitely believe in soul mates and as soppy as it sounds I know that I've met and am married to mine.

Suislide · 01-23-2003, 12:53 AM

my problem seems to be that i make friends with the girl first, and near me it seems that girls like to date guys that they've only known for a week and know nothing about. then here i come, knowing them for a year, becoming great friends with them and if i ask them out, they say "but it will ruin our friendship". SO?? aren't relationships SUPPOSED to be based on FRIENDSHIP??? and so it doesn't work out and we break up, that doesn't mean i'm never going to talk to her again! she'll still be my friend! i would never see a girl walking down the street and walk up and ask her to date me just because i didn't want to ruin the friendship i have with the girl i truly like. i might think she's hot or other various thoughts (:alien2: ), but i wouldn't be thinking about an actual relationship unless i got to know her and found out if she was right for me or not. it's all way too confusing for THIS guy to work out...

speediva · 01-23-2003, 01:19 AM

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Originally posted by S13_Iketani
and so it doesn't work out and we break up, that doesn't mean i'm never going to talk to her again! she'll still be my friend!

That's your worst mistake. You DON'T DATE FRIENDS. It's BAD. It never is "just friends" after a romance fails. Honest. I speak with plenty of experience in this.... I have managed to keep ONE friend after a romance, and I still don't talk to him often. DON'T DATE FRIENDS. DON'T DATE WITHIN YOUR CIRCLE OF FRIENDS. That is all for now.

Steel · 01-23-2003, 03:22 AM

Short answer: No.

It's all just a big mindfuck to make shit more meaningful than it really is. But it backfires and hurts more than anything.

darkness · 01-23-2003, 05:07 AM

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Originally posted by Steel
Short answer: No.

It's all just a big mindfuck to make shit more meaningful than it really is. But it backfires and hurts more than anything.

Exactly, hence why I don't care anymore and have given up.

Chris · 01-23-2003, 02:16 PM

Soulmates? Sure, i believe it could happen. Still, I agree with S13_Iketani, i want to make sure it would work before i invest lots of time/money in a relationship. But, that doesnt seem to be a good idea....

I think the best way to meet a soul mate is to, er, no idea

NSX · 01-23-2003, 03:12 PM

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Originally posted by saturntangerine
You DON'T DATE FRIENDS. It's BAD.

So do you suggest as S_13Iketani says:

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Originally posted by S13_Iketani
that girls like to date guys that they've only known for a week and know nothing about.

Do you suggest that we hit on girls we hardly know? Rather than get to know and understand them before we politely ask them out?

What a paradox?!

Chris · 01-23-2003, 08:22 PM

Yup, so far, that seems to be the way it goes. At work, a talked to a girl for about 2 weeks, then she told me she wanted to give me a bj

Serious. I was goin for someone else at the time, and it was goin good, so i said no.

But then there are ppl who I get along with great when Im around them, and would love to go out with them, but alas, now they dont want to.

It seems that men and woman often are on completely different thought patterns.

NSX · 01-24-2003, 05:36 PM

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Originally posted by Chris
she told me she wanted to give me a bj

Slut...

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Originally posted by Chris
It seems that men and woman often are on completely different thought patterns.

And they said men don't understand women?

It works both ways

Chris · 01-25-2003, 12:30 AM

Yeah, the other day, in the staff room, a girl was saying how her bf was saying that he really cared about her and liked her in so many ways, but didnt want a serious relationship. She couldnt understand. To every guy there, it was obvious; he wants to get physical, thats it

NSX · 01-25-2003, 01:33 PM

Whoa; that's ironic on so many levels...
But I guess that's what makes bf/gf relationships so interesting: It's unpredictable!

speediva · 01-26-2003, 03:57 AM

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Originally posted by NSX

Do you suggest that we hit on girls we hardly know? Rather than get to know and understand them before we politely ask them out?

What a paradox?!

Not really. I mean, don't wait a year to ask a girl out. You can get plenty of an idea of a girl from a period of about a month. But you don't always have to wait. Sometimes it's best to jump in feet-first. The guy who is now in pursuit of me had only met me 2 weeks before we first went out on a "date" type thing... Doesn't mean that much of anything "physical" had to happen, but we had a great time talking and comparing experiences.

darkness · 01-26-2003, 04:53 AM

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Originally posted by saturntangerine

Not really. I mean, don't wait a year to ask a girl out. You can get plenty of an idea of a girl from a period of about a month. But you don't always have to wait. Sometimes it's best to jump in feet-first. The guy who is now in pursuit of me had only met me 2 weeks before we first went out on a "date" type thing... Doesn't mean that much of anything "physical" had to happen, but we had a great time talking and comparing experiences.

Some of us don't feel comfortable doing that though. we need time to figure out if theres wnough compatibility.

NSX · 01-27-2003, 10:55 AM

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Originally posted by darkness
Some of us don't feel comfortable doing that though. we need time to figure out if theres wnough compatibility.

Yah. I'm interested in a girl right now, but I'm not sure if she feels the same way yet; how should I approach this?

speediva · 01-27-2003, 12:07 PM

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Originally posted by NSX

Yah. I'm interested in a girl right now, but I'm not sure if she feels the same way yet; how should I approach this?

Dude, just go for it... What's the worst that happens??? You get the f-word (as in friend) and then you wait. Can you date someone after a year? Sure, but in every experience I have with waiting like that it never works out, and something from the past comes back to bite you hard-core in the ass cheek. It's usually something that happened in the friendship, too, thus why dating friends is BAD.

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